Preferred nudity state?

[Denny45]

Let me ask the ladies that want a non-sexual spanking. Would you deny me an opportunity to spank you if I told you I wanted to masturbate while you were doing corner time with your panties down?

[justbecause]

13 minutes ago, Denny45 said:

Let me ask the ladies that want a non-sexual spanking. Would you deny me an opportunity to spank you if I told you I wanted to masturbate while you were doing corner time with your panties down?

Yes, I would, because I can't see how a session that includes masturbation can be non-sexual. Masturbation is inherently sexual. 

[LateBloomer]

27 minutes ago, Denny45 said:

Let me ask the ladies that want a non-sexual spanking. Would you deny me an opportunity to spank you if I told you I wanted to masturbate while you were doing corner time with your panties down?

Yes, I would. It would suggest to me that you wouldn't have my best interests at heart. It would no longer be about me but rather about you. And I would have trouble believing that you aren't just setting the situation so you can have your fun at the end.

 

[MrBottoms]

Nudity on any level has never been an issue or pref with me.  I have paddled many a hiney over a variety of clothing items, as it is commonly a "come as you are". . Whether on the bare or over any type of clothing, as any level of modesty is always respected, my intent as always is to "get to the Bottom of it". Tho' I will add that I have yet to meet a young lady who would negotiate a strong preference to clothing covering as a specific potential deal breaker, thong being the exception.

[Zhal]

6 hours ago, Spanakopita said:

 For her sake, I imagine she will have the most effective discipline if you do not cum!  These are the thoughts of an inexperienced spanking chump.

For the record, I spank people of all genders. While I do have a preference for a female spanker, the fact that I have not gotten a spanking in a while has caused me to be less selective.

I can address the body bit of the mind-body disconnect, but I do find spanking adults or being spanked as an adult sexually arousing.

[Denny45]

1 hour ago, LateBloomer said:

Yes, I would. It would suggest to me that you wouldn't have my best interests at heart. It would no longer be about me but rather about you. And I would have trouble believing that you aren't just setting the situation so you can have your fun at the end.

 

OK, good advice. I've had no, zero experience giving a disciplinary spanking and have no interest in receiving one. The only spankings I've given or received was for our mutual enjoyment. I've only had one spankee that I asked if i could get off and she was OK with, and even enjoyed the fact that I was turned on by her lovely redden ass. I think, I'm just not suited for disciplinary spanking.

[embraerjet]

When I fantasize about spanking, I'd prefer to have my pants lowered, spanked over underwear, then have those pulled down.  Currently, my spouse usually only spanks me after a shower.  Sadly, I usually have to ask for it and then she's done at the moment that I say I've had enough.  

[iowaguidance]

My preference, when I'm the recipient, is to have my pants lowered to my ankles or even removed completely and have my undies lowered to my knees. Standing in front of a seated disciplinarian being lectured with my underwear around my knees makes me feel like a naughty boy and very vulnerable. When I'm applying the discipline, I often employ a similar method to what I enjoy unless the recipient has expressed a different preference. 

[mozartpc21]

As a spanker, I definitely prefer to pull the pants down and panties down to about mid-thigh, enough to expose the bottom for a spanking.  Makes it feel more real to me as a punishment, even though my partner and I do almost exclusively role plays.  Of course the pants and panties usually wind up coming off during the course of the spanking.  But I like to get them down just enough to spank the bare bottom.

[dmirk]

I’m in the panties down to the knees group. Pants to the ankles is best but to the knees is fine. 
 

Occasionally a nude spanking needs to take place. That’s rare in the disciplinary spankings but it does happen. 
 

I’ve more or less retired from the over clothing for discipline spankings. 

[slammin sam]

This may be purely psychological on my part but I feel when the spankee is wearing any clothing during a spanking it gives a sense of protection, while being completely naked there is nothing between the spankee and the spanker and whatever implement the spanker will be using. This adds to the feeling of vulnerability of the spankee which heightens the anxiety which in turn increases the intensity of the spanking, thereby making the spanking more effective.

[NorCalMan]

My wife always has me get totally naked for my spanking. 

[Blushingred]

Pants and underwear pulled down just far enough to completely bare the butt. When I think of a spanking that's what I think of. When you see someone over the knee in that state of undress it's for one reason and one reason only. And that's for a spanking. It draws all the attention there. I think it's much more embarrassing for the person being spanked than it would be if they were naked. You're hyper aware of that part of you being exposed because it's the only part of you exposed. Not your genitals, but your bare butt. It takes it out of any sexual realm and feels very childish. Just like a spanking should.

[Larry61]

I’m naked my wife is fully dressed when she spanks me

[Dsrt4ever]

I respond well to all states of dress but feel it should be up to the er. 

[ReformedEE]

I like to be nude but that isn’t always an option.  Some female disciplinarians don’t allow it.

[Naomi]

I have written quite a bit about this. I am probably in a minority on here because I am not spanked bare and instead wear things which give me some modesty but very little protection. I have once had my bottom bared by a female er - that was a huge thing for me and I admit it was very "powerful" and punishing but is not something I would want for routine discipline and I obviously didn't like it.  And I once tried wearing just a thong with my regular er, who is a guy and my friend - that isn't something that we'll do again, I hated it and found it massively embarrassing. Maybe it's because I don't have a very high tolerance but, for me, punishments are plenty painful enough when my bottom is covered or part covered in a thin layer of lycra/spandex!!

 

Each to their own but if spanking is done purely for discipline I can't see why fully nudity would ever be necessary. I can see that things would be very different if spankings are done in a sexual context.

[Needing correction!]

1 hour ago, Naomi said:

I have written quite a bit about this. I am probably in a minority on here because I am not spanked bare and instead wear things which give me some modesty but very little protection. I have once had my bottom bared by a female er - that was a huge thing for me and I admit it was very "powerful" and punishing but is not something I would want for routine discipline and I obviously didn't like it.  And I once tried wearing just a thong with my regular er, who is a guy and my friend - that is

 

Each to their own but if spanking is done purely for discipline I can't see why fully nudity would ever be necessary. I can see that things would be very different if spankings are done in a sexual context.

Absolutely.

I am caned for discipline/correction. It is on the bare bottom because it hurts more. But only that area needs to be exposed: frontal nudity is unnecessary.

[danadares]

If one really doesn't like to be nude, especially in a punishment situation, then it could be the perfect punishment. And nudity is not necessarily sexual. All that matters is what it means to those involved. Outside understanding is not required.

 

[NewBrandon]

For me I prefer pants and underwear down to just below the sit spots. I have been instructed to be fully nude and it was not something I want to do again. 

[littleboyrichie]

I fully believe that the less clothing the spankee has on or is allowed to have on the worse it is for him/her, mainly for the embarrassment factor, plus knowing one is going to be bare-bottomed or naked with nothing covering or protecting adds to the whole experience and potential intensity of the session.  Also, the lack of clothing can also be a more mental, and emotional aspect, knowing there is nothing to hide behind, everything is exposed to the Spanker.  No sense of modesty allowed.  I know for myself as much as I hate it, I definitely see the need to make/force the spankee to be bare-bottomed or nude.

 

[ammon]

On 11/1/2022 at 8:51 PM, slammin sam said:

This may be purely psychological on my part but I feel when the spankee is wearing any clothing during a spanking it gives a sense of protection, while being completely naked there is nothing between the spankee and the spanker and whatever implement the spanker will be using. This adds to the feeling of vulnerability of the spankee which heightens the anxiety which in turn increases the intensity of the spanking, thereby making the spanking more effective.

Agreed...for me, being totally without clothing, and the Spanker completely clothed, means a lot for the spanking session, the relationship, and for me. Being totally unclothed adds to the vulnerability, the power exchange, respect for the Spanker, submissiveness, embarrassment, control, and more. It helps us know and remember who we are, and know and remember our positions. It sets the scene and the relationship, and seems most memorable. It leaves nothing to hide, and adds to the emotional aspect of a paddling and strapping. CFnm or even CMnm sets the atmosphere. It adds to and improves the control of the Spanker, and makes the purpose clear. Undressing for (or by) the Spanker, and/or at the Spanker's order, strips the spankee physically and emotionally, both of which add very significantly to the atmosphere and experience. And then afterward, dressing with the Spanker's permission maintains the atmosphere. Also afterward, Spanker and spankee know exactly what happened and how it happened, and the control, lack of clothing, the paddling and strapping, have all evolved and improved the relationship. i'm not sure what it's like for Spankers, but getting naked and submitting completely bare to the Spanker and the implements is very meaningful to this spankee. i think that often, both the Spanker and spankee know what took place, and that it could (and hopefully will) easily take place again.

[ammon]

Just another thought...removing all the spankee's clothing is sort of like stepping out of real or normal life for a time, and maybe setting aside some preoccupations, pretenses, and worries. For a moment, the spankee can be vulnerable, and has to trust the judgement of the Spanker. As the Spanker looks over the spankee, both understand the increased power exchange. Incidentally, my thoughts are from the perspective of a male spankee, and the perspective of a Lady spankee is likely quite different. i'm curious about the perspectives of Spankers on this and the comment right above this one.

CFnm = Clothed Female, naked male

CMnm = Clothed male, naked male

[Bob1952]

I prefer to be fully nude.  

[Leem]

I've only been fully nude for a spanking once and hated it. I felt so vulnerable and my own insecurities stopped me from being able to focus on the actual spanking. I prefer to be nude from the waist down, with the spanker being the one to peel off each layer.