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How arousing is a red bottom after a spanking to you? Is it an integral part of the spanking, or is it just incidental? 

I like to see or have a pink to red bottom. I definitely do not like to see bruising or skin damage though.

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I consider a nice pink/red color to be pretty paint on a canvas, for sure. I am not a fan of breaking the skin or heavy bruising, although it sometimes happens. Everyone marks differently.

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I love getting my bottom good and red. Bruising, I don't care about seeing, but as a new spankee, I'm realistically likely to bruise some at any satisfactory level of play, either right then or coming on after. I'm finding that I like the sensation bruises give me for the first day or so, but after that it starts to annoy me. Perhaps because after that, it starts to itch and prickle along with the lingering ache. Not very comfortable.

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My butt has been spanked so much over the last 16 years. I honestly believe my tolerance level is much much higher for severity than it was when we were first married. Maybe I just "think" that, but it seems to be true to me. My husband agrees.

All that to say...yes...at least for me, the long lingering soreness,redness, burn...is important to my whole experience of "getting it" from my man. And, I guess what I am saying...for me...ok...not recommending others should be like me at all....it just takes a pretty good hard spanking to do that...because of my increased "tough" butt...lol...and my gradually increased physical and emotional tolerance level over the years.

Bruising...deep bruising...is really not something I value in my spankings. what I do benefit from, however, is lingering burning sting, surface discolorization, surface weals and markings that linger, slight weeping of whelps, but not deep cuts. My husband has developed ways to take me to such levels...especially stinging burning spankings and whippings....over the years with minimal "bruising." My greatest risk of bruising is when he paddles me or uses a thicker heavier "prison" strap...which he does not do often. So...I will not say I never bruise...but...compared to the total number of spankings I have experienced over the years...it has definitely decreased significantly. Bruising is not arousing for me, personally....but red streaks, red butt, burning stinging redness, weals that last a week or so...all those things....serve to extend my sense of being disciplined and trained....in the string passionate way I need my man to deal with me. I hope he never decides to back off.

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Its hard to use a small mirror to see how red she made my bottom that does not stop me from trying but the most important thing to me is that it was severe enough that I am sore for several days after.  For some reason the harder she spanks me the more I love her. 

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I have to admit I love the sight of a red bottom... Especially if it has nice defined lines from the cane or nice circles from the paddle... the more bruised the better!

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I tell my brats: “trust me, you don’t want me to “see red” or I’ll soon being seeing my favorite color as I blister your entire bottom.  Pink is fine, too.  Unless an EE likes bruises, I keep them to a minimum.  I don’t like seeing broken skin at all.

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5 hours ago, spankingpurist said:

I tell my brats: “trust me, you don’t want me to “see red” or I’ll soon being seeing my favorite color as I blister your entire bottom. 

Ha, being told that would only encourage me!

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On 5/28/2023 at 2:24 AM, nicoleS39 said:

but red streaks, red butt, burning stinging redness, weals that last a week or so...all those things....serve to

Totally agree with nicole S39, I love my butt looking/feeling like that.

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