Describe how you would spank me

[AbbySpanko]

I'm a 24 year old woman, with long light brown hair and warm brown eyes, who desperately wants a man to spank me. Tell me how you'd do it!

Edited March 7 by AbbySpanko

[AbbySpanko]

Sorry for any confusion, but I'm currently not interested/available for any in person meet-ups! I'm just dipping my toes in the water, finally embracing fantasys I've had my whole life!

[David5]

Depends on what kind of spanking your looking for. Discipline, erotic, or something in-between. But either way you would be scolded for your naughty behavior. (whatever that behavior was. I'm sure we could come up with something)

[dmirk]

Don’t worry about dipping your toe in. 
 

Read the forums and you’ll find all sorts. 
 

I sent you a message to discuss it. 

[AbbySpanko]

13 minutes ago, David5 said:

Depends on what kind of spanking your looking for. Discipline, erotic, or something in-between. But either way you would be scolded for your naughty behavior. (whatever that behavior was. I'm sure we could come up with something)

I think I could go for any of those! As long as I end up with a red ass in the end

[spankingpurist]

Well said😉. A rosy pink, blushing red, or blistered red bottom is indeed the goal in the “end.” What skilled and caring ERs want to know, per David5 above, is how you’d like to get there. The journey, so to speak, can be more fun, if it matches your fantasies and desires. The better you can communicate your wishes, the more satisfying (and appropriately reddening) the results will be. No need to be shy, especially in this forum. When you’re feeling comfortable, why not articulate the fantasies that in your words you’ve “had your whole life.” We’ll do our best to help you realize them virtually first. Then, when you’re ready, we’ll try to help you safely find the right ER.

Since you’re clearly a charming, young lady with, as you put it, “long light brown hair and warm brown eyes” (who doesn’t love long haired girls with warm brown eyes?) you’ll have lots of suitors. So, take your time to get to know folks here and pick wisely when you’re ready.  Before you proceed, be sure to carefully read the section on: Spanking Safety and Advice. 

[Dominator994]

What type of spanking are you looking for?

[Dominator994]

I would make you undressed completely. I would scold you for all the naughty behavior you have done then I would put you over my knee and spank you with my hand for at least one hour then I would use my small wooden paddle on your bottom and after I thought you had gotten what you deserved. I would bring out the long wooden paddle And spank you until you were nice and red then I would give you one hour of corner time You would stand with your hands on your head for one hour

[AbbySpanko]

3 hours ago, spankingpurist said:

Well said😉. A rosy pink, blushing red, or blistered red bottom is indeed the goal in the “end.” What skilled and caring ERs want to know, per David5 above, is how you’d like to get there. The journey, so to speak, can be more fun, if it matches your fantasies and desires. The better you can communicate your wishes, the more satisfying (and appropriately reddening) the results will be. No need to be shy, especially in this forum. When you’re feeling comfortable, why not articulate the fantasies that in your words you’ve “had your whole life.” We’ll do our best to help you realize them virtually first. Then, when you’re ready, we’ll try to help you safely find the right ER.

Since you’re clearly a charming, young lady with, as you put it, “long light brown hair and warm brown eyes” (who doesn’t love long haired girls with warm brown eyes?) you’ll have lots of suitors. So, take your time to get to know folks here and pick wisely when you’re ready.  Before you proceed, be sure to carefully read the section on: Spanking Safety and Advice. 

Thank you for all the advice! Truly I do like to experiment and I was hoping this thread could be about others fantasies so I could come up with some more of my own. But perhaps at some point, I'll share some more of my personal dreams ☺️

[DisobedientHuby]

I think what you need is someone who cares enough to give you a proper spanking.   If it were me I would make sure you were wearing appropriate attire first, so you would be required to wear a dress that could easily be pulled up.  I would pull down your panties and have you step out of the completely. I would pull you over my knee raise your dress to reveal you bare bottom. I would use a hairbrush or paddle to make your bottom red.  It would not matter what you had done since it is clear you need a spanking.  I would paddle you slowly at first pausing to hear your reaction and feel you squirm on my lap.  Once you had become accustomed to the steadying sting I would increase the intensity hard and fast until you were crying your eyes out.  I would hope since you need this you would not use your safe word because you need to be spanked beyond wanting it to stop. You need to remember this for a long time.  Once I am satisfied that you will not forget anytime soon. I will stop and let you up. Then and then only would I comfort you but only for a few minutes.  Then I would grab you by the arm and walk you to the corner. I would tell you the rules of standing in the corner and warn you that if you touch you bottom or take you nose out of the corner you will earn another spanking. It will be over when I say it is over.

So I am a switch usually punished  by my wife. But I would have no problems taking a naughty deserving young woman in need over my knee. Only if my wife allowed it which she would not. 

[Bramblewine]

18 hours ago, AbbySpanko said:

I think I could go for any of those! As long as I end up with a red ass in the end

Do you  really just want to be spanked because you want it? Or do you need some justification for it?

Some of us really only care about the spanking. Anything else, like roleplay or punishment or funishment, is just window dressing. Others really need it to be for something.

If you're in the first category, it probably wouldn't work well for you as actual punishment. Maybe funishment or roleplay would work, but it could also be done just because, no real reason needed. The spanking itself would be what you want. If you're in the second category, a "just because" spanking will never do, but you might be responsive to it as an actual punishment, and/or you would probably enjoy a funishment or roleplay scene.

Since you say you could go for anything that gets you a red ass in the end, it sounds to me like you're on the "just because I want it" side.

[AbbySpanko]

4 minutes ago, Bramblewine said:

Do you  really just want to be spanked because you want it? Or do you need some justification for it?

Some of us really only care about the spanking. Anything else, like roleplay or punishment or funishment, is just window dressing. Others really need it to be for something.

If you're in the first category, it probably wouldn't work well for you as actual punishment. Maybe funishment or roleplay would work, but it could also be done just because, no real reason needed. The spanking itself would be what you want. If you're in the second category, a "just because" spanking will never do, but you might be responsive to it as an actual punishment, and/or you would probably enjoy a funishment or roleplay scene.

Since you say you could go for anything that gets you a red ass in the end, it sounds to me like you're on the "just because I want it" side.

Haha yes it's definitely more just because I want it, but I do enjoy roleplay. As far as discipline goes, I truly enjoy fulfilling other people's fantasies which often have to do with spanking a naughty girl, so I will happily play the part

[David5]

Fulfilling your fantasy while fulfilling someone else's that how it should be in a role play. And what ever role you decide to play I'm sure you will play it very well. If it's just because you want it that's when role play is the best. I bet you can come up with all kinds of reasons to get your behind nice and red hot

[Mardigras]

Greetings

[Dominator994]

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