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Of course, it kind of depends on the severity of the spanking. If the spanking was on the more severe side....I lay on my stomach alot...lol...or stand alot...lol...to completely avoid sitting. Butt....lol...that is not always an option...so I try for a pillow or a car seat cushion...if in the car. My husband lets me keep a car seat cushion on hand if the need arises. If no additional cushion or pillow is available to me...I try to adjust the pressure on the more tender areas of my bottom...but not be too obvious in public. This is also known as wiggling my hiney while seated, or squirming. My husband finds it amusing in a restaurant or in church....lol.

 

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Gingerly. 😉

In seriousness, it depends on how bad the spanking was (or I was, since there is usually a causal relationship between those two). If it was a really good spanking, I prefer to stand. Work doesn't always allow for this but when standing isn't an option, I tend to get up more often, walk around, etc. I've had spankings sting so bad that the day after, at the office, I had to go to the bathroom and lower my jeans to let my poor cheeks cool off. I have pressed them against the cool tiles of the bathroom wall even 😳. At home, I can sit on a pillow or a big soft couch so that's less of an issue.

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How long does pain from a spanking last? Is it really so bad that you can't sit? If it is that bad, are you bruised?

I've never been spanked severely enough to have trouble sitting. Enough to feel a good sting a few hours later, yes, and really feel it when I sat down, but not enough to be as uncomfortable as you guys are describing. And then the itching starts. That's what's really uncomfortable.

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It depends on how hard I was spanked, of course. But the type of implement seems to matter too. The worst for me is light, wooden implements that are slightly rough to the touch. These seem to cause a burning sensation that after a while, becomes too uncomfortable to keep sitting down. It's not so much deep bruising for me. As long as I sit still, that is not too bad.

While most spankings make sitting down somewhat uncomfortable for a couple of hours, the really memorable ones make it uncomfortable for a day or two. At least, that's how it is for me.

Feel free to ask me more.

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I understand the flow here is how to provide less discomfort.  My former did just the opposite.  She would prolong the pain by forcing me to sit on a punishment stool for a period of time after a spanking.  Her stool had inverted bottle caps tacked to the seat.  Try that on a freshly spanked ass.  

How do I sit after a spanking????  Old joke answer...Very carefully.   Seriously, the methods stated above, pillow, squirming, standing, etc are all good and I have used most of them.

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No pillows to alleviate spanking pain. I just sit normally, sometimes with hesitation, after a spanking. Even on a spanking so hard I felt it for a week.

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When it happens (which has not been that often) I have to sit bare-bottomed on a pillow at the dinner table to prolong my humiliation. All that was missing was a dinner party! A guy can dream, I suppose. 😈

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My partner does not often spank me very severely, but when she does, I try to avoid sitting down for the next few hours. Standing up or lying down is more comfortable. If you have to sit down, bare-bottomed on a pillow is probably the best way. It's very uncomfortable if you have to put clothes on, especially tight-fitting briefs.

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This is one of those things I don't "get" as an 'ee....   Perhaps it's due to my high pain tolerance, but I've always felt a little bit guilty and awkward when after a spanking, my 'er expects me to have trouble sitting.... o.o and I actually... don't....     If not my high pain tolerance, maybe it's my weight, I am not sure, but I always felt like I have disappointed 'ers when they ask me later on in the evening, let alone the next day if it hurts to sit...   I don't want to lie about it so I typically have to admit awkwardly that I'm actually okay...

Even with my first husband, before our divorce, whom I probably have received the most intense spankings in my life from... (He seemed to be the only one who was comfortable enough to take it to such a high level of intensity compared to other 'ers)  I could have welts, stripes and blisters....    And sitting afterward? Well, most of the time if I did feel it, it was never so much that I had to somehow alter how I sit, whatever I felt was typically a constant "reminder" of what happened, maybe a very mild discomfort or sensation, but nothing to the point I'd try to avoid that feeling... If anything it was more calming than anything and kept me a bit more subdued.

There was only one time where I think I was close to experiencing what I imagined I was *supposed* to be feeling post-spanking while sitting...   And that was when during an extremely intense one... Probably **the** most intense one I had ever received from him...  I was positioned in such a fashion that the implement struck on that sensitive area, right at the sit spot, as opposed to just the center of the cheeks...   now THAT I felt long after and may have been the one time I've found myself squirming a bit in my seat.

But yeah, typically I don't have this issue, so I just sit normally, and if I feel any sensation whatsoever, I find it calming if anything

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On 7/15/2022 at 1:49 AM, cat627 said:

This is one of those things I don't "get" as an 'ee....   Perhaps it's due to my high pain tolerance, but I've always felt a little bit guilty and awkward when after a spanking, my 'er expects me to have trouble sitting.... o.o and I actually... don't....     If not my high pain tolerance, maybe it's my weight, I am not sure, but I always felt like I have disappointed 'ers when they ask me later on in the evening, let alone the next day if it hurts to sit...   I don't want to lie about it so I typically have to admit awkwardly that I'm actually okay...

Even with my first husband, before our divorce, whom I probably have received the most intense spankings in my life from... (He seemed to be the only one who was comfortable enough to take it to such a high level of intensity compared to other 'ers)  I could have welts, stripes and blisters....    And sitting afterward? Well, most of the time if I did feel it, it was never so much that I had to somehow alter how I sit, whatever I felt was typically a constant "reminder" of what happened, maybe a very mild discomfort or sensation, but nothing to the point I'd try to avoid that feeling... If anything it was more calming than anything and kept me a bit more subdued.

There was only one time where I think I was close to experiencing what I imagined I was *supposed* to be feeling post-spanking while sitting...   And that was when during an extremely intense one... Probably **the** most intense one I had ever received from him...  I was positioned in such a fashion that the implement struck on that sensitive area, right at the sit spot, as opposed to just the center of the cheeks...   now THAT I felt long after and may have been the one time I've found myself squirming a bit in my seat.

But yeah, typically I don't have this issue, so I just sit normally, and if I feel any sensation whatsoever, I find it calming if anything

Wow Cat...that is amazing. I do wish I had a bit higher tolerance than I do....but I do feel most of my spankings intensely....even the less severe ones. While my bottom is not always super tender after being smacked in some manner...there is always a natural desire to sit "gingerly"...or not at all....lol. You are a super hero of us spankees....lol.

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On 7/10/2022 at 5:14 PM, nicoleS39 said:

Of course, it kind of depends on the severity of the spanking. If the spanking was on the more severe side....I lay on my stomach alot...lol...or stand alot...lol...to completely avoid sitting. Butt....lol...that is not always an option...so I try for a pillow or a car seat cushion...if in the car. My husband lets me keep a car seat cushion on hand if the need arises. If no additional cushion or pillow is available to me...I try to adjust the pressure on the more tender areas of my bottom...but not be too obvious in public. This is also known as wiggling my hiney while seated, or squirming. My husband finds it amusing in a restaurant or in church....lol.

 

Right after a spanking I usually lie on my stomach for a while if possible, and if not, try to stay standing. Spankings in the backseat of the car are the worst this way, as I have to "sit up and fasten your seatbelt, unless you want more!" so my wife can start driving, but I can manage to get most of my weight to one side or the other, and shift to the other side often. This experience and having to go right down to a hotel breakfast after being spanked in our room, where I amused my wife by squirming while we ate on hard chairs, made realize that right after a spanking when your whole bottom is really sore, squirming on a hard surface is better, because you keep the pressure on a smaller area and move it around. A pillow or soft upholstery fits to your bottom's shape, so there is lighter pressure everywhere at once, and squirming doesn’t help much, which is fine only once my bottom is no longer quite so sore all over! Also the bucketseat in the front of the car is worse after a spanking than the bench seat in back, and going into church to sit on a hard pew bench is actually an improvement, although I have to try not to squirm too much. Fortunately we spend a lot of the service kneeling or standing!

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On 7/11/2022 at 9:12 AM, Zhal said:

No pillows to alleviate spanking pain. I just sit normally, sometimes with hesitation, after a spanking. Even on a spanking so hard I felt it for a week.

Zhal, help me understand. To me it seems like not being able to sit for a week would have to a quite severe spanking. I am spanked frequently, for stress relief, I typically feel the spankings, as aftereffects overlap a bit, for a couple of days or so. less frequent spankings I typically feel for a few hours. They are hard but not severe in any way. Jusr curious.

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1 hour ago, selfsp12 said:

Zhal, help me understand. To me it seems like not being able to sit for a week would have to a quite severe spanking. I am spanked frequently, for stress relief, I typically feel the spankings, as aftereffects overlap a bit, for a couple of days or so. less frequent spankings I typically feel for a few hours. They are hard but not severe in any way. Jusr curious.

It was a punishment/motivation spanking. Sitting was doable, it's just that the initial process of sitting down was uncomfortable, especially on toilets. Once I was actually sitting, I could mostly ignore the pain. With toilets, I got the pain again when I stood up. Yes, that spanking was quite intense, and it served its purpose. So much so that I actually had to double check during that week, mentally asking "did I really get a hard spanking," and looking at my recovering butt in the mirror.

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On a side note to sitting afterwards, i just had an online disciplinarian give me spanking orders which included sitting bare bottomed on a hard chair for 5-10 mins after each set. I must say, my bottom was more stingier and longer than usual.

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I once dabbled in punishment self spankings, and afterward sitting on a hard chair was part of the session. Quite uncomfortable, I agree. But trying to focus on a point on the wall was really hard and made me lose track of the discomfort. may be for fun I should try and spanking and then sit on the chair for several minutes, not focusing on anything.

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I am generally ordered to sit on a hard wooden chair with my behind still bare, and I continue to be scolded and am expected to sit upright and pay attention. If I squirm around, I have to bend over the charge and push my rear-end out for more punishment.

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I often sit gingerly (or choose not to sit at all) for a few days after a disciplinary spanking. I never use a pillow. I suppose the lingering effects are a good reminder. 

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