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This man thst left was in a daddy not the best but was all i could find.. He was not just a disciplinarian... 

I had a daddy ,,A true daddy a long time ago..i was a little with him...but he died.... I had to grow up in a way..but thst little needs Daddy 

 

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10 minutes ago, SassyMissy said:

This man thst left was in a daddy not the best but was all i could find.. He was not just a disciplinarian... 

I had a daddy ,,A true daddy a long time ago..i was a little with him...but he died.... I had to grow up in a way..but thst little needs Daddy 

 

I'm sorry that your other Daddy died... that must be heart-breaking.

I know you want a Daddy but you'd be doing yourself an injustice, if you just accept one for the sake of it. Wait for the right one... one who respects you; sees you as his precious little and is proud to have you.

Despite, contrary belief, most people don't look for a desperate ER or Daddy so don't do that. You are better waiting for one who you can develop a loving and caring DDlg relationship...whatever that looks like to you. You want the best one for you so wait until you find each other.

You will get through this and hopefully come out of it much stronger and willing to wait for " Your" Daddy?

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SassyMissy Checklist: 

1. Block this guy so he doesn’t bother you again and your not tempted to contact him.  Take control where you can!

2. Dive into SassyMissy Super Self-Care!  Whatever that is for you!  For me a bubble salt bath, with candles, soft jazz and a glass of champagne.

3. Reclaim your holidays!  The holidays associated with pain have to be redefined.  Maybe with just friends next time or traveling someplace new!

4. If you know where he lives and parks his car ?, disconnect his brakes.  Just Kidding!  

Here I go with my bossy self!

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8 minutes ago, ChicagoLady said:

SassyMissy Checklist: 

1. Block this guy so he doesn’t bother you again and your not tempted to contact him.  Take control where you can!

2. Dive into SassyMissy Super Self-Care!  Whatever that is for you!  For me a bubble salt bath, with candles, soft jazz and a glass of champagne.

3. Reclaim your holidays!  The holidays associated with pain have to be redefined.  Maybe with just friends next time or traveling someplace new!

4. If you know where he lives and parks his car ?, disconnect his brakes.  Just Kidding!  

Here I go with my bossy self!

Why not burn down his house whilst you are at it?

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22 hours ago, ChicagoLady said:

Isn’t that what those tiny portable gas cans are for?! ?

Oh no...this could get REALLY dark REALLY fast!

I don't really know. I found just walking away does wonders when men take the piss. No man is worth sitting in a jail cell for decades. Can't see them burning down the jail to get us out? Better to teach that we won't tolerate their nonsense and hopefully they will be a better man for the next person... probably wishful thinking?

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Now that I ponder on this a little more SassyLittle, you may have a point that disconnecting his brakes and setting his house on fire could have jail cell and spanking consequences!

Perhaps I was a tad rash and vicious there...?

Sorry SissyMissy - Checklist Item #4 may not be the most legal or mentally healthy solution for getting over a spanking break-up.  

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2 minutes ago, ChicagoLady said:

Although we can ALL agree that it would feel great at the time!!!

I' m certainly not denying that it wouldn't be fun but worth it... Hell No? You are just being nice by giving your used toys to the less fortunate i.e) the next poor woman, saddled with him?

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