"What is Spanking Therapy?"

For some with a need to be spanked, spanking is less about punishment and more about overall motivation. For these people regular spankings (usually once a week) are given, along with a reminder of the things they need to work on. Being spanked clears their minds, allowing them to focus on things they were ignoring before.

Spanking Therapy should ONLY be used on teens and adults who have expressed a need for it. This is a relatively small number of people, and spanking therapy will not work for those who do not agree that they need it.

Unwarranted spankings (spankings where no crime has been committed and no therapy agreement has been reached) are abusive by nature, and should always be avoided.

Ideally spanking therapy should take place at a set place and time, allowing the therapy recipient to anticipate the coming discipline between sessions.  At the start of a session you should both sit down and discuss anything the spankee feels he or she has done to deserve a more harsh or lighter spanking, and then you should go over the things you want to remind him or her of, and the things you think they need to continue to work on. For example, for an unmotivated adult you may say, "I want you to continue to focus on your work, as well as keeping your personal life in order." Remind them of any goals set that have not been fully attained (weight loss, stop smoking, etc.)

Deliver the spanking with no games. Counting licks and stupid chants like "please sir may I have another" distract attention away from the spanking and reduces it's effects. Ideally the spanking should be given in silence, allowing the smacking sound to be the only noise.. an audible reinforcement of the discipline. You should only speak to give necessary commands, such as adjusting the spankee's position if he or she has moved.

After the spanking, you should hug the person you just spanked, and forgive them for what they did to earn the spanking with a reminder to avoid that behavior in the future. Then allow them some quiet time to think and recover from the discipline session.

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