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Poll: Porn and Relationships


Porn and Relationships  

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  1. 1. The following statement most closely identifies how I feel about the use of porn by my SO in a LTR

    • If my SO used porn behind my back I would consider that cheating and it would not be tolerated
      1
    • Porn is only allowed in our relationship if we watch it together
      4
    • I watch porn without my SO around and my SO watches porn without me...it's no big deal
      16
    • I have no interest in porn and neither does my SO. It's not on our radar screen. Complete non issue. Why are you asking?
      5


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I am interested in how folks handle the porn issue in their relationships.   If you're not currently in a relationship, please answer the poll question as if you were in a relationship.  Thanks for participating!!! 

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I went for the 3rd option. I don't care if my partner watches porn. If he's only watching porn and not whoring himself around, I don't see anything wrong with that. As you know I LOVE porn! Would be more fun if I had a partner who loved watching porn together. I couldn't live with a man who didn't let me watch porn😂

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5 minutes ago, sassylittle said:

I went for the 3rd option. I don't care if my partner watches porn. If he's only watching porn and not whoring himself around, I don't see anything wrong with that. As you know I LOVE porn! Would be more fun if I had a partner who loved watching porn together. I couldn't live with a man who didn't let me watch porn😂

Are you sure you voted ?  It only shows one vote, which was mine.  😆

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1 minute ago, AfterGeometry said:

Are you sure you voted ?  It only shows one vote, which was mine.  😆

ughhhh, I submitted it again. It must not have liked my vote the 1st time😝

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1 minute ago, sassylittle said:

ughhhh, I submitted it again. It must not have liked my vote the 1st time😝

Oh good I thought maybe I screwed it up.  It's not the most straight forward thing to make a poll, I had to really concentrate!  😋  You and I will probably be the only ones voting in it anyway.  😂

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1 minute ago, AfterGeometry said:

Oh good I thought maybe I screwed it up.  It's not the most straight forward thing to make a poll, I had to really concentrate!  😋  You and I will probably be the only ones voting in it anyway.  😂

Don't worry... I screwed mine up. There are no instructions, whatsoever, and I guess I was too ambitious adding a 2nd question... if I do it again I will think of a 1 question poll😂 I'm sure you'll get another couple but any more than that is asking too much😝

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@AfterGeometry

I have a feeling that the answers will differ depending on sex. Men tend to love women who like porn and think that these women are cool. I think that women who enjoy porn will have less issues with their partner watching it but women who don' t like it will probably see it as taboo or cheating. 

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I watch porn (mostly spanking and bdsm). I don't actually know if my husband does or not. I certainly wouldn't be upset if he did. I don't enjoy any sort of traditional porn - just sex, I mean. I doubt he would either. I really just prefer spanking videos that don't have any sex. But it is fine in a bondage video. 🤷‍♀️

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I am not in a relationship so it's pretty much Porn-O-Rama 24/7 but if I was in a relationship I am sure that would moderate to some extent and I would take her viewpoint on the matter into consideration as well.  I am sure a proper porn equilibrium could be negotiated and maintained.  ;)

 

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32 minutes ago, rubyredd said:

I watch porn (mostly spanking and bdsm). I don't actually know if my husband does or not. I certainly wouldn't be upset if he did. I don't enjoy any sort of traditional porn - just sex, I mean. I doubt he would either. I really just prefer spanking videos that don't have any sex. But it is fine in a bondage video. 🤷‍♀️

That's interesting; as SN's unappointed Marriage Counselor in residence, I think it would behoove both of you to sit down and have a conversation regarding porn ... it's a good conversation starter anyway?!?  :D

 

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2 hours ago, AfterGeometry said:

That's interesting; as SN's unappointed Marriage Counselor in residence, I think it would behoove both of you to sit down and have a conversation regarding porn ... it's a good conversation starter anyway?!?  :D

 

It's just not something that has ever made a difference to either of us. He knows that I watch spanking and bdsm videos, but we have never really watched together. I think he is more interested in real-life play than in videos. I like both. 

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3 minutes ago, rubyredd said:

It's just not something that has ever made a difference to either of us. He knows that I watch spanking and bdsm videos, but we have never really watched together. I think he is more interested in real-life play than in videos. I like both. 

I'm with your hubby... much prefer real life! And @AfterGeometry, I know this is rather shocking but not all men actually watch porn😂

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8 hours ago, sassylittle said:

I'm with your hubby... much prefer real life! And @AfterGeometry, I know this is rather shocking but not all men actually watch porn😂

I asked him and he said no he doesn't really enjoy porn, but especially does not like vanilla porn. Spanking videos are okay, but the dialogue is annoying. 😂

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30 minutes ago, rubyredd said:

I asked him and he said no he doesn't really enjoy porn, but especially does not like vanilla porn. Spanking videos are okay, but the dialogue is annoying. 😂

Vanilla porn is kinda boring. The dialogue is usually contrived so don't blame him for wanting just the action... think we'd all rather have real life action, instead of being sad porn addicts😂

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9 hours ago, sassylittle said:

I'm with your hubby... much prefer real life! And @AfterGeometry, I know this is rather shocking but not all men actually watch porn😂

Well I do have to concede I don't watch spanking porn because of the contrived nature of the plots and dialogue but I am skeptical of your claim that not all men watch porn.   I need some names and I need them now!   😆

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To each their own. I prefer to look at women. I find that men just come with the territory. If they were making it for me, they could leave the guys out. But they aren’t, so I have to put up with what others prefer, or make my own. One beings porn, is an others art. I find the term porn, to be pejorative, so I tend to think of it as art. Again my preference.

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Just now, AfterGeometry said:

Well I do have to concede I don't watch spanking porn because of the contrived nature of the plots and dialogue but I am skeptical of your claim that not all men watch porn.   I need some names and I need them now!   😆

What about those ultra religious dudes who think that porn is sinful? I don't have names because this smart kiddo doesn't associate with such boring guys😝 Being in Hell, with all those wretched sinners sounds like the place to be... drugs, sex and rock and roll... like what can go wrong?😂🤣😇

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2 minutes ago, sassylittle said:

What about those ultra religious dudes who think that porn is sinful? I don't have names because this smart kiddo doesn't associate with such boring guys😝 Being in Hell, with all those wretched sinners sounds like the place to be... drugs, sex and rock and roll... like what can go wrong?😂🤣😇

Exactly!!  But I don't think you like rock and roll, you like those obscure singer/songwriters I've never heard of who are all mellow.  😝

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Just now, Geoffreaux said:

To each their own. I prefer to look at women. I find that men just come with the territory. If they were making it for me, they could leave the guys out. But they aren’t, so I have to put up with what others prefer, or make my own. One beings porn, is an others art. I find the term porn, to be pejorative, so I tend to think of it as art. Again my preference.

You need the man to make this fine art. It's not really porn if there isn't a guy and a girl. I like fine male art but have to concede that they can't make it without the woman. I'm too distracted by men to pay much attention to the girl. Just concentrate on the important parts and you can pretend the dude isn't there😂

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Just now, AfterGeometry said:

Exactly!!  But I don't think you like rock and roll, you like those obscure singer/songwriters I've never heard of who are all mellow.  😝

Yeah but the other 2 ... well, what can I say.😝

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5 minutes ago, sassylittle said:

What about those ultra religious dudes who think that porn is sinful? I don't have names because this smart kiddo doesn't associate with such boring guys😝 Being in Hell, with all those wretched sinners sounds like the place to be... drugs, sex and rock and roll... like what can go wrong?😂🤣😇

The ultra-religious dudes are the most pervy of all the pornmongers.  They are just too ashamed to discuss it.  

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1 minute ago, AfterGeometry said:

The ultra-religious dudes are the most pervy of all the pornmongers.  They are just too ashamed to discuss it.  

They just need to man-up and forget about such nonsense, as sinning🤣

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This is actually a serious topic but @sassylittlehas dragged the discourse into murky waters which of course AG had nothing to do with.   Maybe this conversation can still be elevated to a high-minded level if @sassylittlecould just restrain herself for a few seconds 😅😂😉

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7 minutes ago, AfterGeometry said:

This is actually a serious topic but @sassylittlehas dragged the discourse into murky waters which of course AG had nothing to do with.   Maybe this conversation can still be elevated to a high-minded level if @sassylittlecould just restrain herself for a few seconds 😅😂😉

Oh right- same old, kiddo gets the blame😂 Yeah, and keep telling yourself that you had nothing to do with it😝

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