My Black Punishment Book

[Spankingmyhuby]

In our many years of marriage I have had to punish my husband.I keep a black punishment book that keeps track of each spanking. The notebook has the date , offense , implement used . This helps me determine a fair spanking and what other punishment I will impose.The seriousness of the offense and number of times committing the offense is a big factor in how severe his punishment will be . Does any disciplinarian or any spankee's disciplinarian keep a record of punishments? I feel it's a good idea.

[OhRedhead]

I have an accountability chart that is updated daily. No record of disciplinary actions, though.

[David!]

My wife says she doesn't keep track, she just gives me the spanking she thinks I deserve when she finds it appropriate or convenient. I keep a log called "Unforced Errors" of misbehaviors that have caused her to threaten/ promise/ give a spanking, and dates of spankings with codes for place, implement and severity. Usually there are a couple of threats and then a promise or a misbehavior that caused an on the spot spanking between each spanking entry. The spankings are always proportional to the entries since the last spanking, so she must have some internal accounting of my cumulative misbehavior. I like to think the log helps me learn from my mistakes, but sometimes I look at it just to worry about how close I may be to getting spanked, or scare myself with how severe a promised spanking is going to be!

[rubyredd]

A former disciplinary partner kept a little book. Plus, I used an accountability tracker (spreadsheet). 

[Chawsee]

Yes. I keep copious notes, though digitally, rather than in a physical book. (For reference, most areas of my life are now entirely virtual and paper-free.) If a spanking partnership is in the making, where we think we will be meeting for this purpose, I save key points from our correspondences, which go into a computer file under that individual's name.

If the partnership progresses to actual spankings, these sessions, too, are recorded, as are details about infractions committed, the date those infractions were corrected, implements used, and the spankee's mindset both before our session and during our talk afterwards.

Granted, I love to write, so I take this beyond what most folks would ever want to.  But there's something satisfying about pulling up a file and being able to revisit exactly what was said in a past conversation, or monitoring a spankee's progress and retrograde steps. This can be insightful for ascertaining which approaches are most affective, and which aren't working. 

[Spank_that_ass]

I keep a log for my disciplinarian.  My recordkeeping isn't perfect, but it is pretty complete. 

[selfsp12]

I keep a log of my self spankings. Date, time, # of spanks, implements used, and how hard it felt. I use this to reference  back to previous spankings or if i want a particular implement(s) ow I used them in the past.

[Spankingmyhuby]

To OhRedhead accountability chart to Chawsee impressive files it is good that that their is documentation on a spankee behavior. In David's case I am sure his wife won't tolerate his boyish behavior even though it is not documented. My husband knows before he goes across my knee why he is being spanked because I have my black punishment book and implement / implements I am going to use. I believe it is a very positive that are members do keep some records to make the punishment fair and understood between the spanker and the spankee.             Ms L.

[Spank_that_ass]

15 hours ago, Spankingmyhuby said:

To OhRedhead accountability chart to Chawsee impressive files it is good that that their is documentation on a spankee behavior. In David's case I am sure his wife won't tolerate his boyish behavior even though it is not documented. My husband knows before he goes across my knee why he is being spanked because I have my black punishment book and implement / implements I am going to use. I believe it is a very positive that are members do keep some records to make the punishment fair and understood between the spanker and the spankee.             Ms L.

Does your husband read the entries before he gets his punishment?  Or does he find out what he is going to get when it happens.  I think the anticipation of knowing what is coming is a punishment in itself.

[Spankingmyhuby]

5 hours ago, Spank_that_ass said:

Does your husband read the entries before he gets his punishment?  Or does he find out what he is going to get when it happens.  I think the anticipation of knowing what is coming is a punishment in itself.

First I order him to go stand in the corner that means strip down to his t-shirt and panties. He knows when I say that he is going to get a punishment spanking. While he stands in the corner I review his offense. I call him out of the corner and he stands in front of me while I am sitting. I will ask him "Why he is going to get a spanking? After that I will say yes or explain why he is getting it if he has given me the wrong answer. Also I will tell him how many times over the years he has committed this offense. Then I will tell him what implements I am going to use then I punish my husband.         Ms L

[GaryMcKee]

I can definitely see the virtue in record-keeping. It’s ironic that my wife, an academic with a knack for organizing just about everything, doesn’t keep a record of my spankable offenses nor the consequences. She deals with them (and me) promptly without writing anything down. 

[Spank_that_ass]

18 hours ago, Spankingmyhuby said:

First I order him to go stand in the corner that means strip down to his t-shirt and panties. He knows when I say that he is going to get a punishment spanking. While he stands in the corner I review his offense. I call him out of the corner and he stands in front of me while I am sitting. I will ask him "Why he is going to get a spanking? After that I will say yes or explain why he is getting it if he has given me the wrong answer. Also I will tell him how many times over the years he has committed this offense. Then I will tell him what implements I am going to use then I punish my husband.         Ms L

Does he get an addition to his punishment if he does not know what he is being punished for? 

[Spankingmyhuby]

6 hours ago, Spank_that_ass said:

Does he get an addition to his punishment if he does not know what he is being punished for? 

No my husband does not get punished for not knowing . But  that scenario is very unlikely. He knows the rules and he is quite aware why he is getting punished.   Ms L