rubyredd 236 Posted Wednesday at 04:59 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 04:59 PM In another thread, @F/m_Spanking_onlymentioned that his partner uses the word fanny. I have never had a partner use that term. Do you have a preference / favorite? A term that you hate or that is a turn-off? I like ass / backside / bottom. Tushy is a complete turn-off for me. (I know this has probably been discussed several times in the past, but I like a fresh thread.) Link to post
ukspanko 540 Posted Wednesday at 05:30 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 05:30 PM Fanny has a different meaning in the UK shall we say... Personally for spanking purposes I like "Bottom" as it's so direct and if I have to say it as in "Please spank my bottom ma'am" it's deeply embarrasing. I also like backside and sit-upon. 1 Link to post
F/m_Spanking_only 198 Posted Wednesday at 05:44 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 05:44 PM Booty, tushy, and heinie are three that are a turnoff for me. I like all the other words for bottom 1 Link to post
rubyredd 236 Posted Wednesday at 06:10 PM Author Share Posted Wednesday at 06:10 PM 39 minutes ago, ukspanko said: Fanny has a different meaning in the UK shall we say... Personally for spanking purposes I like "Bottom" as it's so direct and if I have to say it as in "Please spank my bottom ma'am" it's deeply embarrasing. I also like backside and sit-upon. Sit-upon is adorable. My husband is from the UK... so, yes, totally get your meaning there. 😆 Bottom does seem more embarassing somehow. 1 Link to post
rubyredd 236 Posted Wednesday at 06:11 PM Author Share Posted Wednesday at 06:11 PM 27 minutes ago, F/m_Spanking_only said: Booty, tushy, and heinie are three that are a turnoff for me. I like all the other words for bottom I use booty - but in general, not in spanking context. I agree that all three are a turn-off for me, too. 1 Link to post
ukspanko 540 Posted Wednesday at 06:24 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 06:24 PM Informally I tend to use bum which again has a different meaning elsewhere or backside. 1 Link to post
Hotspur 32 Posted Wednesday at 07:51 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 07:51 PM Behind, arse (I prefer it to the American version and also bum rather than butt), buttocks, rear, derrierre, posterior and rump have not yet been mentioned. 1 Link to post
rubyredd 236 Posted Wednesday at 08:14 PM Author Share Posted Wednesday at 08:14 PM 22 minutes ago, Hotspur said: Behind, arse (I prefer it to the American version and also bum rather than butt), buttocks, rear, derrierre, posterior and rump have not yet been mentioned. I don't think I have ever heard a Top say buttocks either. Or rump. Behind is nice, though. Link to post
MrRitter 61 Posted Wednesday at 08:41 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 08:41 PM I do say "bottom" a good bit though it is not actually my favorite. My favorite is probably "backside," I need to bust it out more often. "Behind" is good too. I have no problem with "ass" or "butt." For some reason, though "tushy" irritates me. "Tush" just makes me start singing the ZZ Top song. 1 Link to post
Chastener 142 Posted Wednesday at 09:07 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 09:07 PM Has anyone mentioned "behind"? 1 Link to post
Zhal 288 Posted Wednesday at 09:11 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 09:11 PM ass, arse, butt, bum, bottom, backside, behind, fanny. Tushy can work, but it's not my favorite. 1 Link to post
rubyredd 236 Posted Wednesday at 09:21 PM Author Share Posted Wednesday at 09:21 PM 10 minutes ago, Chastener said: Has anyone mentioned "behind"? Looks like behind has received a couple of votes. @MrRitter - I love to hear "tan your backside" or "blister your..." @Zhal Just curious... are you a Top, bottom, or switch? Are you okay with saying tushy, hearing it, or both? 1 Link to post
Zhal 288 Posted Wednesday at 09:30 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 09:30 PM @rubyredd Switch, though I'm only just starting on the ER side. "Tushy" is just one of those ones that's there, it's not good or bad it just "is". 1 Link to post
Accountability 59 Posted Wednesday at 09:31 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 09:31 PM Why does no one use the word "derriere"? 😄 1 1 Link to post
Chastener 142 Posted Wednesday at 09:54 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 09:54 PM 31 minutes ago, rubyredd said: Looks like behind has received a couple of votes. @MrRitter - I love to hear "tan your backside" or "blister your..." @Zhal Just curious... are you a Top, bottom, or switch? Are you okay with saying tushy, hearing it, or both? As "behind" should! Is there really any substitute for "Get your behind out here," or "You'll learn your lesson on your bare behind"? 1 Link to post
SkipNC 8 Posted Wednesday at 09:58 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 09:58 PM As a Scot, I suppose I really should use "Hintend," (thanks, spellcheck), but "Bottom," is, I believe, the only word I have used in a spanking context. 1 Link to post
SpudStateSpanky 119 Posted Thursday at 02:32 AM Share Posted Thursday at 02:32 AM I really don’t care for behind, and bottom is even worse!! Can’t stand that word, even though it’s used more in spanking communities than any other. I’ve always preferred just butt. 2 Link to post
SpudStateSpanky 119 Posted Thursday at 02:34 AM Share Posted Thursday at 02:34 AM 5 hours ago, Accountability said: Why does no one use the word "derriere"? 😄 I imagine they do in France. 😄 1 3 Link to post
rubyredd 236 Posted Thursday at 02:52 AM Author Share Posted Thursday at 02:52 AM 19 minutes ago, SpudStateSpanky said: I really don’t care for behind, and bottom is even worse!! Can’t stand that word, even though it’s used more in spanking communities than any other. I’ve always preferred just butt. Of the common terms, bottom is my least favorite term, but I don't find it to be a turn-off like other words. 1 Link to post
Hotspur 32 Posted Thursday at 12:53 PM Share Posted Thursday at 12:53 PM 14 hours ago, SkipNC said: As a Scot, I suppose I really should use "Hintend," (thanks, spellcheck), but "Bottom," is, I believe, the only word I have used in a spanking context. Very much like the German, Hintern. 1 Link to post
IndySpanko 76 Posted Thursday at 06:46 PM Share Posted Thursday at 06:46 PM When I am teasingly threatening someone I am somewhat close to but who may or may not be a spankee, I use "derriere," which somehow seems less offensive. As in, "My goodness, talk like that may get your derriere some attention." Then I watch and listen closely for the reaction. When a spanking is imminent, I usually say, "Get over here and bend over my knee," without mentioning the bottom. But when I do mention it I usually use "behind," as in "Time to bare that behind" or "Your behind needs to pay for your behavior." I sometimes say "rear" or "bottom" or even "ass," as in "Time for your ass-whuppin'." I don't use the words that seem somewhat comical, like "fanny," "hiney" and "tushy." tony 1 Link to post
Spankmered57 123 Posted Thursday at 07:15 PM Share Posted Thursday at 07:15 PM I like ass naked bottom naked butt or naked ass. This is what my parents used. I also like the word tan your hide it blister your ass!! 1 Link to post
rubyredd 236 Posted Thursday at 08:37 PM Author Share Posted Thursday at 08:37 PM 1 hour ago, Spankmered57 said: I like ass naked bottom naked butt or naked ass. This is what my parents used. I also like the word tan your hide it blister your ass!! "Tan your hide" is so 🔥. But not something I have actually heard very often. 1 Link to post
Chawsee 1237 Posted Friday at 05:33 AM Share Posted Friday at 05:33 AM On 1/13/2021 at 7:32 PM, SpudStateSpanky said: I really don’t care for behind, and bottom is even worse!! Can’t stand that word, even though it’s used more in spanking communities than any other. I’ve always preferred just butt. Me too! You and I have talked about this and come to the same agreement. When conversing with other spankees, though, I use "bottom" quite a bit, and "behind" to a lesser extent, because I feel like it's expected of me-- it's what spankos say. But I don't care for either word. "Butt," the simple abbreviation for buttocks, has always been my preference. I also like my ex-husband's favorite: "tuchus" (pronounced "tuckus"). Always thought that was cute. I noticed some folks above dislike or are ambivalent about "tushy." I actually think it's sweet and affectionate, but I use it only on occasion. And granted, tuchus and tushy are more appropriate for erotic spanking than as punishment terminology. 2 Link to post
Spankmered57 123 Posted Friday at 07:38 AM Share Posted Friday at 07:38 AM Now I just like tan your butt 1 Link to post
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