Help with self spanking

[Belle1241]

Question to put out there. Due to obviously covid, having an ER in person sessions are hard. I’ve tried so self spanking w mentoring but I don’t feel as though  it gets the job done like a traditional spanking would.Thoughts suggestions to help with the self spanking. 

[Chastener]

Belle, I have faced this problem as a spanker.  The one thing I've learned is that directed self-spanking can be surprisingly effective.  Yes, it depends very much on the spanker's ability to replicate the in-person experience.  But what it says about spanking generally  --and this is disciplinary spanking that I'm talking about, where a woman really needs to be taught the consequences of her actions-- is that is the dynamic between spanker and spankee that sets the tone.  As I said, if that tone can be set, self-spanking can be surprisingly effective.