24 year old wife interested in spanking

[amberneedspanki]

Hi all, not sure if this is the right forum to post in, but I am a 24 year old happily married wife looking for an experienced spanker to spank me. I'm curious if you think I have a spankable rear and what kinds of punishments I might be able to receive. Any tips for safety/privacy? 

 

Attached is a photo of my bottom. 

 

[AbleHanded]

That’s as spankable a bottom as I can imagine. 
You’d first need to be scolded for your misbehavior. And told what happens to a young lady who misbehaves. 
Your body seems aching then to be thrust over a knee, your panties pulled down to your ankles and your bottom reddened by a good, sound, hard, and long hand spanking. 
You might then be sent to the corner, panties down, to think about your misbehavior, absorb the emotions generated by the spanking you received, and contemplate what’s to come.
Depending on your misbehavior and endurance, the hand spanking might be followed by a paddling, belt strapping, or other implements applied to your naughty bottom. You might be over the knee some more or placed in a different position more suitable to the implements — like lying on a bed with your bottom propped up by pillows, or bent over the rolled arm of a chair or sofa, or kneeling on a sofa and leaning over its back. 
After a hard spanking like this, you’d deserve aftercare. Being praised for your submission and enduring your punishment. Perhaps applying lotion to your blistered bottom. Being forgiven your misbehavior now that you’ve been punished for it. 

[Danny3]

Very well said AbleHanded…. I would add the value of good communication between the spankee and spanker… meeting in advance in a public/ neutral setting ( ie coffee shop) to be sure you feel safe and can trust one another.  Being on the same page is very important so the exchange of trust and control can lead to a satisfying experience and reduce the potential for misunderstanding.

Amber… your bottom is as perfect as can be, and a spanker’s delight….!!

 

[DaChief]

I could do a good job on that.

But first, safety and advice tips. We do have a section on that here on the forum, so please go through it if you already haven't. General advice is listen to your gut. You'll have no shortage of aspiring spankers interested in you, so take your time, don't rush and make sure you're going in the right direction with your choice. Read the profiles of anyone who solicits you on here, see their interactions on the forum for the past 3 or 4 months, and that'll give you a feel for the person. 

Also, and this cannot be understated, negotiate what you want out of the spanking session. You have an investment in this also, so make certain you choose a spanker who can take you to the right headspace as well as spank you within your personal limits and boundaries. "Submission" doesn't mean signing way your right to consent. If a wooden paddle terrifies you, for example, make it clear that's not to be used. If a spanker says, "But this is how we do it," then walk away and find another spanker. You won't have any shortage of guys interested in spanking you, so feel free to shuck the coal to get at the diamonds.

Good luck with it, and feel free to DM me if you think I'm a potential fit. I don't push myself on women your age, but I'll certainly work with those who have an interest in what I bring to the table. 

[Spanknutt]

Is there a reason you are not showing a location?

[dmirk]

Yeah, a location might be nice if you really want to connect with someone. At least a state or region. 
 

But carry on. It’s all good. 

[Justlooking4otk]

That is a lovely bottom no question about it, very spankable too.

[spike]

 Amber, if you are posting a real request I do apologize; but I question its legitimacy. There are a number of red flags that are concerning.

[DaChief]

36 minutes ago, spike said:

 Amber, if you are posting a real request I do apologize; but I question its legitimacy. There are a number of red flags that are concerning.

Hence the reason I only commented on the safety aspects. 

[DunBenSpanked]

45 minutes ago, spike said:

 Amber, if you are posting a real request I do apologize; but I question its legitimacy. There are a number of red flags that are concerning.

bingo

[Spanknutt]

Now where did I put that troll spray?

[PeterThom]

Perfectly spankable and the best way of learning is to first learn about the hardest hand spanking you can take before you want to beg for forgiveness.  Of course, you'll get some more than that, but if you don't find hand spanking hard enough, learn about other spanking implements and start experiencing how they feel!

[SkipNC]

My first tip for a married person looking for an experienced spanker would be to fully and frankly discuss it with their spouse.

[Cajun1971]

You do have a very spankable bottom. I am in Little Rock, Arkansas. If you are close, I will be glad to spank you.

[DunBenSpanked]

On 12/22/2022 at 6:21 PM, amberneedspanki said:

I'm curious if you think I have a spankable rear and what kinds of punishments I might be able to receive.

For newbies, when you read here about "red flags",  this sentence would constitute a "red flag"...

In and of itself, it does not constitute deception - but it should register with you that this person is fishing for an obvious response.  It could be perfectly legitimate, but common sense says that anyone asking that question about that photo already knows the answers they'll probably get.

If I were interested in reaching out to this person, the next thing I would look at is how long have they been on the site and the information on their profile, followed by a search on their content.

No disrespect intended to the original poster - just an object lesson in forum safety.

[Spanknutt]

On 12/30/2022 at 7:59 PM, DunBenSpanked said:

For newbies, when you read here about "red flags",  this sentence would constitute a "red flag"...

In and of itself, it does not constitute deception - but it should register with you that this person is fishing for an obvious response.  It could be perfectly legitimate, but common sense says that anyone asking that question about that photo already knows the answers they'll probably get.

If I were interested in reaching out to this person, the next thing I would look at is how long have they been on the site and the information on their profile, followed by a search on their content.

No disrespect intended to the original poster - just an object lesson in forum safety.

Correct, and this was mentioned in another thread this week as you are well aware. The OP could be trolling or just indulging in fantasy. But, it's doubtful that they are looking to meet anyone in r/l.

[Chawsee]

On 12/30/2022 at 5:59 PM, DunBenSpanked said:

For newbies, when you read here about "red flags",  this sentence would constitute a "red flag"...

In and of itself, it does not constitute deception - but it should register with you that this person is fishing for an obvious response.  It could be perfectly legitimate, but common sense says that anyone asking that question about that photo already knows the answers they'll probably get.

If I were interested in reaching out to this person, the next thing I would look at is how long have they been on the site and the information on their profile, followed by a search on their content.

No disrespect intended to the original poster - just an object lesson in forum safety.

Thanks, Ben. It is always appreciated when a member has the courage to speak truthfully about issues that degrade the quality of our forum. 

[Justlooking4otk]

I will never get tired of looking at that lovely bottom!

[stricthohcple]

HAVE YOU NOTICE THAT 3 WEEKS LATER AND NO RESPONSE BACK FORM THE POSTER!

[Justlooking4otk]

Unlike others who vanish she is still around so imagine she is getting lots of private messages.

[Dominator994]

Hello there how are you doing today? I think I can help you. Please contact me as soon as possible.

[dmirk]

Looks nice but it's fiction.

[David5]

No absolutely not spankable at all. What makes you think a ass that you could bounce a quarter off of would be? 

This here is reverse or pervert phycology 

[Blushing]

You have a nicely shaped bottom, it is ideal for spanking! Maybe with a hairbrush?

Before puberty I was mainly interested in being spanked. When I started to become interested in girls I loved to see pert shapely bottoms like yours. They almost called out to be spanked! That's when I became predominantly interested in spanking ladies, rather than be spanked myself.