A very "considerate" dress for a female spankee to wear....for her spanker.... Don't you think? So very thoughtful...lol.

[nicoleS39]

[Smacbott]

looks ideal!

[nicoleS39]

The photo is not me...btw. My husband wanted me to clarify that....lol.

 

[mikeae102754]

Looks like it has the right opening. Do you get spanked often?

 

[Lineok]

Lovely

[SpankorBSpanked]

It doesn't look as though the opening is large enough . . . I would just pull the entire skirt up out of the way.

[SpankorBSpanked]

It doesn't look as though the opening is large enough . . . I would just pull the entire skirt up out of the way.

[nicoleS39]

9 hours ago, mikeae102754 said:

Looks like it has the right opening. Do you get spanked often?

 

Lol....I get my fair share of spankings from my husband....I suppose....as often as my behavior or attitude or performance warrants.  The opening seems a bit inadequate to me...might need to go a bit lower.  Still...very funny dress. And no...if my husband would get one of these to wear in public...I would absolutely not.....lol. He could spank me to kingdom come...I would not wear that in public. Now in private...for his eyes only...I would wear this...or anything he desires me to wear or not wear.

[Bramblewine]

The opening looks a little too high to me. It doesn't expose much of the buttocks below the crest, mainly above. That's mostly out of the safe play zone.

[secretman]

...why not just wear an apron? 

[luvs2spin78]

oh my... how absolutely lovely!!!    but I totally agree with the other comments about the size and location of the opening....  plus one of the biggest pleasures in spanking is raising a woman's skirt or dress as part of the process of baring her bottom    

Nicole, think of the AMAZING rush and thrills you'd both get and give by wearing this dress out in public..  YOU'D ROCK GIRL!!!  any woman who would have the brazen audacity to do that would get HUGE admiration for her courage and confidence!!!  the 'power' in that equation is all YOU...  plus it would unleash an overwhelming fun, flirty, sexiness to your persona that would leave people floored, speechless and in awe.......    I'm sure you'd make every other woman jealous that she didn't have the courage to do that, and that you are getting all the smiles and admiration...   get that dress, and save it for when you go out of town to someplace like Vegas or a beach resort..  you'll be a HUGE hit, it will likely give you an INCREDIBLE rush of adrenaline (if you don't pass out first! lol), you'll be the hit of the evening, and you will never have to see any of those people again.... but will always have that exciting memory...  go for it!!!    think of the first women that wore a bikini (!!!!) or decades later wore a thong to the beach that totally exposed their cheeks...     I can just imagine all the thoughts that would be racing through your mind as you're riding the elevator down and other people might be getting on..  and just you and hubby know your rear end is exposed...and then as you walk through the lobby NO ONE you pass knows either (!!) and you wonder how fast you can get to your Uber... and sit your ass down (literally!!) in the restaurant before people begin noticing            for testers, next time you walk through a lobby imagine that your cute bum cheeks are exposed like that, and make a mental note of how many of the people you walk past would actually notice...  clearly those that might be walking behind you, but how many of them are there?  and maybe there arent any...   and once you get to the car valet, if your hubby walks quickly right behind you to escort you into the waiting car then my guess is you might get away without anyone noticing or just a few double-takes from confused people who may have had a quick flash or peek and were left wondering 'hey was that woman's bare bottom sticking out of her dress?!?!?     nah... couldnt have been'

[CaliSpanker53]

@nicoleS39 Works for me!

[nicoleS39]

3 hours ago, luvs2spin78 said:

oh my... how absolutely lovely!!!    but I totally agree with the other comments about the size and location of the opening....  plus one of the biggest pleasures in spanking is raising a woman's skirt or dress as part of the process of baring her bottom    

Nicole, think of the AMAZING rush and thrills you'd both get and give by wearing this dress out in public..  YOU'D ROCK GIRL!!!  any woman who would have the brazen audacity to do that would get HUGE admiration for her courage and confidence!!!  the 'power' in that equation is all YOU...  plus it would unleash an overwhelming fun, flirty, sexiness to your persona that would leave people floored, speechless and in awe.......    I'm sure you'd make every other woman jealous that she didn't have the courage to do that, and that you are getting all the smiles and admiration...   get that dress, and save it for when you go out of town to someplace like Vegas or a beach resort..  you'll be a HUGE hit, it will likely give you an INCREDIBLE rush of adrenaline (if you don't pass out first! lol), you'll be the hit of the evening, and you will never have to see any of those people again.... but will always have that exciting memory...  go for it!!!    think of the first women that wore a bikini (!!!!) or decades later wore a thong to the beach that totally exposed their cheeks...     I can just imagine all the thoughts that would be racing through your mind as you're riding the elevator down and other people might be getting on..  and just you and hubby know your rear end is exposed...and then as you walk through the lobby NO ONE you pass knows either (!!) and you wonder how fast you can get to your Uber... and sit your ass down (literally!!) in the restaurant before people begin noticing            for testers, next time you walk through a lobby imagine that your cute bum cheeks are exposed like that, and make a mental note of how many of the people you walk past would actually notice...  clearly those that might be walking behind you, but how many of them are there?  and maybe there arent any...   and once you get to the car valet, if your hubby walks quickly right behind you to escort you into the waiting car then my guess is you might get away without anyone noticing or just a few double-takes from confused people who may have had a quick flash or peek and were left wondering 'hey was that woman's bare bottom sticking out of her dress?!?!?     nah... couldnt have been'

lol...there IS a part of me that would actually like to do that...lol.  lol...not sure "which" part...but certainly enjoying the speculation of doing it...lol.

[nicoleS39]

48 minutes ago, CaliSpanker53 said:

@nicoleS39 Works for me!

lol...thought it might...lol.

[SpudStateSpanky]

Not good enough access to her butt for giving a spanking, but what if lady SPANKERS dressed this way?  ?

[Chawsee]

On 10/10/2021 at 10:11 PM, SpudStateSpanky said:

Not good enough access to her butt for giving a spanking, but what if lady SPANKERS dressed this way?  ?

 Ha-- not a chance!  

[SpudStateSpanky]

How come I knew you’d say that?!  Oh well, it was worth the try.  ?

[SpudStateSpanky]

@Chawsee  You need to not work so much, so you can get on SN more often and answer my questions promptly!  ?

[nicoleS39]

For you spankers out there...maybe this otherwise normal dress....has the access better located...lol.

[spike]

12 hours ago, nicoleS39 said:

For you spankers out there...maybe this otherwise normal dress....has the access better located...lol.

Thank you, Nicole - right out of my 'died and went to heaven' fantasy: a long line of women all wearing this dress, walking up for a spanking, one after the other.

[nicoleS39]

10 hours ago, spike said:

Thank you, Nicole - right out of my 'died and went to heaven' fantasy: a long line of women all wearing this dress, walking up for a spanking, one after the other.

Lol Spike....kind of an "eloquent" scene in your fantasy...almost maybe, like attending a formal dance...not dressed to kill, but dressed to spank!  Lol...my humor is just weird. For,some reason, I know not why...I find these kind of dresses hilarious. And...can you imagine the hand placement during slow dancing?  lol....

[Chawsee]

On 10/21/2021 at 8:20 PM, SpudStateSpanky said:

@Chawsee  You need to not work so much, so you can get on SN more often and answer my questions promptly!  ?

I'm "riding for the brand." In ranch terms, that means that I am loyal and dedicated to the outfit I work for. So right now, my schedule is what it is-- and that simply has to come before SN.

[Naughtyboy50]

18 hours ago, Chawsee said:

I'm "riding for the brand." In ranch terms, that means that I am loyal and dedicated to the outfit I work for. So right now, my schedule is what it is-- and that simply has to come before SN.

@Chawsee, thanks for all of your contributions, and of course, we all have outside responsibilities and need to prioritize appropriately- I think that’s called adulting - not always fun, and absolutely essential! 

 

On 10/21/2021 at 10:20 PM, SpudStateSpanky said:

@Chawsee  You need to not work so much, so you can get on SN more often and answer my questions promptly!  ?

@SpudStateSpanky, no offense intended here but seriously, you sound a bit obsessed with your posts over the past few months.  At first I thought it was simply sadness from the end of a spanking relationship (completely understandable). However, now it comes across a bit unhinged.  I don’t know either of you, and I’m not looking to meet

@chawsee, so my comment is purely from observations without selfish motive.  One guy to another - IMO your comments are sending up red flags, and it comes across as a bit stalkerish and scary.  We all want to be safe in this community and I felt a strong need to call this out.  Again, not intended to insult but to attempt to raise self- awareness. 

[SpudStateSpanky]

On 10/25/2021 at 5:38 AM, Naughtyboy50 said:

@SpudStateSpanky, no offense intended here but seriously, you sound a bit obsessed with your posts over the past few months.  At first I thought it was simply sadness from the end of a spanking relationship (completely understandable). However, now it comes across a bit unhinged.  I don’t know either of you, and I’m not looking to meet

@chawsee, so my comment is purely from observations without selfish motive.  One guy to another - IMO your comments are sending up red flags, and it comes across as a bit stalkerish and scary.  We all want to be safe in this community and I felt a strong need to call this out.  Again, not intended to insult but to attempt to raise self- awareness. 

Seriously?!  Can you not see that I was just playfully teasing her?  If you read my other posts, you’ll see that I’m also protective of her.  I don’t understand how you can take the above comment from me and think it’s “stalkerish and scary”.  Yes, my filter is not the best and I’ve put her through a lot that I’m not proud of.  But my respect for her is tremendous.  And yes, I’m grieving the loss of our spanking partnership and sometimes I don’t know how to handle that.  I may be annoying, but dangerous I’m not!

[Chawsee]

@Naughtyboy50- Thank you. This is a good reminder for all of us that we must be extra considerate on the internet, because the written word is always harder to interpret than is body language, facial expressions, or tone of voice. And when those we correspond with have never met us, something that comes across wrong can feel magnified. 

@SpudStateSpanky- You had that coming. I know that your comment was just playful teasing, as you said, and I didn't find it offensive. But some of your comments lately have been edgy.