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@Topspanker- always a solid plan. I was still in high school when I experienced the belt that first time; I think my boyfriend was a little nervous and didn't want to hurt me too much. By the time he got around to using the hairbrush, he was no longer nervous (and it legitimately hurt to sit for several days after).

Like you, I actually met with quite a few first-timers - back in my 20s. It can be fun and exciting to be someone's first spanking - at least from my perspective as a bottom. Some ERs really take to specific implements and it is nice to make those discoveries with him.

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It’s actually true, my first go was hand, belt, hairbrush in that order. Pervertables are always a good starting point. I do tend to lean towards leather straps but have other implements as well. As I commented in another post straps are my go to, I’ve collected so many of them that any desired effect is achievable as well.

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6 hours ago, maturevanessa said:

first time it was with my hand that i spanked my sub. His ass was in the air and i started to spank him... it was so nice and hot to see his ass get read!

Good post. There is nothing more satisfying then giving a man a good bare bottom hand spanking over the knee. Each Sunday my husband feels the sting of my hand and the results is a nice tomato color on his bottom and a humble man.  I am glad there other women such as yourself that feel the same way.     Ms L

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13 hours ago, rubyredd said:

I don't consider a hand to be an implement, but my first spanking was by hand. The first implement used on me was actually a belt. It was pretty lame. The next was a hairbrush. Now, I prefer spanko-specific implements - hairbrush-style paddles, leather straps from London Tanners, etc. to found objects in vanilla stores. But, I have a couple of antique rugbeaters that are great.

PS: tack shops and farm stores (anywhere with equine supplies) are great places to buy quality implements like crops and leather straps. The crops are usually better quality (and cheaper) than those in BDSM or porn shops. 

Nice detailed post rubyredd. It appears that yourself and others have really embraced the straps from London tanners.        Ms L

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4 minutes ago, Spankingmyhuby said:

Nice detailed post rubyredd. It appears that yourself and others have really embraced the straps from London tanners.        Ms L

I have had my two LT straps for 15+ years and both are still in excellent condition. The quality is outstanding. Yes, you can get cheaper straps - even some decent ones - but these are just lovely.

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They are all gorgeous straps. They put a great level of attention to detail and quality in them. Most of mine are very old and still like new. Others I bought around same time have not lasted through time.

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My first real spanking from my wife was with a piece of scrap wood about the size of an 18" ruler. It was pre-sanded hard wood trim. 

After we had been married about half a dozen years, one day when my wife was quite angry about something I had done (for good reason), she declared I should be punished. I immediately suggested spanking, hoping to avoid a truly unpleasant punishment, and she said "That never works!" (We had some unsatisfactory experiments with her giving me play spankings). I began suggesting items she could use, like a slipper, but she said no, she'd think of another type of punishment. I continued to suggest possible items for paddles, and closed the window, in case she agreed, as I didn't want the neighbors to hear anything slapping my bare bottom. Big mistake! 

The sash cord was broken and the window was propped open with the piece of scrap wood. As soon as I removed it from the window, she announced "That might work!", took the scrap wood and slapped it against one palm.  Before I knew it she had my pants down and I was across her lap getting my first real spanking as an adult. That piece of wood stung like crazy every time it landed on my bare ass, which seemed to go on forever, and I was sore for more than a day afterwards. I was very sorry, both for what I done and that I was getting spanked, throughout the spanking and for a long time after, and she was quite pleased with the result. I have continued to fear and regret every spanking she has given me since she learned what she needed in a paddle and how effective a good paddling could be!

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3 hours ago, David! said:

My first real spanking from my wife was with a piece of scrap wood about the size of an 18" ruler. It was pre-sanded hard wood trim. 

After we had been married about half a dozen years, one day when my wife was quite angry about something I had done (for good reason), she declared I should be punished. I immediately suggested spanking, hoping to avoid a truly unpleasant punishment, and she said "That never works!" (We had some unsatisfactory experiments with her giving me play spankings). I began suggesting items she could use, like a slipper, but she said no, she'd think of another type of punishment. I continued to suggest possible items for paddles, and closed the window, in case she agreed, as I didn't want the neighbors to hear anything slapping my bare bottom. Big mistake! 

The sash cord was broken and the window was propped open with the piece of scrap wood. As soon as I removed it from the window, she announced "That might work!", took the scrap wood and slapped it against one palm.  Before I knew it she had my pants down and I was across her lap getting my first real spanking as an adult. That piece of wood stung like crazy every time it landed on my bare ass, which seemed to go on forever, and I was sore for more than a day afterwards. I was very sorry, both for what I done and that I was getting spanked, throughout the spanking and for a long time after, and she was quite pleased with the result. I have continued to fear and regret every spanking she has given me since she learned what she needed in a paddle and how effective a good paddling could be!

Well I can see why you remembered your first spanking. The fact that she gave you a good spanking across her knee and kept the window open was firm discipline. I like the fact that she didn't care whether the neighbors heard or not. You stated that you were misbehaving and she was pleased with spanking you.  That was a memorable experience for both of you.  I bet you don't suggest what implement she should use on you in the future. My husband doesn't dare suggest what implement I should use on him. Very good post .       Ms L.

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Any suggestions would be ignored. Having discovered how to give me an effective spanking, that piece of wood remained her paddle of choice for a couple years. That house had many windows that had to be propped open, and we had a variety of props that moved from window to window.  It quickly was made clear that her spanker was to remain in our bedroom, and soon after other similar props were used to spank me and took up permanent residence in the living room and kitchen, for convenience.  She eventually tried other implements that she "thought might work" and traded up to whatever she found most effective. When I'm not in trouble we have discussed what implements she has or might want to use, but when she's going to spank me she uses the most effective implement available, and pays no attention to anything I say about the method or severity of the spanking I'm getting!

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7 minutes ago, David! said:

Any suggestions would be ignored. Having discovered how to give me an effective spanking, that piece of wood remained her paddle of choice for a couple years. That house had many windows that had to be propped open, and we had a variety of props that moved from window to window.  It quickly was made clear that her spanker was to remain in our bedroom, and soon after other similar props were used to spank me and took up permanent residence in the living room and kitchen, for convenience.  She eventually tried other implements that she "thought might work" and traded up to whatever she found most effective. When I'm not in trouble we have discussed what implements she has or might want to use, but when she's going to spank me she uses the most effective implement available, and pays no attention to anything I say about the method or severity of the spanking I'm getting!

Well David that is the way it should be when you have misbehaved , their is no analysis on what implement is used. My husband has no say on what implement I use or the severity of a punishment spanking. We have in writing rules that was consensual agreement upon before our marriage. Breaking a rule means he gets a spanking from me. If he does disagree with the severity or the implements used the discussion is after I have given him a spanking.Your wife most definitely is strict and runs her household as she sees fit and I do the same. Good for your wife and I am sure you love and respect her.   Ms L.

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On 7/15/2021 at 12:50 AM, Spankingmyhuby said:

That is really great that your wife has shared your interest in spanking through the years. More wives should give their husbands some time over their knees . I don't have any second thoughts about giving my husband the discipline he wants and needs. I am sure you have a happy marriage Steven.          Ms L

Yes I definitely do 

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Almost 40 years ago, I did not have enough nerve to just tell girlfriend that I wanted a spanking, so I wrote her a note.  I don’t remember exactly what I said in the note, but I know it included something about me being goofy.  I told her that I would really like her to spank me and that I would understand if she thought that was too much.  I gave her the note and then waited for her to read it.  I was real nervous and anxious. After she read the note she just said OK.  I was not sure what she meant at first, so I asked her.  She said that she would spank me.  I could hardly believe it.  I asked her if she was sure that she did not think I was too weird and she told me no that it was OK. 

I had just built a house to replace the one lost during a Hurricane.  The shell was up, but the interior was not complete.  We agreed to meet at the house the next day.  I did not have a paddle for her to spank me with and she told me that she would get something.  I got off of work before she and I went to the house and waited for her.  I was real excited and could hardly wait.  She got off of work and went shopping.  She finally arrived at the house and brought in a bag with the new paddle.  She had found a ping pong paddle and was proud of her purchase.  I liked it too.  She had actually found it herself, which to me meant that she did not mind my weird desires.   

That first spanking was not the best I ever got from her, but I was in heaven. She had me pull down my pants and bend over an inflated rubber raft. (We did not have much furniture in the house yet) She popped my butt with the paddle and it stung and hurt so good.  I would have liked her to spank me longer, but she stopped after her arm got tired. 

 

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13 minutes ago, Woody Woodshed said:

Almost 40 years ago, I did not have enough nerve to just tell girlfriend that I wanted a spanking, so I wrote her a note.  I don’t remember exactly what I said in the note, but I know it included something about me being goofy.  I told her that I would really like her to spank me and that I would understand if she thought that was too much.  I gave her the note and then waited for her to read it.  I was real nervous and anxious. After she read the note she just said OK.  I was not sure what she meant at first, so I asked her.  She said that she would spank me.  I could hardly believe it.  I asked her if she was sure that she did not think I was too weird and she told me no that it was OK. 

I had just built a house to replace the one lost during a Hurricane.  The shell was up, but the interior was not complete.  We agreed to meet at the house the next day.  I did not have a paddle for her to spank me with and she told me that she would get something.  I got off of work before she and I went to the house and waited for her.  I was real excited and could hardly wait.  She got off of work and went shopping.  She finally arrived at the house and brought in a bag with the new paddle.  She had found a ping pong paddle and was proud of her purchase.  I liked it too.  She had actually found it herself, which to me meant that she did not mind my weird desires.   

That first spanking was not the best I ever got from her, but I was in heaven. She had me pull down my pants and bend over an inflated rubber raft. (We did not have much furniture in the house yet) She popped my butt with the paddle and it stung and hurt so good.  I would have liked her to spank me longer, but she stopped after her arm got tired. 

 

That was a nice heart warming story and bottom warming for you. Men are just ashamed to ask their wives and girlfriends for spankings. Your writing a note worked , that is all that counts. I believe there are probably quite of you members here who have not popped the question. Some of these men might be surprised if they were to be upfront with there wives or girlfriends. Reality is much better than fantasy. My husband didn't have to write me or ask me,finding his reading material started everything for us. Good post.     Ms L.

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