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[Chawsee]

Hi Guys,

How is everyone? Are you having a challenge you'd like to talk about? A question, maybe? Comments? Please chime in and share with us an update. Male spankees are a special class of men, and I'd like to hear how each of you is doing. 

Kindly,

Chawsee

[Geoffreaux]

Hello, I have fantasized about it for years. However, I have never acted on it, so all of my experience is theoretical. I have chatted with a few nice ladies, but most have been more interested in gift cards, and/or internet role playing games. Neither of which I am interested in. Thank you for your query. 

[SpudStateSpanky]

I’ve been down lately and missing my disciplinarian.  ?   I know it’s entirely my fault, but that’s where I’m at.

[GaryMcKee]

11 hours ago, Chawsee said:

Hi Guys,

How is everyone? Are you having a challenge you'd like to talk about? A question, maybe? Comments? Please chime in and share with us an update. Male spankees are a special class of men, and I'd like to hear how each of you is doing. 

Kindly,

Chawsee

Hi, Chawsee

I trust that you are well and happy. I love your strict yet loving energy. You are a first-class lady! As for me, I’m talking with my wife lately about returning to regular maintenance spankings. I mentioned to her respectfully that I feel that I am not spending enough time over her knee. I miss it. She appreciated my forthright sharing and promised to give the subject some serious thought. I’m grateful to my wife for saying that. I’m a much better behaved man when I am held accountable by her regularly in that old-fashioned way. 

[SunsOutBunzOut]

I’m alright. I’ve been dipping my toes into making leather spanking implements. I find I’ve been isolating myself unintentionally and have noticed my social skills have gotten “rusty” so to speak. I think it’s difficult to connect with people via the internet. Will probably self-spank for stress relief later-test us the prototypes, haha.

 

btw Chawsee, I don’t think we’ve met, but it’s nice to meet you-thank you for starting this thread.

[Geoffreaux]

I would be interested in talking about this, but I have never made it that far. It might not even be practical anymore?  I have tried, here, and on other forums, for about five years. I am comfortable with that, I don’t want to exceed anyone’s limits. I wish that I would get the same consideration. ?

[Chawsee]

Sorry guys, my goal was to get to you last night, but I wasn't able to, due to site freezing-up. I'm thankful that it's so much better tonight.  

[Chawsee]

On 9/15/2021 at 10:51 PM, Geoffreaux said:

Hello, I have fantasized about it for years. However, I have never acted on it, so all of my experience is theoretical. I have chatted with a few nice ladies, but most have been more interested in gift cards, and/or internet role playing games. Neither of which I am interested in. Thank you for your query. 

19 hours ago, Geoffreaux said:

I would be interested in talking about this, but I have never made it that far. It might not even be practical anymore?  I have tried, here, and on other forums, for about five years. I am comfortable with that, I don’t want to exceed anyone’s limits. I wish that I would get the same consideration. ?

Yes, the gift card scam is a bad one. A man attempted that with me on a dating site in January of 2020. He asked me to buy him $200 worth of gift cards (two $100 cards or four $50 cards), scratch off the strip on the back of them, and email him photos of the number beneath. Oh hell no!! This is a good time to warn our friends that if anyone on the internet asks you to buy them gift cards, this is a huge red flag. Cease all communication at once (after you tell them where the hell to go!). 

@Geoffreaux, I hope you can feel comfortable opening up a little and sharing with this group. That's why we're here, to support each other. You're amongst friends.  

[Chawsee]

On 9/16/2021 at 8:51 AM, GaryMcKee said:

Hi, Chawsee

I trust that you are well and happy. I love your strict yet loving energy. You are a first-class lady! As for me, I’m talking with my wife lately about returning to regular maintenance spankings. I mentioned to her respectfully that I feel that I am not spending enough time over her knee. I miss it. She appreciated my forthright sharing and promised to give the subject some serious thought. I’m grateful to my wife for saying that. I’m a much better behaved man when I am held accountable by her regularly in that old-fashioned way. 

Gary, thank you for your kind words, sweet friend. I am proud of you for talking with your wife openly about your needs. Even the most in-tuned disciplinarians benefit from hearing what you need, and hearing it from you. I call this "going deep" or having a "heart-to-heart." Did you feel more bonded with her afterwards? Such honesty tend to have that affect. Consider yourself blessed that you have this strength. Good work! ⭐

[Chawsee]

On 9/16/2021 at 3:24 AM, SpudStateSpanky said:

I’ve been down lately and missing my disciplinarian.  ?   I know it’s entirely my fault, but that’s where I’m at.

Thank you for your honest sharing, Tim. I'm sure that others here can relate to what it feels like to lose a relationship. It's not easy for any of us. Hang in there, okay?

[Chawsee]

On 9/16/2021 at 11:37 AM, SunsOutBunzOut said:

I’m alright. I’ve been dipping my toes into making leather spanking implements. I find I’ve been isolating myself unintentionally and have noticed my social skills have gotten “rusty” so to speak. I think it’s difficult to connect with people via the internet. Will probably self-spank for stress relief later-test us the prototypes, haha.

 

btw Chawsee, I don’t think we’ve met, but it’s nice to meet you-thank you for starting this thread.

Hello SunsOut! Thanks for sharing. Making your own leather implements, eh? Pretty cool. Maybe sometime you can upload a photo of your handiwork? You're not alone when you say that your social skills have gotten rusty from being isolated. That's very common these days. But thankfully, it's not permanent, if we make a point to reconnect face-to-face with others. Self-spanking for stress relief sounds like a healthy outlet for releasing anything pent up that isn't serving you. Keep us updated....

[Geoffreaux]

Hi Chawsee. Thank you for your kind words. I have been following you since I’ve been here, and you seem very nice. I am kind of shy, and have not wanted to get into the middle of any of your conversations. I will look forward to chatting with you in the future. Yeah this site lags pretty bad sometimes. ?

[countspankulot]

Hi Chawsee and everyone, 

Ive received very few spankings from my wife over the last few months. She threatens a lot but rarely follows through. And Ive yet to feel the belt I bought earlier this year.

I guess what is most frustrating is that her spanking me seems to be based totally on her mood rather than my behavior.  I even reacted a little angrily to a quick spanking she gave me last week since it seemed so random. Ive never done that before. I'm usually grateful. 

I guess I should take a page from Gary's book and tell her how I've been feeling. But I feel like we've had these conversations in the past and they went nowhere. 

Thanks for listening,

Tom

[boy_otk]

Not a day goes by where I don't think about being spanked by a caring maternal figure. I'm still not in a position in my life where I can begin to actively seek out potential spankers but hoping it will happen within the next 5 years. 

@Chawsee Knowing that caring maternal disciplinarians like you exist gives me hope ma'am.

[GaryMcKee]

14 hours ago, Chawsee said:

Gary, thank you for your kind words, sweet friend. I am proud of you for talking with your wife openly about your needs. Even the most in-tuned disciplinarians benefit from hearing what you need, and hearing it from you. I call this "going deep" or having a "heart-to-heart." Did you feel more bonded with her afterwards? Such honesty tend to have that affect. Consider yourself blessed that you have this strength. Good work! ⭐

It would be fair to say that we bonded a bit more closely for having had that conversation. We do need to work on it some more. Altogether, I am very happy to have a wife who disciplines me over her knee. Will we get back to the times when she would abruptly end an argument by telling me to fetch her hairbrush and while I’m at it, bring a chair into the living room? I sure hope so! Step by step leads to steady progress. I’m doing my part, I can tell you that much!

[SunsOutBunzOut]

On 9/17/2021 at 10:28 PM, Chawsee said:

Hello SunsOut! Thanks for sharing. Making your own leather implements, eh? Pretty cool. Maybe sometime you can upload a photo of your handiwork? You're not alone when you say that your social skills have gotten rusty from being isolated. That's very common these days. But thankfully, it's not permanent, if we make a point to reconnect face-to-face with others. Self-spanking for stress relief sounds like a healthy outlet for releasing anything pent up that isn't serving you. Keep us updated....

Thanks, Chawsee

I’d be happy to upload some pics of the implements! I’ll also report back on my findings for how effective they are. I’m long overdue for a good booty-warming, so this can be an efficient process.

I agree on the social skills. I actually reconnected with a friend from fet and a catching up. A little awkward, but it’s coming back.

[Chawsee]

On 9/18/2021 at 12:38 AM, Geoffreaux said:

Hi Chawsee. Thank you for your kind words. I have been following you since I’ve been here, and you seem very nice. I am kind of shy, and have not wanted to get into the middle of any of your conversations. I will look forward to chatting with you in the future. Yeah this site lags pretty bad sometimes. ?

Feel free to jump in and share with us, Geoffreaux. One thing I've noticed about this Male Spankee Support Group is how approachable and down-to-earth everyone is. 

[Chawsee]

On 9/18/2021 at 3:49 AM, countspankulot said:

Hi Chawsee and everyone, 

Ive received very few spankings from my wife over the last few months. She threatens a lot but rarely follows through. And Ive yet to feel the belt I bought earlier this year.

I guess what is most frustrating is that her spanking me seems to be based totally on her mood rather than my behavior.  I even reacted a little angrily to a quick spanking she gave me last week since it seemed so random. Ive never done that before. I'm usually grateful. 

I guess I should take a page from Gary's book and tell her how I've been feeling. But I feel like we've had these conversations in the past and they went nowhere. 

Thanks for listening,

Tom

Thank you for trusting us with this, Tom. Perhaps @GaryMcKee would be willing to share with us some of his communication tips for discussing this challenging subject with a loved one?

[Chawsee]

On 9/18/2021 at 7:18 AM, boy_otk said:

Not a day goes by where I don't think about being spanked by a caring maternal figure. I'm still not in a position in my life where I can begin to actively seek out potential spankers but hoping it will happen within the next 5 years. 

@Chawsee Knowing that caring maternal disciplinarians like you exist gives me hope ma'am.

Thank you! You are so special, my friend-- a young man whose wisdom and insight far exceed his years. You deserve to hold out for a genuinely caring and loving maternal partner. 

[Chawsee]

On 9/18/2021 at 11:55 AM, GaryMcKee said:

It would be fair to say that we bonded a bit more closely for having had that conversation. We do need to work on it some more. Altogether, I am very happy to have a wife who disciplines me over her knee. Will we get back to the times when she would abruptly end an argument by telling me to fetch her hairbrush and while I’m at it, bring a chair into the living room? I sure hope so! Step by step leads to steady progress. I’m doing my part, I can tell you that much!

Keep us updated, Gary. You have a way of inspiring others.  

[Chawsee]

On 9/19/2021 at 2:24 PM, SunsOutBunzOut said:

Thanks, Chawsee

I’d be happy to upload some pics of the implements! I’ll also report back on my findings for how effective they are. I’m long overdue for a good booty-warming, so this can be an efficient process.

I agree on the social skills. I actually reconnected with a friend from fet and a catching up. A little awkward, but it’s coming back.

Glad to hear that you're reconnecting.

Sure, feel free to upload some pics. You can now do that right on the "About Me" portion of your profile. 

[GaryMcKee]

4 hours ago, Chawsee said:

Keep us updated, Gary. You have a way of inspiring others.  

Wow, that means so much to me, Chawsee! I’m very grateful to you. ❤️

[GaryMcKee]

16 hours ago, Chawsee said:

Thank you for trusting us with this, Tom. Perhaps @GaryMcKee would be willing to share with us some of his communication tips for discussing this challenging subject with a loved one?

I’ve thought this over and I think the best approach is two-fold. First, talk to your wife about all the wonderful memories you have of being spanked by her. Go into detail. Recall as many spankings as you can. This will impress your wife. Tell her how much you love her for spanking you and how often your last thought at night is of being turned over her knee. Second, let your wife know that you trying hard to be a good boy for her. Ask, “Is that good enough? I want to please you and I definitely DON’T want to displease you.” In essence, you are a naughty boy who is trying to be good for her but unfortunately, you lack discipline. The dynamic between you will shift in the direction you desire. I wish you great success! ?

[GaryMcKee]

2 minutes ago, GaryMcKee said:

I’ve thought this over and I think the best approach is two-fold. First, talk to your wife about all the wonderful memories you have of being spanked by her. Go into detail. Recall as many spankings as you can. This will impress your wife. Tell her how much you love her for spanking you and how often your last thought at night is of being turned over her knee. Second, let your wife know that you are trying hard to be a good boy for her. Ask, “Is that good enough? I want to please you and I definitely DON’T want to displease you.” In essence, you are a naughty boy who is trying to be good for her but unfortunately, you lack discipline. The dynamic between you will shift in the direction you desire. I wish you great success! ?

 

[GaryMcKee]

11 minutes ago, GaryMcKee said:

I’ve thought this over and I think the best approach is two-fold. First, talk to your wife about all the wonderful memories you have of being spanked by her. Go into detail. Recall as many spankings as you can. This will impress your wife. Tell her how much you love her for spanking you and how often your last thought at night is of being turned over her knee. Second, let your wife know that you are trying hard to be a good boy for her. Ask, “Is that good enough? I want to please you and I definitely DON’T want to displease you.” In essence, you are a naughty boy who is trying to be good for her but unfortunately, you lack discipline. The dynamic between you will shift in the direction you desire. I wish you great success! ?