Witnessing....

[nicoleS39]

Have you ever been spanked while another person or persons looked on?

Inversely....have you ever witnessed another person or persons being spanked?

[SpankingBanker]

The very start of my spanking fascination and kink started from a spanking that I observed in school...

I was sent to a private "Christian" school when I was young.  This school had corporal punishment at the time.  I usually had to stay in the "after school" program waiting for my parents to get off of work and pick me up. 

One day I needed to use the bathroom.  The bathroom was directly across the hall from the schools main office with the Headmasters office adjacent to the main office.  While in the bathroom I kept hearing this "thwap" noise and some moaning and crying along with some adult voices.  As I curiously walked out of the boys room I moved toward the head office and the noise became louder.  The Headmaster office had its own door with a window on it that opened to the hallway.  The window was covered with paper bulletins.  As I approached the window on the door I noticed a very small gap between 2 of the paper bulletins.  I peaked through and what I saw made a permanent impression on the rest of my life...

There were 2 upper class girls bent over the Headmaster's desk side by side being paddled by the Headmaster while his assistant stood by his side and watched.  I was only 7 years old at the time but my body reacted in ways that I was not familiar with at that time.  From that moment forward spanking women was a fascination of mine.  The simple word "spank" or "paddle" being said aloud or read somewhere would immediately take me back to that moment.  I would imagine my mom's female friends, my babysitters, random women in public being spanked.  As I grew older I gravitated to spanking pics, videos, and stories online.  Then of course I started spanking my gf in college which has lead me to my spanking "resume" as it is now.

Edited December 3, 2022 by SpankingBanker
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[skoolslipper]

My profile name on here always reminds of days on school when a boy would be called out to the front of the class, told to bend over and get 3-6 whacks with the plimsoll, all class watching. Had to it myself many a time too.Try to keep a brave face as you walked back to your desk.

[cowboy]

Yes to both, many many times.

[Justlooking4otk]

No to both but definitly on my spanking list of things to do.

[danadares]

Several times growing up, but not as an adult.

[noragirl]

11 hours ago, SpankingBanker said:

Spanking Banker,  Wow! Thank you for sharing your early experience with us.  I imagine that DID make quite the impression on you.  You didn't comment on their state of dress/undress.  Were the girls being paddled over their clothes?

 

[ReformedEE]

As a kid, yes.  As an adult, no.

[Justin Jones]

Its not really a eventful story but I spanked my ex in front of what was my SIL.   

We were in my SIL basement suite and my sister in law was more pissed off with ex's shitty behavior than I was.   

I asked the question " want me to spank her " 

" Please do " she replied.   

The look of betrayal in her face as she glared at her sister was comical.    

Then she went into fight or flight mode .  She was a university athlete and worked out often and she fought with every muscle in her body.   After a brief struggle she was over my knee on the couch shit talking me and her sister,  10 or so spanks on her big bare JLO ass and it was over. Her ass was pink and her face was tomato color red with embarrassment .While her sister was grinning ear to ear.   

She was unusually quite the rest of the day which we both appreciated.    

Edited December 3, 2022 by Justin Jones

[Longtimespanking]

I was spanked in front of others while growing up more times than not, and many of those times were in front of classmates at school.  Likewise, I saw many other classmates being spanked, even in high school there were a few teachers who chose to spank in front of the class themselves, rather than sending a student to the school's official disciplinarian. Also witnessed some of my friends being spanked at home, if I happened to be there when it took place. 

[spike]

I've posted about this before, but always glad to share again: During my tenure at the now defunct spanking club; and, at the bdsm/spanking extravaganza I attended, spanking was going on everywhere (within the four walls) for all to witness.

Also, around age 17 on two separate occasions I witnesses two friends dish out spankings. The first: my friend and his brand new girlfriend were visiting. She sat on his lap and said something about "that's what my mother used to do to me", not having anything to do with spanking. He quickly flipped her over and began to spank her and said: "Did she used to do this too?" The spanking lasted about 15 seconds, but was pretty hard. She looked so embarrassed, she was even blushing as she scampered off his lap. (They actually got married some years later). The second occurred after a swim in a backyard pool. About 8 - 10 of us (all friends) went inside the house and were just sitting around, talking, still wearing bathing suits.. My second friend began to (pretend to) scold one of the girls. I don't remember her name, but do remember she was awfully cute. Then after a threat, he got up and pilled her to his seat, pulling her over his lap and began to spank her, and continued the spanking for about a full minute. He delivered so many hard (and wonderful) smacks, all the while she protested, begging him to stop. After the minute he let her up, and she stood in the middle of the room rubbing her bathing suit-covered bottom, oohing about the sting.

On both occasions (especially the second) I could barely believe what I was witnessing. Where did they get the nerve to do this? (Although I wished I had had the nerve). Anyway, both times I said nothing and was actually embarrassed fort he girls, but it was so exciting.

Both of these friends were band-mates from the rock and roll band I played in during high school. The first moved to Ohio. I'm still in touch with the second, although we never discussed this episode since it happened.

[Newredbottom]

Not yet but it’s on my short list, just not sure how to make it happen?

Edited December 3, 2022 by Newredbottom

[KentuckyGuy]

First grade in front of the whole class otk by hand.  She probably spanked most of the class that way at least once that year (1963-64).

[nicoleS39]

On 12/2/2022 at 11:27 PM, SpankingBanker said:

The very start of my spanking fascination and kink started from a spanking that I observed in school...

I was sent to a private "Christian" school when I was young.  This school had corporal punishment at the time.  I usually had to stay in the "after school" program waiting for my parents to get off of work and pick me up. 

One day I needed to use the bathroom.  The bathroom was directly across the hall from the schools main office with the Headmasters office adjacent to the main office.  While in the bathroom I kept hearing this "thwap" noise and some moaning and crying along with some adult voices.  As I curiously walked out of the boys room I moved toward the head office and the noise became louder.  The Headmaster office had its own door with a window on it that opened to the hallway.  The window was covered with paper bulletins.  As I approached the window on the door I noticed a very small gap between 2 of the paper bulletins.  I peaked through and what I saw made a permanent impression on the rest of my life...

There were 2 upper class girls bent over the Headmaster's desk side by side being paddled by the Headmaster while his assistant stood by his side and watched.  I was only 7 years old at the time but my body reacted in ways that I was not familiar with at that time.  From that moment forward spanking women was a fascination of mine.  The simple word "spank" or "paddle" being said aloud or read somewhere would immediately take me back to that moment.  I would imagine my mom's female friends, my babysitters, random women in public being spanked.  As I grew older I gravitated to spanking pics, videos, and stories online.  Then of course I started spanking my gf in college which has lead me to my spanking "resume" as it is now.

I can certainly relate to some of your school day experience here. I was raised Amish...not a one room school, but very small compared to most english schools....and sometimes 2+or 3 grades were combined. 

The wood paddle was used quite often to help us focus and behave...lol...and with full parental approval in that community. The only requirement was...a note home informing the parents of the discipline. So...for me...the standing rule in our family was...whatever you got at school with the paddle...momma would double, and after that, pappa would then follow by taking his strap to us.

All the paddlings were administered by the teachers, and in front of the class. I was admittedly a strong-willed and unruly child...so I was regularly in front of the class bent over and getting whacks. But...I also saw others receive the same. 

I "noticed" some special feeling at a young age both when I was paddled and also in seeing others get it. I now realize those feelings were small initial indications of my spanko nature...lol....which was only recognized by me when Inwas 25!

 

[nicoleS39]

On 12/3/2022 at 2:36 AM, skoolslipper said:

My profile name on here always reminds of days on school when a boy would be called out to the front of the class, told to bend over and get 3-6 whacks with the plimsoll, all class watching. Had to it myself many a time too.Try to keep a brave face as you walked back to your desk.

Lol...that walk back to that hard seat...after everybody just saw you spanked...oh yes, I remember that well.

[nicoleS39]

On 12/3/2022 at 11:54 AM, Justin Jones said:

Its not really a eventful story but I spanked my ex in front of what was my SIL.   

We were in my SIL basement suite and my sister in law was more pissed off with ex's shitty behavior than I was.   

I asked the question " want me to spank her " 

" Please do " she replied.   

The look of betrayal in her face as she glared at her sister was comical.    

Then she went into fight or flight mode .  She was a university athlete and worked out often and she fought with every muscle in her body.   After a brief struggle she was over my knee on the couch shit talking me and her sister,  10 or so spanks on her big bare JLO ass and it was over. Her ass was pink and her face was tomato color red with embarrassment .While her sister was grinning ear to ear.   

She was unusually quite the rest of the day which we both appreciated.    

An interesting experience....lol.

I was paddled once, in front of my sister in law and her husband...early on in our marriage. 5 whacks with a wood school style paddle bent over in my dress.

[Justlooking4otk]

On 12/3/2022 at 8:24 AM, Justlooking4otk said:

No to both but definitly on my spanking list of things to do.

I have been thinking about it for a while even before seeing this post. 

[nicoleS39]

On 12/3/2022 at 12:50 PM, Longtimespanking said:

I was spanked in front of others while growing up more times than not, and many of those times were in front of classmates at school.  Likewise, I saw many other classmates being spanked, even in high school there were a few teachers who chose to spank in front of the class themselves, rather than sending a student to the school's official disciplinarian. Also witnessed some of my friends being spanked at home, if I happened to be there when it took place. 

Even in high school?  I guess that surprises me a bit. 
 

Like you, growing up, I did witness a few of my friends get spanked when I was with them. In our Amish community, most parents were ardent believers in spanking, and such things were not unusual.

 

[Justlooking4otk]

nicoleS39, think I deleted or erased your reply my bad.

[Justin Jones]

10 minutes ago, nicoleS39 said:

An interesting experience....lol.

I was paddled once, in front of my sister in law and her husband...early on in our marriage. 5 whacks with a wood school style paddle bent over in my dress.

Oh this was bare ass.   It was more of embarrassing funishment for her sister and I.    

Funny thing is her sister weaponized it on a few occasions after.   " Keep it up and I'll get Justin to spank you again" 

Which was followed by steel eyes and silence lol.   

[nicoleS39]

1 minute ago, Justin Jones said:

Oh this was bare ass.   It was more of embarrassing funishment for her sister and I.    

Funny thing is her sister weaponized it on a few occasions after.   " Keep it up and I'll get Justin to spank you again" 

Which was followed by steel eyes and silence lol.   

lol...sounds like a fun connection and comradely. Mine was real discipline...lol...but not bare. My sister in law and her husband were spanko in their marriage....and still are. But we do not share spanking experiences in each other's company....that was a one and only time.

[nicoleS39]

On 12/3/2022 at 2:30 PM, spike said:

I've posted about this before, but always glad to share again: During my tenure at the now defunct spanking club; and, at the bdsm/spanking extravaganza I attended, spanking was going on everywhere (within the four walls) for all to witness.

Also, around age 17 on two separate occasions I witnesses two friends dish out spankings. The first: my friend and his brand new girlfriend were visiting. She sat on his lap and said something about "that's what my mother used to do to me", not having anything to do with spanking. He quickly flipped her over and began to spank her and said: "Did she used to do this too?" The spanking lasted about 15 seconds, but was pretty hard. She looked so embarrassed, she was even blushing as she scampered off his lap. (They actually got married some years later). The second occurred after a swim in a backyard pool. About 8 - 10 of us (all friends) went inside the house and were just sitting around, talking, still wearing bathing suits.. My second friend began to (pretend to) scold one of the girls. I don't remember her name, but do remember she was awfully cute. Then after a threat, he got up and pilled her to his seat, pulling her over his lap and began to spank her, and continued the spanking for about a full minute. He delivered so many hard (and wonderful) smacks, all the while she protested, begging him to stop. After the minute he let her up, and she stood in the middle of the room rubbing her bathing suit-covered bottom, oohing about the sting.

On both occasions (especially the second) I could barely believe what I was witnessing. Where did they get the nerve to do this? (Although I wished I had had the nerve). Anyway, both times I said nothing and was actually embarrassed fort he girls, but it was so exciting.

Both of these friends were band-mates from the rock and roll band I played in during high school. The first moved to Ohio. I'm still in touch with the second, although we never discussed this episode since it happened.

Interesting experiences in your teens. Do you think these triggered your spanking interest from there?

[Justin Jones]

17 minutes ago, nicoleS39 said:

lol...sounds like a fun connection and comradely. Mine was real discipline...lol...but not bare. My sister in law and her husband were spanko in their marriage....and still are. But we do not share spanking experiences in each other's company....that was a one and only time.

Interesting dymanic forsure.  SIL got pregnant young , while my ex played college volleyball and got a Master's degree . 

So I guess I evened out the playing field for a few years lol.   

[spike]

1 hour ago, nicoleS39 said:

Interesting experiences in your teens. Do you think these triggered your spanking interest from there?

The truth, Nicole, I am sure I was just born this way. Of course, these experiences only helped to cement the interest.

[JonJon]

When I was in kindergarten, I got in trouble with a group of boys for tearing down posters.  For what ever reason, the parents decided to make an example out of me, and decided that my dad would spank me in front of the others as a warning to the other boys.  So, in the staff break room, my dad pulled down my jonjon and my training pants (I still wore them with jonjons and overalls), turned me over his lap, and spanked my bare bottom in front of four other kindergarten-age boys.  I couldn't even think of how I looked to them - I was just bawling as my bottom got redder and redder.  My legs were bound up in my jonjon and my trainers, so I couldn't even kick much.