StevenSampson Posted December 18, 2020 Share Posted December 18, 2020 Why were you spanked? What implement(s) was used and what position(s) were you in? How long did the spanking last? What was it that caused you to cry? Link to comment
Bramblewine Posted December 18, 2020 Share Posted December 18, 2020 Why were you spanked? I did something I wasn't supposed to. I don't remember the exact details. The most likely reason would've been that I was sent to my room and came out before I was allowed to, or else it was a "I told you five times not to do that!" sort of situation. What implement(s) was used and what position(s) were you in? No implement, just open hand. Probably otk. How long did the spanking last? Less than a minute. What was it that caused you to cry? It hurt and I felt helpless. How could I not cry? I wasn't more than eight or nine years old. It was a parental spanking. Oh, did you mean spanked to tears as an adult? That's never happened. Even though the adult spankings I've had were always much longer and harder than anything I got as a child, always bare bottom (my childhood spankings were only over clothes), involved implements at least half the time, and left my bottom sore for a day or so (childhood spankings never hurt for more than five minutes, if that, after they were over). 1 Link to comment
cowboy Posted December 19, 2020 Share Posted December 19, 2020 Spanked to tears on my last maintenance spanking last Thursday. To be honest, tears occur on nearly every maintenance spanking. Always on discipline spankings. 3 Link to comment
michgal.k Posted December 19, 2020 Share Posted December 19, 2020 1 hour ago, cowboy said: Spanked to tears on my last maintenance spanking last Thursday. To be honest, tears occur on nearly every maintenance spanking. Always on discipline spankings. Wow! 1 Link to comment
StevenSampson Posted December 19, 2020 Author Share Posted December 19, 2020 6 hours ago, cowboy said: Spanked to tears on my last maintenance spanking last Thursday. To be honest, tears occur on nearly every maintenance spanking. Always on discipline spankings. Can you explain to me what a maintenance spanking is? Also, what brings on the tears in your case? Link to comment
cowboy Posted December 20, 2020 Share Posted December 20, 2020 We began a maintenance program when discipline spankings tapered off to near non existence. For us, maintenance was to accomplish 3 things. 1, to establish who is in charge and reinforce my submissive role in the relationship. 2, to serve as a reminder of what lies in store for me upon rule breaking or poor behavior. 3, to serve as a catch all for minor infractions which may not have warranted a punishment spanking at the time. Tears are caused by pain. 1 Link to comment
StevenSampson Posted December 21, 2020 Author Share Posted December 21, 2020 1 hour ago, cowboy said: We began a maintenance program when discipline spankings tapered off to near non existence. For us, maintenance was to accomplish 3 things. 1, to establish who is in charge and reinforce my submissive role in the relationship. 2, to serve as a reminder of what lies in store for me upon rule breaking or poor behavior. 3, to serve as a catch all for minor infractions which may not have warranted a punishment spanking at the time. Tears are caused by pain. Thank you for sharing that. You are the first person on this forum who told me they are brought to tears by the pain! Can I ask how you are spanked? Which implement does your wife use on you? Does she hit you in any specific spots or specific ways that makes it so painful that it makes you cry? How lengthy are the sessions? Is it one very long one or a few shorter ones? Which position are you in? Does she lecture you before she spanks you? How does the process look like from start to finish? If this is too personal please accept my apology for prying but I must admit I am very fascinated by what you wrote. Link to comment
pink615 Posted December 21, 2020 Share Posted December 21, 2020 Why were you spanked? I lied and got someone else in a lot of trouble. What implement(s) was used and what position(s) were you in? Hairbrush, over the knee, bottom bare and my "free" hand held firmly out of harm's way... How long did the spanking last? not sure---it was fast and furious and I was howling What was it that caused you to cry? the pain, the shame and the indignity Link to comment
cowboy Posted December 21, 2020 Share Posted December 21, 2020 @StevenSampson I am always nude when spanked even when away from home if at all possible. If not possible, always at least bare ass. My Dominant Mistress/Life Partner (not wife) uses a variety of implements. We have over 50. At least 3 are used for every spanking. She strikes full cheeks, sit spots upper thighs, inner thighs, anus, cock and balls. I did not say I cry, I said tears are present. I don't wail or sob, but tears do flow. Sessions vary, punishments are usually short but very hard and have no warm up, no safe word and no after care. Maintenance spankings can last up to and sometimes over an hour. Positions vary too. Most often over the edge of a bed or sofa, wheelbarrow, diaper, and otk. Lectured sometimes during, but not a lot. The process for a punishment spanking is very quick...she tells me why I am being spanked and goes right to it. Maintenance spankings are scheduled for every 3rd day and the length varies between 20 minutes or more. Ask any questions you wish either here or message me. Nothing is too personal. 1 Link to comment
michgal.k Posted December 24, 2020 Share Posted December 24, 2020 I don't cry during spankings, so... Link to comment
Emilee Posted July 15, 2021 Share Posted July 15, 2021 I have been going through a lot of emotional stuff recently( divorce and stuff) I needed a good cry but hadn’t been able to I asked a friend if he would spank me. I pulled down my pants and he gave me several hard swats over my panties. i burst into tears….something i really needed. 5 Link to comment
Spankmepleaae Posted September 6, 2021 Share Posted September 6, 2021 For being disrespectful. She used a wooden spoon and belt.. I was laying flat on the bed..it lasted like 10 mins. As an adult i have not cried from a spanking but want to be able to soon.. Just need the spanker to get me into the right Headspace Link to comment
nicoleS39 Posted September 6, 2021 Share Posted September 6, 2021 On 12/18/2020 at 3:37 PM, StevenSampson said: Why were you spanked? What implement(s) was used and what position(s) were you in? How long did the spanking last? What was it that caused you to cry? This past Saturday....for being careless and saying something I was not allowed to say...he had me bend over and grab my ankles...got 7 hard wacks on my panties. That is all i was wearing except my gym shoes.....he then put me over his lap and puled my panties down and gave me really hard and fast and long spanking on my bare skin with his hand...i wound up bawling like a little girl shortly...a bare bottom spanking after hard paddle wacks with a shool type woodbpaddle...that reallyb stings and burns. After that, i cried with my nose in the corner...and he gave me just one very hardmslash with his leather belt across my back...as a warning should i repeat the offense again....i cried it out for awhile longer and then he letnmevtake a shower with him.... 3 Link to comment
SpankorBSpanked Posted September 29, 2021 Share Posted September 29, 2021 Never . . . Link to comment
lolathorn Posted December 9, 2021 Share Posted December 9, 2021 Why were you spanked? Getting the lowest exam grade in my class What implement(s) was used and what position(s) were you in? Hand, hairbrush, wooden spoon all over the knee. Wooden paddle bending over the couch How long did the spanking last? Felt like forever What was it that caused you to cry The embarassment of performing so poorly and the pain from the spoon Link to comment
Smackedbum22 Posted December 9, 2021 Share Posted December 9, 2021 Why were you spanked? Took to long to-do chores. What implement(s) was used and what position(s) were you in? They used their hand How long did the spanking last? 10 minutes What was it that caused you to cry? The swats to my back thighs Link to comment
NorCalMan Posted December 9, 2021 Share Posted December 9, 2021 Last weekend my wife gave me a sound spanking with her hairbrush. I forgot to go by her mothers house as I promised and left her worrying about what had happened to me. Spanking was given on the bed for a good 15-20 minutes. Brought to tears by the pain and my guilt. 2 Link to comment
Spank61 Posted July 29, 2022 Share Posted July 29, 2022 I am missing badly to be spanked to real tears by a beloved partner. Tears belong to a proper spanking on my mind. They do cause the desired feeling of complete release. Link to comment
Bobthewineguy Posted September 17, 2022 Share Posted September 17, 2022 I have never been spanked to tears during a spanking but I could see how that would give you a emotional release. If you do get tears is that the point where the spanking ends or does it slow come to a conclusion???? Link to comment
nicoleS39 Posted September 17, 2022 Share Posted September 17, 2022 About 3 weeks or so ago...during and after a switching. There was pain, bit I think my tears were more about a releasenof something I had been hanging onto....that was dragging me down. So... not so much about being punished...but about waking up to the fact life is not soo bad"...and a huge heads up that it is ok to move on and live fully. Link to comment
Spank61 Posted October 15, 2022 Share Posted October 15, 2022 On 9/6/2021 at 1:43 PM, nicoleS39 said: This past Saturday....for being careless and saying something I was not allowed to say...he had me bend over and grab my ankles...got 7 hard wacks on my panties. That is all i was wearing except my gym shoes.....he then put me over his lap and puled my panties down and gave me really hard and fast and long spanking on my bare skin with his hand...i wound up bawling like a little girl shortly...a bare bottom spanking after hard paddle wacks with a shool type woodbpaddle...that reallyb stings and burns. After that, i cried with my nose in the corner...and he gave me just one very hardmslash with his leather belt across my back...as a warning should i repeat the offense again....i cried it out for awhile longer and then he letnmevtake a shower with him.... Careless spoken words can cause a lot of emotional grief. Great that your husband is attentive regarding your way of talking that should be ladylike always. It sounds so nice that you could experience a conciliating ending during a shared shower after your punishment. Just wondering why you did not get an additional mouth soaping. Link to comment
nicoleS39 Posted October 16, 2022 Share Posted October 16, 2022 Lol...I cannot answer for my husband. He decides how to punish me. I acknowledge I deserved a mouth soaping, but for reasons he did not share with me, I was spared that experience. lol...no complaints from me...I hate getting my mouth washed out with soap. 1 Link to comment
Spank61 Posted November 21, 2022 Share Posted November 21, 2022 Do not hate it if you know that mouth soaping is working on you properly. Link to comment
SunnySideUp83 Posted December 1, 2022 Share Posted December 1, 2022 Why were you spanked? Irritating my dad What implement(s) was used and what position(s) were you in? Belt on my bed flat How long did the spanking last? Too long What was it that caused you to cry? The constant barrage hitting my bare bottom. It went on forever and I had some hefty bruises Link to comment
Spank61 Posted December 2, 2022 Share Posted December 2, 2022 On 9/6/2021 at 1:43 PM, nicoleS39 said: .... i cried it out for awhile longer and then he letnmevtake a shower with him.... So nice to read that your deserved punishment was followed by an experience of tender care when you shared the shower. Your sore bottom had worked as pure release ... Link to comment
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