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Well, videos are meant to appeal to a certain demographic, mostly younger guys watching porn and willing to pay for it, so of course, they are going to use the younger models, too.

Cutting to reality, not every person is a porn star or has model looks.  And not everyone who loves spanking, like we do, has the requirement that you need to be able to be cast in a spanking video to be able to qualify as a spanking partner.

One of the ladies I spank is close to my age.  One other is almost half it.  Age is not the determining factor as to why someone gets along well enough with another person to want to spank them, or to go over someone's lap to be spanked.

Hang in there, keep making friends and acquaintances on this site, as well as dropping hints at appropriate times to ppl you might think are into spanking and soon enough, you may find yourself getting that spanking you crave.  It can happen. It's how I got started and I wouldn't consider a woman's age to be a deciding factor of whether I want to spank her, or not.

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Quite the contrary for me; I have found women more on the mature side that I have spanked to be quite compelling and attractive; they bring so much to the table: intellect, experience, etc.

On the other end, I have found spankers who want spankees younger than myself only because they look for that role play dynamic of Father/son; Maternal figure/ younger guy, etc..otherwise my age is not an issue with them.

 

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Over the last 24 years,  I have chatted with all types of women from ages 18 to 70.  And here is what I have discovered-- Women have a built in need for discipline  and  for a real and effective spanking, is what most crave.  Some women are more in touch with themselves than others.   Almost all  go through phases: like-  I must be crazy for wanting a spanking -for wanting a pain in the bottom.  And Denial phase- it just seem so un-natural to want a spanking.  And a phase of embarrassment-  I can't express my needs- I can't ask for a spanking (not in real life).  Phase of hope-- maybe my needs will get met after all.  Phase of giving  up - I must have been right to start with-- the desire to be spanked is crazy (and stop looking). 

 I am proud of girls  18 to 25 who are aware of their needs and can express themselves at least on line.   I am also very proud of women  50 to 70+ who  have not given up and still want a spanking.  But to me the peak years of wanting and needing a spanking are ages  30 to 50.  We can have a self realization about the NEED for a SPANKING at any age and I don't think age should be a factor in getting our needs MET.  Thank God for the internet- as spanking has been dying out in the world,  More and more women have discovered their not alone and find friends  here,  at sites like this and find  people to assist them to have their needs  met.   I hope spanking can make a come back in the real world, for all. 

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Interesting answer to this topic. I believe I've had a good ineraction with you previously. I'm a member of some senior clubs, in which I've taken part. As a spanker of some experience in an older age category, I have answered pleas "I need to be spanked", and yet i am greeted by silence. Believe me, I'm not looking for business, but I would respond to a hopefully (reasonably local) ees request....see if getting together was feasable. Curious what your response would be.

Also, in a general discussion, I was advised that some ees who had been married, were looking for posssibly another LTR relationship, rather than a "one night stand"...or a least some aspect of continuing meets.....yet discussions on this were not even started. I'm located in south east (Fl) and always am open to a least starting a conversation....just on spanking period.

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On 6/2/2021 at 2:21 AM, jelena53 said:

Over the last 24 years,  I have chatted with all types of women from ages 18 to 70.  And here is what I have discovered-- Women have a built in need for discipline  and  for a real and effective spanking, is what most crave.  Some women are more in touch with themselves than others.   Almost all  go through phases: like-  I must be crazy for wanting a spanking -for wanting a pain in the bottom.  And Denial phase- it just seem so un-natural to want a spanking.  And a phase of embarrassment-  I can't express my needs- I can't ask for a spanking (not in real life).  Phase of hope-- maybe my needs will get met after all.  Phase of giving  up - I must have been right to start with-- the desire to be spanked is crazy (and stop looking). 

 I am proud of girls  18 to 25 who are aware of their needs and can express themselves at least on line.   I am also very proud of women  50 to 70+ who  have not given up and still want a spanking.  But to me the peak years of wanting and needing a spanking are ages  30 to 50.  We can have a self realization about the NEED for a SPANKING at any age and I don't think age should be a factor in getting our needs MET.  Thank God for the internet- as spanking has been dying out in the world,  More and more women have discovered their not alone and find friends  here,  at sites like this and find  people to assist them to have their needs  met.   I hope spanking can make a come back in the real world, for all. 

Thanks Jalena, very well said. As i fall into the 50-70 group, i will continue to look.

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I've never discriminated because of age, and have spanked women who asked to be spanked as young as 18, and even past 80.  The 80 something woman had been spanked growing up but that was clearly decades ago, and she had not been spanked in the meantime.   I think the desire never goes away, but finding people one is compatible with to interact with safely and discreetly is the real challenge as we get older. 

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Sometimes I feel no one wants to spank me because I am 64 abd quite out of shape.  Trying to get things together to start working out again.  Have health issues to resolve before I can get back in shape.  Just need someone in the tampa bay area that will spank me to help in my negative behavioral, and get my life back on track of being more productive.

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On 6/2/2021 at 3:38 PM, paparondoc said:

Interesting answer to this topic. I believe I've had a good ineraction with you previously. I'm a member of some senior clubs, in which I've taken part. As a spanker of some experience in an older age category, I have answered pleas "I need to be spanked", and yet i am greeted by silence. Believe me, I'm not looking for business, but I would respond to a hopefully (reasonably local) ees request....see if getting together was feasable. Curious what your response would be.

Also, in a general discussion, I was advised that some ees who had been married, were looking for posssibly another LTR relationship, rather than a "one night stand"...or a least some aspect of continuing meets.....yet discussions on this were not even started. I'm located in south east (Fl) and always am open to a least starting a conversation....just on spanking period.

I am interested in having my naked butt spanked ? cherry red, for negative behavioral paterns.  If still interested, I located in Tampa Florida, you can message me inbox me or email Ray Miles at rmiles2057@gmail.com.  I really need a good spanking, because self spanking does not help with my issues and I need to go to the next look level if you know what I mean!!!

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I'm in this age group, and have resorted to self spanking to meet that need inherint spanking need. I spank for stress/anxiety relief, and to help clear my head to help my cope with depressive feeling. I feel the need for frequent spankings. My wife is vanilla, and has thus far not been willing to try, the few times I've asked. I'm sittting here working (from home of course) and want, need, a good spund spanking so much I can taste it. For better to worse I'll shortly do a self spanking to releive the need and other feelings I have right now.  I am always hopeful that one day I'll convince my wife to spank me. I figure if the first ine is just a mild spanking maybe that will help her get over her reticense. But to answer the original question, as long as your health allows, you're never to old for a spanking (partner or self).

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On 1/31/2022 at 10:31 AM, selfsp12 said:

I'm in this age group, and have resorted to self spanking to meet that need inherint spanking need. I spank for stress/anxiety relief, and to help clear my head to help my cope with depressive feeling. I feel the need for frequent spankings. My wife is vanilla, and has thus far not been willing to try, the few times I've asked. I'm sittting here working (from home of course) and want, need, a good spund spanking so much I can taste it. For better to worse I'll shortly do a self spanking to releive the need and other feelings I have right now.  I am always hopeful that one day I'll convince my wife to spank me. I figure if the first ine is just a mild spanking maybe that will help her get over her reticense. But to answer the original question, as long as your health allows, you're never to old for a spanking (partner or self).

Selfsp12, i also self spank when i get to feeling too cranky. It helps, but having a spanker put you over his lap and paddle your bare butt is so much better!

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20 hours ago, Otkmedicine said:

Selfsp12, i also self spank when i get to feeling too cranky. It helps, but having a spanker put you over his lap and paddle your bare butt is so much better!

I'm just suprised it took me so long to discover  the spanking side of myself, and learn learn ow to self spank well enough for it to be effictive. Never underestimate the value  of a good spanking (self or otherwise). Thanks Otk.

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43 minutes ago, selfsp12 said:

I'm just suprised it took me so long to discover  the spanking side of myself, and learn learn ow to self spank well enough for it to be effictive. Never underestimate the value  of a good spanking (self or otherwise). Thanks Otk.

I guess just having the sore bottom is good no matter how you get it!

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You are never too old to spank or to be spanked.   I just got a birthday spanking from a long time spanking and kink friend, we've been exchanging them every year since we met in 1978 when both of us were quite a bit younger.  She's always been one of the kinkiest people I've ever known. 

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