TroubleMaker76 Posted February 17 Share Posted February 17 I feel there are times when a bottom needs time to heal. Other than spankings what kinds of punishments do you give or receive? Link to comment
danadares Posted February 18 Share Posted February 18 In such a case, I would first question why so many punishments are needed, and why the results are not better. Other punishments can be the denial of various pleasures, essay writing, chores or whatever fits the person's life and other obligations. I like to stick to traditional domestic methods, but it also depends on the desires of the one being punished, which might call for more diabolical or exotic consequences. 1 Link to comment
BenningPolk Posted February 18 Share Posted February 18 When your bottom needs a break their is always your top. 1 Link to comment
Justin Jones Posted February 18 Share Posted February 18 (edited) Corner time and mouth washing are really the only ones we use. . She once got mad a spilled something on floor intentionally. We agreed she'd hand scrub the whole floor naked . Edited February 18 by Justin Jones 1 Link to comment
Larry61 Posted February 19 Share Posted February 19 Male chastity and naked chores. I question my self if this is punishment because I enjoy it 1 Link to comment
DisobedientHuby Posted February 21 Share Posted February 21 Chastity and corner time 1 Link to comment
Spankingmyhuby Posted February 22 Share Posted February 22 Other punishments other than spanking includes corner time, writing lines, extensive chores, grounding, early bedtime, loss of tv privileges. Yes these are childish punishments, but the fact that I still need to give my husband spankings additional correction is sometimes needed. MS L. 1 Link to comment
underpants Posted February 22 Share Posted February 22 2 hours ago, Spankingmyhuby said: Other punishments other than spanking includes corner time, writing lines, extensive chores, grounding, early bedtime, loss of tv privileges. Not being allowed to watch tv and being sent to bed early with a spanked bottom sounds like a very appropriate punishment for a husband who behaves like a naughty boy. That must really show him that you wear the pants in your marriage. Do you often punish him in this way? 1 Link to comment
MrBottoms Posted February 22 Share Posted February 22 On 2/18/2023 at 2:17 AM, danadares said: more diabolical or exotic consequences. The general idea of discipline is to be as a "deterrent" to discourage further behavior. So, in such cases as needed, other means of discipline shall be imposed. To quote a great philosopher, "Vee have Vays of Sorting you Out" by what ever means necessary. Link to comment
Spankingmyhuby Posted February 22 Share Posted February 22 8 hours ago, underpants said: Not being allowed to watch tv and being sent to bed early with a spanked bottom sounds like a very appropriate punishment for a husband who behaves like a naughty boy. That must really show him that you wear the pants in your marriage. Do you often punish him in this way? Well it doesn't happen that often maybe 3-4 times a year. But yes I do wear the pants in our marriage . I proceed to turn the TV off and warm his panties and bare behind over my knee. MS L. 1 Link to comment
underpants Posted February 22 Share Posted February 22 4 hours ago, Spankingmyhuby said: I proceed to turn the TV off and warm his panties and bare behind over my knee. Much better than arguing! I think a lot of relationships would be improved if the woman punished her male partner like this. 1 Link to comment
Submissive Danny Posted February 23 Share Posted February 23 (edited) There are so many other punishments that I get but usually I get a spanking first then I might get a mouth soaping, corner time, extra chores, essay writing, enema and sometimes made to wear a 2 piece bikini or one piece swim suit to the beach. Edited February 23 by Submissive Danny 1 Link to comment
David! Posted February 23 Share Posted February 23 My wife finds most other punishments take too much time and effort from her, some result in depriving others not just me, and are just less effective. So my punishment is always a good spanking: quick and easy for her, long lasting unpleasantness for me. But I don't get spanked all that often, not that I'm particularly well-behaved. Still, I can count the number of times she's spanked me twice in the same week on my fingers, and that's over more than 20 years... Getting a sound spanking when you can still feel the last one is worth avoiding! 1 Link to comment
Hank The crank Posted February 23 Share Posted February 23 On 2/18/2023 at 7:18 AM, BenningPolk said: When your bottom needs a break their is always your top. Some nipple clamps or tit whipping will do the job if you enjoy it! Link to comment
Bramblewine Posted February 23 Share Posted February 23 1 hour ago, Hank The crank said: Some nipple clamps or tit whipping will do the job if you enjoy it! Are we talking about punishment here, or "punishment"? Seems to me that if you enjoy it, it's a different category. 3 Link to comment
spankingpurist Posted February 23 Share Posted February 23 Excellent point!!! Let’s see what Troublemaker likes (and doesn’t). Needless to say, her ER needs to find out in order to establish a plan that will help her reach her goals. Both positive rewards and punishments in addition to spanking should be carefully contemplated, discussed, and mutually agree upon. Probably a very good idea to make her write them down so there’s far less room for misunderstanding. 1 Link to comment
KentuckyGuy Posted February 23 Share Posted February 23 I think everyone hates having to write lines. 1 Link to comment
Hank The crank Posted February 24 Share Posted February 24 22 hours ago, Bramblewine said: Are we talking about punishment here, or "punishment"? Seems to me that if you enjoy it, it's a different category. Sorry if I put it in the wrong section Link to comment
Bramblewine Posted February 24 Share Posted February 24 1 hour ago, Hank The crank said: Sorry if I put it in the wrong section Whether it's in the wrong section or not depends on what the OP thinks. Link to comment
squid54boat Posted February 26 Share Posted February 26 I’ve used corner time, grounding, plugs, diapers/pull-ups, figging, anal, mouthsoaping and a few other things. I feel like it just depends on the person and dynamic. 1 Link to comment
verynaughtyboy8 Posted February 27 Share Posted February 27 I like it on the soles of my feet and palms of my hands as well as the usual. 1 Link to comment
Spank61 Posted March 4 Share Posted March 4 On 2/23/2023 at 7:21 PM, Bramblewine said: Are we talking about punishment here, or "punishment"? Seems to me that if you enjoy it, it's a different category. Well said. It is something going wrong if punishment has just a pleasing effect on the spankee. Link to comment
WiseWhiskers Posted Friday at 05:11 AM Share Posted Friday at 05:11 AM I adore corner time and mouth soaping, and you can always just bully with some undie yanking too! Link to comment
AmariDivine Posted Sunday at 12:25 AM Share Posted Sunday at 12:25 AM That said, I enjoy the emotional and mental aspects of spanking and punishment quite a bit. There is much a person can do if a bottom needs time to heal. Placing the spankee in a vulnerable position over a lap while writing lines or journaling about the cause of the punishment, having a discussion in a vulnerable exposed position about the cause, or other types of punishments that induce pain. I've personally found waxplay wax poured onto a very sore bottom to be quite effective since it reawakens the sting of a spanking but also creates a different sensation. However, this would depend on whether or not there is cut skin. At which point, I would recommend the wax to be dripped on the thighs or areas of the skin where there are no welts. If waxplay is something you've never done but are interested in I highly stress the importance of using waxplay candles because the burning temperatures of the candles are different and safe to be poured onto the skin as opposed to using just any old candle. Link to comment
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