"Group" spankings?

[cat627]

I'm wondering if anyone might be able to share their experiences and/or thoughts about group spankings that would involve 3 or more people, instead of the standard 1 on 1? For example, a situation where maybe more than one 'ee would get spanked at the same time?

For 'ees, do you find it enhances a spanking or takes away from it? Do you see it more as something for "fun" being a "group activity" or can it still take on a serious tone? Maybe comparable to either siblings being spanked together or multiple students in the principles office or something like that?

For 'ers, I'm curious as to whether or not it's more enjoyable to spank more than one 'ee at a time?

I'm also wondering about introverts vs extroverts.  Whether such a thing is just more common for the highly social extroverted types, (And maybe me as a total introvert may have a harder time envisioning it?)



 

[OverTheLapUgo]

So I feel like these situations are just hard to legitimately find yourself in. As an ER i mainly have fantasies about them. My current ee who is also my fiance would NEVER go for it lol. But i do have this cool fantasy where a woman gets into it with my EE in s public place. Like a bar or store. Then we both go spank her together taking turns maybe in the family bathroom or somewhere else if we changed locations. Then maybe i as the ER spank both of them for acting up in the first place. ALL FANTASY AND WILL NEVER HAPPEN FOR ME lol.....But this post made me think of it.  NICE TOPIC!!!!!!!! 

Edited February 8 by OverTheLapUgo

[VIFormDetention]

In the right conditions group spankings can be a most rewarding experience for all concerned. I have, at times, disciplined more than one girl at a time in my study, and with a little effort and understanding from all parties it can make for a memorable occasion.

[verynaughtyboy8]

I used to be very much against this but now am much more open. I do fantasise about sitting outside hearing someone get it knowing I'm next.

[MargaretMom]

I don't know if it is practical, but it makes for an interesting fantasy. Waiting your turn while watching or listening to one in front of you getting a spanking could be very scary-exciting. Standing in the corner and listening (not being allowed to watch) the one after you would be a relief that it is not you, but at the same time you could still vicariously feel the sting and cringe a little at each smack.

Do any spankees ever fantasize (or actually do) Mommy/Daddy spankings with two spankers who are a couple?

[Zhal]

Outside of role play in spanking parties, I just don't hear of it. I suppose it may have been used in schools that spanked, and I didn't go to one of those when I was young, despite my father's fabrication of the "spanking machine" in the principal's office.

[nasbb]

I think its definitely more likely to happen in fantasy or as part of fun/party spankings.

If it was a punishment type spanking I guess would be interesting to see if you would prefer to go first and get it over with knowing the other person is watching or would you want to be the one waiting and seeing exactly what is in store for your own bottom ? Might be a bit of competition to see who could "take" their spanking the best !

[Flspanks]

3 hours ago, MargaretMom said:

Do any spankees ever fantasize (or actually do) Mommy/Daddy spankings with two spankers who are a couple?

I have thought about it as well as getting spanked with someone else butt no experience with either

[iowaguidance]

3 hours ago, MargaretMom said:

 

Do any spankees ever fantasize (or actually do) Mommy/Daddy spankings with two spankers who are a couple?

I have experience on both sides of this. 

[OverTheLapUgo]

3 hours ago, Zhal said:

Outside of role play in spanking parties, I just don't hear of it. I suppose it may have been used in schools that spanked, and I didn't go to one of those when I was young, despite my father's fabrication of the "spanking machine" in the principal's office.

Yea that’s what I’m thinking also….no one ever talks about a legit situation like that to me at least. 

[dmirk]

When I was a kid spanking the neighborhood girls I did that. 

[Bramblewine]

13 hours ago, Zhal said:

Outside of role play in spanking parties, I just don't hear of it. I suppose it may have been used in schools that spanked, and I didn't go to one of those when I was young, despite my father's fabrication of the "spanking machine" in the principal's office.

 

9 hours ago, OverTheLapUgo said:

Yea that’s what I’m thinking also….no one ever talks about a legit situation like that to me at least. 

Who says role play in spanking parties isn't a legit situation?

If you mean, in a genuine discipline dynamic, those don't really leave room for anything but one-on-one spankings. Each couple in a discipline dynamic has their own rules, their own parameters for spanking, and it's usually, maybe always, not something they share with others. If the relationship is a platonic disciplinary dynamic, the same is true. For real punishment spankings to involve more than two people at once, there would have to be multiple spankees who are in the same kind of disciplinary dynamic, they and their disciplinarians would have to know each other very well and be fully aware of each other's discipline parameters, and the spankees would have to both (or all) break the same rules at once.

That kind of scenario is easy to create as a spanking party role play. Pretend to be the students who just cut class or trashed the school, summoned to the principal's office, or the cousins having a sleepover who just got into some mischief, confronted by angry parents, or something like that, and there you have it. But rarely if ever does it fit with an adult disciplinary dynamic.

Not to mention, for most people in disciplinary dynamics, punishments are a deeply personal and emotional matter. Those moments are not something they'd be likely to want to share with anyone outside their dynamic. For shared spankings to be emotionally feasible, the mood has to be much lighter.

Edited February 9 by Bramblewine
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[MrGSpanks]

Very well stated. This comment shows you have a deep understanding of the mental dynamic involved in spankings. I love it!

 

[Chawsee]

In the past I've joked about my fantasy of sitting on a bench with my paddle in hand and a line of men awaiting their turn over my knee. Yeah, that really is one of my fantasies.  But truthfully, the group scene isn't my style. I cherish the emotional intimacy of a one-on-one session so much that I wouldn't want it diluted by a group setting. 

[danadares]

It happened at school a few times, but I've never been involved in an adult group spanking situation. I'm too introverted, and this is an intensely awkward scene. The school situations were the direct opposite of fun.

I've read many accounts of adult domestic discipline over the years that were presented as true, and where multiple people, friends or family, were involved. The appeal for the one telling the story tends to revolve around the added embarrassment caused. Some accounts sound less believable than others, but then I must admit that truth is also sometimes stranger than fiction.

 

[ChastisedChloe]

On 2/8/2023 at 10:48 AM, MargaretMom said:

Do any spankees ever fantasize (or actually do) Mommy/Daddy spankings with two spankers who are a couple?

Absolutely, one of my top fantasies…

[Cowboy_Spanks30]

I have done it a few times and it always starts out fun and many ways to incorporate two brats, secretaries, or naughty girls next door. But at some point feelings become involved and you see things slowly turn south  right before your sad eyes. One was with a girlfriend and someone she had found online for a sister. Started fantastic but the feelings hit.

Once they were both just separate ones that visited me regularly. They both knew of the other (I am always honest), but at one point one of them decided she wanted hers witnessed and later pics of her being spanked. They both agreed, and we had a blast, and I was very fond of each one in their own way. Over time they visited regularly and they decided they wanted to try more and these girls got along really well. They made me a paddle to use on them plus they signed it. we got a mini DV recorder (top of the line then, now try finding one or a player) They both wrote a script each and than they joined together and wrote more. Yes we did make like 5 movies about 30 mins each, we all had the best time ever. Cop stopped them for speeding and they later broke into my house to trash it but got caught. Another were two sisters sent home from school with a note. Once scene had them dressed in very short daisy dukes staying with an uncle in the country, they were drinking under age and caught so too  woodshed with them. One they made anti war signs and protested in front of a military mans house. A long scolding and both soundly spanked.  We had very realistic uniforms as I was in the military and still had one of my issue police uniforms. The girls were no different and spared nothing to make this.
While visiting Canada one got a public spanking as the other watched. We next to Niagara Falls park, kind of across from that (Rainforest cafe?) animal restaurant, my foot on a low railing and several hard spanks over a very short skirt. This is a very public area and I bet hundreds of tourists from all over the world. All while several tourists walked by without saying anything. We were that close. And than tragedy hit, feelings which is fantastic but you can’t keep two. The curse of the feelings kicked in but this time it also had some distance issues. The truth is I loved them both and would have loved them both to this day. But as one put it, at that point if I was spanking the other one, even in a different room each sound of my hand landing, she felt it on her heart. So you can guess that was not going to be healthy or fun relationship. Quick update they are both happily married now with a kid each, we still occasionally check in on each other.

IF your going to see two, even with it being their idea. Enjoy it to the fullest and make sure they do as well. Just don’t make it often and see them separately at times.

lol the stories I could tell, hell I could write a best seller. Believe it or not I saved one girl from meeting a serial killer.  One of the girls from above later made several spanking videos on different site. She was very popular as she was gorgeous, great tan lines , a tight shapely apple bottom that could take a very hard spanking. 

 

 

 

 

Edited February 19 by Cowboy_Spanks30

[spankme2tears]

On 2/8/2023 at 10:48 AM, MargaretMom said:

I don't know if it is practical, but it makes for an interesting fantasy. Waiting your turn while watching or listening to one in front of you getting a spanking could be very scary-exciting. Standing in the corner and listening (not being allowed to watch) the one after you would be a relief that it is not you, but at the same time you could still vicariously feel the sting and cringe a little at each smack.

Do any spankees ever fantasize (or actually do) Mommy/Daddy spankings with two spankers who are a couple?

I have been spanked by women and men.  I have been spanked by women in semi public.  I have definite fantasy of being spanked by  a Mommy/Daddy dominant couple and corner time with my red bare bottom on display.  I think it has helped that I have a naughty charm about me.  Still I do need the very strict discipline.  

[dmirk]

My only such experience happened when I was a kid and would spank the girls in the neighborhood.  A few times there’d be two. At least once it was four lined up. 
 

Never as an adult or adolescent. Well, twice both on clothed bottoms when I was in my early twenties. 

[lildanny219]

When I was growing up, when dinosaurs walked the earth, I was many times part of group spankings. They fell into two main categories, sleepovers that got too rowdy and doing something with one or more friends in play that adults disapproved, like roughhousing in the living room or making a horrendous mess somewhere or doing something forbidden together, like playing with fire. It was accepted by all the parents that if a child acted up at a friend's house, a parent there would mete out discipline, usually to the bare bottoms of the offenders, immediately and together. I always preferred the first slot, watching a friend get a spanking when I was next scared the daylights out of me. The same was true of most kids I knew.

[dmirk]

Ah!  Someone else who grew up when dinosaurs roamed the earth. 
 

I’m not older than dirt, but when I was a kid the dirt was brand new. 

[KentuckyGuy]

One of my top 10 fantasies, but being a switch, I'm not sure which end of the paddle I'd rather be on.

[Peanutty]

On 2/8/2023 at 10:48 AM, MargaretMom said:

I don't know if it is practical, but it makes for an interesting fantasy. Waiting your turn while watching or listening to one in front of you getting a spanking could be very scary-exciting. Standing in the corner and listening (not being allowed to watch) the one after you would be a relief that it is not you, but at the same time you could still vicariously feel the sting and cringe a little at each smack.

Do any spankees ever fantasize (or actually do) Mommy/Daddy spankings with two spankers who are a couple?

I have been seeking such a thing for quite sometime. It always seems to fall through before anything pans out though!

[Justlooking4otk]

16 minutes ago, Peanutty said:

I have been seeking such a thing for quite sometime. It always seems to fall through before anything pans out though!

True that! Small group spanking is on my spanking bucket list but its difficult enough to find one compatible spanko friend let alone two but have to try right?

[Peanutty]

It feels, lately, the emotional drain from chatting with people for awhile, only to have them ghost, is worse for my mental health than the ostensible therapeutic help it provides, subconsciously, to process trauma.