Is it true that you can't sit after a harsh spanking

[Alisonsterly]

Is there a painful spanking that you can't sit or sleep on your bottom or people are just exaggerating ?

[Cassie RN]

Yes

 

[danadares]

I think what most people mean when they use that phrase in a more literal sense is that you won't want to sit on your bottom, it is uncomfortable to sit, not that it's impossible. Someone could be beaten to a point where it really is too painful to bear their weight when sitting, but there are many kinds of injuries to various parts of the body that can be truly debilitating. It depends on what you consider to be a "spanking."

 

[OhRedhead]

It depends on the person. A "harsh" spanking to one may be light or moderate to another. And pain thresholds and coping with bodily pain are different for different people. Some can have significant bruising and/or welts and sit relatively comfortably. Some have just a pink bottom and feel uncomfortable. Pain thresholds and tolerance also vary in the same individual at different times.

I have had a few very severe spankings that made sitting uncomfortable and therefore I avoided it as I was able. But I can also withstand pretty intense spankings and sit okay, even if there is some discomfort. Sometimes I feel very little after an intense spanking, even just an hour later. It definitely varies. No generalizations can be made.

 

[DunBenSpanked]

I've had a serious enough spanking that it was really uncomfortable pulling jeans up over a roasted rump, and a paddling or two intense enough to make me walk kinda funny...

 

[nicoleS39]

For me....it is more like what danadares said. Sometimes I do not "want" to sit after some spankings...depending on how severe they might have been. It is always, at least for me, "possible" to sit, but not necessarily comfortable or desirable. When he uses a wood paddle on my bare bottom hard, sitting is especially undesirable, but the belt and cane are not much better.  When it is a combo of them...sitting is definitely best avoided...lol.

If I cannot avoid sitting after a more severe spanking, I do tend to fidget or wiggle a bit to adjust myself while sitting...in an attempt to lessen the pressure on more sensitive areas of my bottom. I try to do this without being noticed if in public, but my husband seems to get a chuckle from it, since he obviously knows what is going on with me.  Lol...so glad I can "entertain" him...meant to be sarcastic!  

I often "sleep" on my stomach if I have been spanked hard near bed time....unless of course my husband has "other" plans...lol. I know that is a bit beyond the scope of this discussion, but still "kind of" related. 

[underpants]

7 hours ago, danadares said:

I think what most people mean when they use that phrase in a more literal sense is that you won't want to sit on your bottom, it is uncomfortable to sit, not that it's impossible.

It's certainly like that with me. After a hard paddling I can sit down if I absolutely have to, but I prefer not to. I usually find lying down is no problem though, because the weight of the body is then distributed and not all concentrated on the bottom.

[Explorify]

6 hours ago, nicoleS39 said:

I often "sleep" on my stomach if I have been spanked hard near bed time....unless of course my husband has "other" plans...lol. I know that is a bit beyond the scope of this discussion, but still "kind of" related. 

It is indeed kind of related.  If sex is to follow closely upon a spanking, it may be necessary to make some adjustments to the 'ee's position.  OTOH, if the lingering pain from the spanking is not all that great, the continuing tingle can sometimes be a slight continuing sub-thrill that adds to the ee's erotic pleasure. -Ex.

[Handily]

 

I don't want to hijack the thread, but the last comment exposes a deeper divide that we have sometimes discussed.

For some people, erotic and disciplinary spankings are to be definitively separated in time as well as in head-space.  For such people, presumably the last thing 'ees should be thinking about in the immediate aftermath of a disciplinary spanking is the practicalities of their next sexual encounter.  

Those people who can make the transition from the one sort of the spanking to the other within a few minutes presumably need to worry about the considerations Explorify mentions.
       
                                                                                                                                 H.

 

[ReformedEE]

I’ve never been unable to sit, but it has been uncomfortable enough that I’ll tend to sit less, getting up and busy with other things more often. 

[Zhal]

My very first spanking as an adult made initially sitting down quite uncomfortable, especially when that was to sit on a toilet. The after effects of that spanking lasted a whole week. Obviously, I managed, but I would wince when initially sitting down.

[dre4mgirl]

even after the most severe spanking with the bath brush I was able to sit, but I wouldn't call it comfortable. so I would avoid sitting unless I had many cushions lol. personally I would also say it depends on the implement used and sometimes I can handle the pain better than other times which then also makes a difference in comfort when it comes to sitting. most of the times though I can sit after a hard spanking without it bothering me too much. 

[Blushingred]

I wouldn't want to give or receive a spanking that made it impossible to sit. Yikes. It's all about headspace. I like it if they feel it when they sit down. But impossible to sit? No. But me saying "you won't sit for a week" in a spanking roleplay/context? Sure. Absolutely. It's part of the lingo.

[KentuckyGuy]

I have had a few severe spankings that made it uncomfortable for me to sit but never impossible to sit.

[MrBottoms]

Harsh is probably a judgement call But I've had to make certain a few times that it would be Difficult & Quite Challenging to Sit afterwards, comfortably that is,  a few times.

A Direct Result when ever there has been a case of....... "Stubborn-Itis"

[Chastener]

"Discomfort" seems to be the word of the day, and that's pretty accurate.  Almost all women I've spanked have experienced some discomfort sitting afterwards.  The important part, as I've stressed (ad nauseum, I know) is that the pain in a woman's backside brings back memories of her discipline, of what caused it and how she submitted to it.  If that connection is made, then the "discomfort" is more than sensory.

[rubyredd]

7 hours ago, Chastener said:

"Discomfort" seems to be the word of the day, and that's pretty accurate.  Almost all women I've spanked have experienced some discomfort sitting afterwards.  The important part, as I've stressed (ad nauseum, I know) is that the pain in a woman's backside brings back memories of her discipline, of what caused it and how she submitted to it.  If that connection is made, then the "discomfort" is more than sensory.

Exactly this. 

[rubyredd]

On 11/3/2022 at 5:54 PM, Blushingred said:

I wouldn't want to give or receive a spanking that made it impossible to sit. Yikes. It's all about headspace. I like it if they feel it when they sit down. But impossible to sit? No. But me saying "you won't sit for a week" in a spanking roleplay/context? Sure. Absolutely. It's part of the lingo.

The best of all threats - a true classic.

[rubyredd]

I got a spanking my sophomore year in college that made it ridiculously uncomfortable to sit or get comfortable at all. Even the feel of a nightie touching my skin hurt. After all the spankings since, I have been able to sit - not without discomfort, of course - but I can. Wanting to sit... not always. 

Whether a disciplinary or fun spanking, I eant to have some lasting reminder of the spanking - and a twinge when sitting is one of the best reminders. 

[Submissive Danny]

Yes you can get a spanking where it is really hard to sit after. After most all my spankings I have a sore bottom and it's very uncomfortable to sit depending on the chair. A chair with a cushion is easier to sit on but a wooden chair makes it difficult.

Edited November 5, 2022 by Submissive Danny

[selfsp12]

I had one spanking, some years ago, where sitting and walking were quite uncomfortable. Today after a hard session with a wood paddle or bath brush, I can feel the discomfort and have a desire to squirm, but I can sit. I like that feeling as it is a physical and sensory reminder of the spanking and how I felt then.

[REALTEARS]

In the past I have had several otk serious bare bottom spankings  with bath brush and strap I could have sat down but I knew it would hurt a lot so after a spanking like this I avoid sitting if possible

[Chastener]

I've seen in some spanking fiction women or girls be spanked (or caned, paddled, etc.) and then being required to sit on hard wooden benches.  It seems to me that this is just that, fiction, but that it does impart the lesson of the sting referring to the memory of the immediately-past discipline, which does contain a kernel of truth.

[Powpaulie]

I've always been able to sit after a harsh punishment spanking.....but not quite comfortably....because......ouch 🥺

[badbackside]

Sometimes the ee is ordered to sit on their bare behind on a hard word chair or a bristled mattress to re-enforce, prolong, intensify, and drive home the message just delivered to their rear-end. That it is painful is precisely the point, like a spanking: but I always do my best to keep my rear-end out for the next swat anyway.