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Spanking someone else can be about power, can be about care/guidance, or can be done for pure erotic purposes (or all of the above, or none of those listed). So - to that effect, the answer is No. Atleast, for me, there's no utility in self spanking.

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1 hour ago, DoubleE97 said:

I am a spankee. I know what I get out of it. What do you spankers get out of it? 
I can spank myself if there’s no spanker around to do the trick, does spanking yourself give you the same satisfaction!!??

Spanking myself does not give me the same satisfaction as spanking a woman, to answer your question succinctly.

That said, I get excitement out of the act of spanking a woman, both disciplinarily and erotically.  The whole process excites me, not just the smacking of a bottom.  If just smacking something did the trick, I could use a pillow, but it's more than that.

Also, even though I don't get excitement out of spanking myself, I do spank myself, a bit, with any implement I acquire.  I want to know how it feels to the other person (not necessarily how it excites them), as I can then judge their reaction to the pain/thud/sting/impact of the item.

YMMV,

Mulege

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48 minutes ago, Mulege77 said:

That said, I get excitement out of the act of spanking a woman, both disciplinarily and erotically. 

Okay but for real fire real, WHAT excites you? Let’s say you got me bent over your knee, you excited you have control? You excited I’m asking for pain or would you rather me not want it? You got to be careful as a spankee you know what I’m saying. Some times it be like this mother f* really getting off because he hurting me. Do you got to know me first? Care about me? I mean don’t play it up and give me the answer you think I want . It ain’t like we meeting up. I’m just wanting to understand what makes it tick when my hiney is laid across your lap bare bottomed and you deliver my punishment. 

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I have been a spanko since I was five years old. I started self spanking with a plastic brush at about 7 years old. Then spanking games with friends the same age. As I got older I realized even though I do enjoy giving a bare bottom spanking I like being spanked much  more. ( I'm still tender from yesterday's visit from a friend)  My wife refuses to spank SOOOO when no one is available I self spank. I have a female friend who directs me by cam.

Self spanking is not near as good as in person. ( OWW still sore)  BUT it is better than NO spanking. Much better if someone directs you.

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So spankee. It’s not the same. But the routine can play a big part of it, the saying out loud why you’re being punished, sitting nude and writing lines, sitting with your butt raised or in the corner, and THEN, doing the spanking. Having a set number and making each one count. If it’s not a full one, redoing it with two. I’ve made myself cry before, but with willpower. It takes a lot to get to that point. 

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I don't spank myself. I let my wife spank me if we have new implements, so that I can experience how they feel. I think it makes me a better spanker if I know how much the implement can hurt and what kind of pain it causes. But other than that, I don't get spanked. I just spank. 

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On 9/18/2022 at 6:31 PM, MrSpanko said:

I don't spank myself. I let my wife spank me if we have new implements, so that I can experience how they feel. I think it makes me a better spanker if I know how much the implement can hurt and what kind of pain it causes. But other than that, I don't get spanked. I just spank. 

I do really appreciate your responsible and thoughtful practice of implementation of a new spanking implement.

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On 9/17/2022 at 6:24 PM, SunnySideUp83 said:

So spankee. It’s not the same. But the routine can play a big part of it, the saying out loud why you’re being punished, sitting nude and writing lines, sitting with your butt raised or in the corner, and THEN, doing the spanking. Having a set number and making each one count. If it’s not a full one, redoing it with two. I’ve made myself cry before, but with willpower. It takes a lot to get to that point. 

I love that you were to cry from spanking yourself.  

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On 11/30/2022 at 12:40 PM, Christopherspankshard said:

I love that you were to cry from spanking yourself.  

I don’t let myself get away with anything. If I say 30 strokes, they’re going to be hard, even, and strict. If one isn’t, it’s repeated by two. It takes me a while to get through it, but I always remember the lesson. 

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On 9/6/2022 at 9:03 PM, DoubleE97 said:

Okay but for real fire real, WHAT excites you? Let’s say you got me bent over your knee, you excited you have control? You excited I’m asking for pain or would you rather me not want it? You got to be careful as a spankee you know what I’m saying. Some times it be like this mother f* really getting off because he hurting me. Do you got to know me first? Care about me? I mean don’t play it up and give me the answer you think I want . It ain’t like we meeting up. I’m just wanting to understand what makes it tick when my hiney is laid across your lap bare bottomed and you deliver my punishment. 

Offering up your bare bottom is an intimate act between two people.  That right there is a deep connection like nothing else. The way you accept what is given, is what excites me. 

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On 9/6/2022 at 9:03 PM, DoubleE97 said:

Okay but for real fire real, WHAT excites you? Let’s say you got me bent over your knee, you excited you have control? You excited I’m asking for pain or would you rather me not want it? You got to be careful as a spankee you know what I’m saying. Some times it be like this mother f* really getting off because he hurting me. Do you got to know me first? Care about me? I mean don’t play it up and give me the answer you think I want . It ain’t like we meeting up. I’m just wanting to understand what makes it tick when my hiney is laid across your lap bare bottomed and you deliver my punishment. 

I've been excited about spanking for punishment since I was very young. At that fundamental level, from a time I was too young to even know what sex is, there are many aspects of it that attract me including authority, justice, humility, and the tangible, not so abstract things about what spanking looks and feels like. I enjoy spanking stories and videos, so I don't even have to be personally involved at all.

As a spanker, I'm part of an exciting process. However, I get more out of it than simply indulging my fetish. As important, maybe even more important, is that I'm taking control for the benefit of the spankee. I think it could be the most intimate act between two people I know of, and if I didn't really care about that person, I would not be spanking them. While the situation surrounding punishment, and the act itself, is both exciting and fascinating to me, it must be good for her in order to be good for me.

 

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