Long spanking trips

[Cavsalltheway23]

How to convince yourself to make the long journey to get a spanking? It is easy to feel like you deserve a spanking. But making a long 400+ mile drive (overall both ways) for a spanking can be difficult to convince yourself to do. Any tips? And I know obviously closer would be better but they might not fit the role quite as well as someone you have already communicated with and are on the same page as.

[Janesmith]

I say do it. It is what you need/want. You have found the right person and have a good relationship. If you 'settle', you will not get the spanking the you want/need. And while you are driving back, you will still feel the effects of that spanking for the 200+ mile drive as a great reminder. 

[Spanknutt]

If you live in a remote area where it's difficult to meet people then it may be what you have to do. Have you considered flying?

[Lotsapappa]

How do you convince yourself? Do you want to look back with regret that you should have made the trip but didn’t and that person is no longer an option? As you age, I believe you regret the things you didn’t do more than the things you did. 

[Otkmedicine]

If you are able to drive there and back, go for it! 200 miles is nothing compared to not finding anyone. Plus Jsne is right, the drive back will be very interesting!

[olderguy]

It doesn't have to be a single purpose trip. Make it more than a day trip, find a place to stay and see a tourist site while you're on the road. Google "things to do" for cities or towns in the area. It might be that an additional detour on the way back can get you to something enjoyable to see or do.

[Cavsalltheway23]

4 hours ago, Spanknutt said:

If you live in a remote area where it's difficult to meet people then it may be what you have to do. Have you considered flying?

Yeah but it will cost about the same or more and longer with wait time for planes.

[SteveSpank]

Do it! I use to drive 60 each way to work … much rather drive 200 miles to get the spanking you really want.

 

 

[Oracle]

Well, I'm hopefully going to TASSP one day and I live in Canada, so for the right thing I'd be willing to travel for sure!

[Spanknutt]

2 hours ago, Cavsalltheway23 said:

Yeah but it will cost about the same or more and longer with wait time for planes.

Good point, I have flown out of Maine before and if your flight is canceled for some reason it's tough to find another one.

[KentuckyGuy]

I have done it before from Cincinnati to south of Nashville but also included some site-seeing.  And be sure to have a pillow to sit on for the trip back.

[MrBottoms]

I had one particular young lady travel from Dallas to S.A by bus several times, regularly as often as she was able. Considerably less $$$ cost by bus, as opposed to car travel at that time.  Also, she was able to focus on her "seat of correction" without the distraction of paying attention to the driving.

[Otkmedicine]

1 hour ago, MrBottoms said:

I had one particular young lady travel from Dallas to S.A by bus several times, regularly as often as she was able. Considerably less $$$ cost by bus, as opposed to car travel at that time.  Also, she was able to focus on her "seat of correction" without the distraction of paying attention to the driving.

Omg what a great idea! Plus bus travel is slower so longer time to squirm to remember her behavior!

[rubyredd]

Don't miss the opportunity. I have made a couple of 6-hour drives in the past and regularly drove almost 4 hours to meet with a regular partner. I would always make a weekend of it and do other things. I certainly don't have any regrets. 

[Cavsalltheway23]

4 hours ago, rubyredd said:

Don't miss the opportunity. I have made a couple of 6-hour drives in the past and regularly drove almost 4 hours to meet with a regular partner. I would always make a weekend of it and do other things. I certainly don't have any regrets. 

That is good to know. I guess a lot of others also say making the trip is worth it.

[wanttospank]

On 9/16/2022 at 7:01 AM, Lotsapappa said:

How do you convince yourself? Do you want to look back with regret that you should have made the trip but didn’t and that person is no longer an option? As you age, I believe you regret the things you didn’t do more than the things you did. 

Well said and great advice

 

[Cavsalltheway23]

On 9/16/2022 at 7:01 AM, Lotsapappa said:

How do you convince yourself? Do you want to look back with regret that you should have made the trip but didn’t and that person is no longer an option? As you age, I believe you regret the things you didn’t do more than the things you did. 

That is very well said.

[Lotsapappa]

Can you read into it that I have many of those regrets. I canceled on Alice Morningstar ugh. And she disappeared into the ether. 

[Handily]

On 9/23/2022 at 11:53 AM, Lotsapappa said:

. I canceled on Alice Morningstar ugh. And she disappeared into the ether. 

 I fantasized a long time about going to see her but it didn't happen.  Did anyone here actually visit her and care to describe it?

                  H.

[Zhal]

My drive wasn't quite as long to my long term spanker when I lived two towns over, roughly an hour and twenty minutes once I had the route committed to memory. I frequently had to stop at a rest stop on my way to my spankings. Coming home, usually not.

[Imperium]

Unless it's an issue of resources or time, I'd look at it as an investment in meeting your needs. I've had some really great relationships come from women making the journey to see me. These were often flights, but not always. I've also gone to meet some that were not very close to me, though as someone else suggested here, I actually made it about the travel and less about the meeting. A multipurpose trip. People often regret the things they didn't do more than the things they did. Often times it's a good idea to throw a little spontaneity and adventure into your life.