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Maybe you're not sure, maybe you’re a Spanker, Spankee, Switch, or another title (or even no title); if you want to talk about your role in this lifestyle and how it makes you feel this is a good spot.
Discuss your relationships and your adult spanking needs. These can be non-sexual, platonic, intimate or romantic relationships. Success stories? Frustration? Advice? Do you have a "Vanilla" partner? Struggling with understanding a Spanko partner? Do you need help discussing your needs with a family member, friend or medical provider? Discussions of your needs in a healthy and appropriate way. These are posts of "coming out of the closet" so to speak. Do not be ashamed of who you are.
This is a spot for talking about how we create the structure of our various arrangements. What works for you. Perhaps you don’t have a set of rules for your arrangement and that’s OK too. But do you have boundaries or hard limits you want to talk through? What implements make you tick?
Sometimes you just want to (or have to) tell other people about the punishment you got (or gave). Come here for commiseration, or as a way to process through your experiences. What punishments have worked for you? Which made you (or your partner) feel frustrated or resentful?
A lifestyle such as many of us live can be very lonely and frustrating at times.. Seek, give and support one another in this section. (Music, quotes, prayers, songs, etc, all welcomed!!) This can also be used to talk about our religion and our desires.
Just a little humor to start the day. What was your first spanking like?
I shouldn't need to preface it as such, but I am asking about consensual, spanko spanking. No stories of non-con or adult-kid, please.
Weekly spankings? What are those?? LOL! Yeah...an "uncle" plans on moving to my city...possibly even getting a place at same complex where I live. He made mention of the possibility of weekly spankings. Wow. I don't even know what that will be like! I'm used to the occasional spankings every 4 to 6 months. Getting spanked on a weekly basis? That will certainly be different! 😬