Getting caught and then helped with self spanking

[Paintbylight]

I have a fascination with being caught self spanking and then being turned over the knee and spanked. Either with compassion in a 'let me help you' aspect or more of a harsher tone. Anyone have experience with this? Share your personal stories or fantasies? 

 

Still really new to this site so apologies if this is in the wrong place

[luvs2spin78]

hi Paintbylight!   And welcome to the forum!!  I hope you find it to be a fun, safe and exciting place to visit and correspond with people who share your interests!

Wow.. what an interesting fascination you bring up.  Do you have any personal experience with this yourself or is it more a fantasy? I imagine if you self-spank then you might very well have those fantasy thoughts (of someone catching you) going though your head. Do you have any people in particular you'd like to have cacth you? I don't have any stories to share, but love you bringing up this topic.  I'm a switch, but in reality have only spanked female bottoms while being spanked has long been an intriguing thought. I've not ever self-spanked either, other than a few swats to 'see what it feels' like... but maybe on one of those occasions I should be hoping for the pretty neighbor lady or one of my wife's girlfriends to catch me!  LOL 

[Gator]

making you complete your self spanking, then giving you a proper spanking to show you how its done. sounds fun

[Lotsapappa]

Yes, I share same fascination with getting caught at something resulting in a harsh OTK. Self spanking is good one as it adds humiliation and “natural outcome” or at least flows well. I would encourage you to pursue this if still just a fantasy as it has always been as good as the fantasy for me.  I have experience with this so PM if like to hear details. 

Assume by “paint by light” you are creative. Bonus. I also enjoy photography and the paint by light effect. Lately, I fantasize more about adding lens and currently the Fuji 100v street camera. 
 

Welcome to SN. Let it all out on this forum! 

[Chawsee]

On 10/7/2021 at 6:18 AM, Paintbylight said:

I have a fascination with being caught self spanking and then being turned over the knee and spanked. Either with compassion in a 'let me help you' aspect or more of a harsher tone. Anyone have experience with this? Share your personal stories or fantasies? 

Welcome to SN, Paintbylight!  We're glad to have you join us. You're certain to make friends here with likeminded people.

I had to comment on your post, because just last week a spanko friend and I were discussing this very scenario. It hasn't happened to either of us in real life, but he talked about how he used to self-paddle while lying over the arm of the sofa, and I added that I would enjoy walking in on him and "help him out."  It's a wonderful fantasy for me. 

[Chawsee]

1 minute ago, Chawsee said:

Welcome to SN, Paintbylight!  We're glad to have you join us. You're certain to make friends here with likeminded people.

I had to comment on your post, because just last week a spanko friend and I were discussing this very scenario. It hasn't happened to either of us in real life, but he talked about how he used to self-paddle while lying over the arm of the sofa, and I added that I would enjoy walking in on him and "help him out."  It's a wonderful fantasy for me. 

I should add that "helping him out" meant taking the paddle from him, putting him over my knee, and giving him a proper spanking so that he didn't have to endure the awkward and uncomfortable positioning required to self-spank. But I think the way I worded that made it sound more titillating than I intended. Oops! 

[Flspanks]

On 10/7/2021 at 8:18 AM, Paintbylight said:

I have a fascination with being caught self spanking and then being turned over the knee and spanked. Either with compassion in a 'let me help you' aspect or more of a harsher tone. Anyone have experience with this? Share your personal stories or fantasies? 

 

Still really new to this site so apologies if this is in the wrong place

It is something I ho experience with but Like the idea--especially as the spanker

[mihaispk]

Hello Paintbylight. This is one of my favourite spanking scenarios. I have no personal experience involving this situation, but I can recommend you some stories that follow this topic.
They are written by Peter242 and you can find two of them on lushstories: Lisa's Story, and Lockdown Changes and the third is posted on thespankinglibrary: Better Than Self-Spanking

I hope you'll enjoy them.

[Redburn]

On 10/7/2021 at 8:18 AM, Paintbylight said:

Anyone have experience with this?

Now i wanna. HMU.

[Redburn]

On 10/7/2021 at 8:18 AM, Paintbylight said:

Anyone have experience with this?

Now i wanna. HMU.

[Redburn]

On 10/7/2021 at 8:18 AM, Paintbylight said:

Anyone have experience with this?

Now i wanna. HMU.

[Redbtmboy]

I also share this fantasy.  I tend to equate self-spanking to a form of self-pleasure, so getting caught self-spanking is almost like getting caught masturbating -- which is both very embarrassing and a bit taboo, depending on your upbringing (mine was very conservative so it would certainly be thought of as taboo).  Then for that person to take over and give me a spanking would be like actually getting punished for behaving inappropriately. 

[selfsp12]

Self spanking I have lots of experience with, so I certianly have the same fantasy of getting caught and getting, what would be my first, a spanking from my wife. The embarrasement of getting caught, and then the 'let me help you out' would fill two fantasies. Love her dearly, but quite vanilla with no desire to spank me. Of course for a long time I had no idea this was something I wanted and needed. 

Hope your fantasy becomes reality some time.

[bbnotkspnkng]

When I was in college, My neighbor in the next apartment heard me giving myself a good spanking.  He knocked on my door and asked me if everything was OK.  He asked if he could come in and I told him I didn’t have any clothes on.  He came into my apartment I close the door instead they’re facing the door exposing my red bottom.  He’s sat on the bed in my studio apartment and told me not to be embarrassed.  So I walked over and stood in front of them and he said that he always thought that I needed a good spanking.  I told him that I tried giving myself a spanking but I couldn’t spank myself hard enough.  He told me that he could help me whenever I want.  I put myself across this lap and you start rubbing my red bottom.  We talked about  how my dad used to spank me all the time growing up And I told him I needed a real good spanking.  After what seem like the longest spanking ever, I Got up rubbing my sore bottom with a complete erection.  He told me not to hesitate to let them know if I ever needed another good spanking.

[Khakikid]

This actually brought back a memory. I've enjoyed spanking since I was a little kid, even before I realized what that meant. One evening I was laying on the floor reading a book and absent-mindedly smacking my bottom over my pants. All of a sudden I heard a whole lot of giggling behind me - apparently my brother and sister (2 and 4 years older than me, respectively) had been watching me for some time. My sister decided to "help me" if I was going to be smacking myself anyway, but I was so flustered that I just ran away, even though I was dying to get a spanking like that. I must've been like 8 at the time.

[Speedgoat]

I stayed with my aunt one summer when I was 17. I was out back in the pool when her friend came over. I was introduced to her by my Aunt. Then, they sat and talked while I enjoyed the pool and the sun. Next, they went inside and got a drink and talked for about 20 more minutes. My aunt came back out and told me she was going to her hair appointment and had a couple of errands to run. She said she would be back in 3 hours or so. Susan had already left, apparently.  After my aunt left I got out of the pool and towled off. I then went inside to change out of my wet bathing suit. Once in the bathroom I hung my suit up in the shower and wrapped my towel around me. Then, I saw my aunts hairbrush on the sink. I immediately knew I had to spank myself with it. I picked it up and walked over to my aunts bed. I droppd my towel and bent over the edge. I fantasized about my aunt spanking me and placed my left arm behind my back while spanking myself hard with the brush with my right. It hurt, but felt so good. I was relentless and had tears in my eyes. Then, I heard a gasp. I looked up and Susan was standing in the doorway of my aunts room staring at me. I was mortified. I dropped the brush and grabbed my towel. Susan stood there looking at me. Finally, she asked me what I was doing. I was embarrassed and began to cry. I couldn't control it, it just happened. I apologized vehemently. She had left her phone in the kitchen and had come back to get it. I never heard her come in and she never knocked because she and my aunt were friends. I begged her not to yell my aunt. She asked me why I was spanking myself and I admitted that I was guilty because of my bad behavior and deserved it. She told me that I certainly did. Then she walked over to me and grabbed my arm and picked up the brush. She sat down on the bed, yanked the towel off and pulled me over her lap. She proceeded to blister my butt until I was bawling and then made me stand in the corner. I don't know if she ever told my aunt.

[PinkLily]

18 hours ago, Speedgoat said:

I stayed with my aunt one summer when I was 17. I was out back in the pool when her friend came over. I was introduced to her by my Aunt. Then, they sat and talked while I enjoyed the pool and the sun. Next, they went inside and got a drink and talked for about 20 more minutes. My aunt came back out and told me she was going to her hair appointment and had a couple of errands to run. She said she would be back in 3 hours or so. Susan had already left, apparently.  After my aunt left I got out of the pool and towled off. I then went inside to change out of my wet bathing suit. Once in the bathroom I hung my suit up in the shower and wrapped my towel around me. Then, I saw my aunts hairbrush on the sink. I immediately knew I had to spank myself with it. I picked it up and walked over to my aunts bed. I droppd my towel and bent over the edge. I fantasized about my aunt spanking me and placed my left arm behind my back while spanking myself hard with the brush with my right. It hurt, but felt so good. I was relentless and had tears in my eyes. Then, I heard a gasp. I looked up and Susan was standing in the doorway of my aunts room staring at me. I was mortified. I dropped the brush and grabbed my towel. Susan stood there looking at me. Finally, she asked me what I was doing. I was embarrassed and began to cry. I couldn't control it, it just happened. I apologized vehemently. She had left her phone in the kitchen and had come back to get it. I never heard her come in and she never knocked because she and my aunt were friends. I begged her not to yell my aunt. She asked me why I was spanking myself and I admitted that I was guilty because of my bad behavior and deserved it. She told me that I certainly did. Then she walked over to me and grabbed my arm and picked up the brush. She sat down on the bed, yanked the towel off and pulled me over her lap. She proceeded to blister my butt until I was bawling and then made me stand in the corner. I don't know if she ever told my aunt.

Thats actually really nice that she helped.  Did it help your fantasies or increase them?

[Speedgoat]

1 hour ago, PinkLily said:

Thats actually really nice that she helped.  Did it help your fantasies or increase them?

Increased them. I'm a spanko for life.

[PinkLily]

Good for you!

[ToughTanner]

This was a fascinating read.  All of you self spankers are amazing. It takes a lot of courage to take that implement and tan your own backside.  I am curious, how many do this for pleasure and how many for punishment? 

[Justlooking4otk]

I have a similar fantasy that one of my neighbors here in my building hears my self spanking and they investigate by knocking on the door, that or they meet me in real to ask me about it, and offer to give me a helping hand!

[Flspanks]

On 10/7/2021 at 8:18 AM, Paintbylight said:

I have a fascination with being caught self spanking and then being turned over the knee and spanked. Either with compassion in a 'let me help you' aspect or more of a harsher tone. Anyone have experience with this? Share your personal stories or fantasies? 

 

Still really new to this site so apologies if this is in the wrong place

Sounds like fun

[TotallyColleen]

On 3/8/2023 at 8:02 PM, Speedgoat said:

I stayed with my aunt one summer when I was 17. I was out back in the pool when her friend came over. I was introduced to her by my Aunt. Then, they sat and talked while I enjoyed the pool and the sun. Next, they went inside and got a drink and talked for about 20 more minutes. My aunt came back out and told me she was going to her hair appointment and had a couple of errands to run. She said she would be back in 3 hours or so. Susan had already left, apparently.  After my aunt left I got out of the pool and towled off. I then went inside to change out of my wet bathing suit. Once in the bathroom I hung my suit up in the shower and wrapped my towel around me. Then, I saw my aunts hairbrush on the sink. I immediately knew I had to spank myself with it. I picked it up and walked over to my aunts bed. I droppd my towel and bent over the edge. I fantasized about my aunt spanking me and placed my left arm behind my back while spanking myself hard with the brush with my right. It hurt, but felt so good. I was relentless and had tears in my eyes. Then, I heard a gasp. I looked up and Susan was standing in the doorway of my aunts room staring at me. I was mortified. I dropped the brush and grabbed my towel. Susan stood there looking at me. Finally, she asked me what I was doing. I was embarrassed and began to cry. I couldn't control it, it just happened. I apologized vehemently. She had left her phone in the kitchen and had come back to get it. I never heard her come in and she never knocked because she and my aunt were friends. I begged her not to yell my aunt. She asked me why I was spanking myself and I admitted that I was guilty because of my bad behavior and deserved it. She told me that I certainly did. Then she walked over to me and grabbed my arm and picked up the brush. She sat down on the bed, yanked the towel off and pulled me over her lap. She proceeded to blister my butt until I was bawling and then made me stand in the corner. I don't know if she ever told my aunt.

This is like my top fantasy scenario 🤣

[Flspanks]

On 4/4/2023 at 4:16 PM, TotallyColleen said:

This is like my top fantasy scenario 🤣

Willing to help-DM if you like.