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News and information about the board, as well as rules of conduct.

Questions and feedback related to SN.

Need help posting or something moved? Whether it is a simple question of where to find something, name change request, a concern about another member - feel free to start a private thread here that only staff members can read and reply to. 

Welcome to Spanking Needs! Come introduce yourself in this forum. Don't be a stranger!!!

Discussion area for all those needing to give or receive spankings.To find friends or a Spanking Partner please check out our Meeting Hall section to see which best fits your needs.

This is the place to share advice and safety tips for those that may be new to the lifestyle or a refresher for those who have been around a while. 

Maybe you're not sure, maybe you’re a Spanker, Spankee, Switch, or another title (or even no title); if you want to talk about your role in this lifestyle and how it makes you feel this is a good spot.

Discuss your relationships and your adult spanking needs. These can be non-sexual, platonic, intimate or romantic relationships. Success stories? Frustration? Advice? Do you have a "Vanilla" partner? Struggling with understanding a Spanko partner? Do you need help discussing your needs with a family member, friend or medical provider? Discussions of your needs in a healthy and appropriate way. These are posts of "coming out of the closet" so to speak. Do not be ashamed of who you are.

Forum for those who have a sexual interest in spanking and being spanked. You can be both emotionally AND sexually attracted to the belt or paddle, so here's your place to talk about it.

Spanking Therapy and Spanking in General in the news.

This is a spot for talking about how we create the structure of our various arrangements. What works for you. Perhaps you don’t have a set of rules for your arrangement and that’s OK too. But do you have boundaries or hard limits you want to talk through? What implements make you tick?

Sometimes you just want to (or have to) tell other people about the punishment you got (or gave). Come here for commiseration, or as a way to process through your experiences. What punishments have worked for you? Which made you (or your partner) feel frustrated or resentful?

A lifestyle such as many of us live can be very lonely and frustrating at times.. Seek, give and support one another in this section. (Music, quotes, prayers, songs, etc, all welcomed!!) This can also be used to talk about our religion and our desires.

A place to talk about our emotional, physical, and sexual health -- without being judged.

Got something to share that is unconnected to spanking discussion? Talk about it here.

Get to know each other!

Find friends and connections. This is not a sexual posting section.

Post your event idea's and your local events you have planned. 

If you are looking for online only please post here.

Post all your art here. Please keep it tasteful!

Fictional and non fictional writing. An outlet for your creative side of spanking, or life experiences, Stories, poetry. etc. Share it!

Chatty fun. Good old time-wasting fun stuff!

For discussing role playing and recruiting participants for a role play of any sort (including age play and ABDL that includes discipline).

Controversial subject matter. No flaming! NO DEBATES ABOUT CHILDREN!!!!

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