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I often fantasize about whom I'd like my wife to spank me in front of. The scenario often changes, but the fact that I end up over her knee or bent over a table, lounge, (etc), doesn't change. 

Does anyone else have a fantasy like this, and if so, who and where would it be?

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I would like to be taken to a spanking party and be required to be submissive to the group where everyone could take their turn spanking me while all the others watched.  I was actually spanked at a group event in the past, several decades ago, while others watched, and would love that to take place again. 

I would also like to add a very strong second to rubyredd's fantasy, it would be amazing for another woman to spank me in front of my wife and perhaps a couple of her closest female friends could watch the action. 

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5 hours ago, rubyredd said:

I would like to be spanked by a woman in front of my partner. Or, I would like him to spank me and another woman in front of each other.

I sure wouldn't mind being that guy!

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A fantasy of mine would be to spank a lady while her boss watches.  Doesn't matter whether the boss is female or male, just that I'm enlisted to spank the lady for some misdeed that would result in her either taking a spanking, or being fired, to which, she chooses spanking and the boss calls me in to take care of business.

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I would love to spank two women in one session.  Either one OTK while the other waits her turn, or a paddling.  With the paddling, I like two scenarios:  one where I paddle one woman while the other waits, then paddle the second, or where I paddle them both at once, alternating sets of swats between the two.  Hot!  Haha.

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When my ex wouldn't spank me, I fantasized about me finding a disciplinarian my wife would approve of and he/she would spank me under my wife's direction, with my wife scolding and embarrassing me for my bad behavior and urging the disciplinarian on: "Harder, faster, give it to him good!"

 

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I would never want to be spanked with someone watching (had that happen for real as a kid... no thank you!). I also wouldn't spank a man while a spectator watched. That's a form of voyeurism, which is fine if you're into that, but I'm not. Spanking, to me, is sacred ground, a place of trust and discipline and nurturing. This connection is something that I want to experience with only my partner.

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I've had public spankings/light canings-whippings at fetish clubs before but that wasn't with people watching specifically - just general bdsm stuff going on. In general as an adult I prefer private spankings but would consider roleplaying with a couple of people. 

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Although it's just a fantasy and I couldn't go through with it for real, it's  nice to think about.

It all starts with me misbehaving at a dinner we are hosting and my wife has enough and warns me that she'd spank me in front of our friends. I blurt back that she'd never do that and she asks everyone if they care if she takes care of it, which the girls all say yeah why not and the men all go silent. I then get called to the lounge, where she sits down, my pants are lowered, followed by my undies, then over her knee I go for a fast and very hard paddling with a paddle she fetched on her way to seating herself. 

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5000 people (I think more) and you know some definitely know you-well too because an ex holla on that because you were a sub on a livestream because. Oh that happened. I'm sorry I did but I can't say I wouldn't do it again. 

My cat will still love me.

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I've had a fantasy of working in a 'suit and tie' office, when I'm a 30-something year old guy, and being spanked by my very attractive, non-nonsense, female boss (35-45) for being too flirty and fresh with some of the female staff. Perhaps I patted a skirted rear end one too many times. She intends to put a stop to it. I just about die of embarrassment as she gives me the choice of being fired (which I can not afford) or to take a firm, sound, bare bottom spanking over her lap. Reluctantly I choose the spanking, and then she informs me "oh, and one other thing... because your behavior and trangressions involved all the women in the office then I'll be pulling your pants down, and you'll be going over my lap to be spanked in front of the ALL of them".   (YIKES!!!)

 

 

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I have an Hispanic friend who is very macho  so what i observed was a shock---We went to a casino and he lost way to much money He and his wife lived in a mobile home and i was staying over night. When he got home his wife was furious and  and to my shock she ordered him to get 'the paddle'  and he did so at once bare his butt and she paddled him hard as i looked on amazed.  So much for his machismo!    Later he suggested we all have a drink  so we did and they were laughing and talking like nothing bad had happened------It was yrs ago but i have never forgotten it------

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On 11/9/2020 at 3:49 PM, REALTEARS said:

i would like to be spanked in front of a crowd over my spankers knee

The same for me. My wife was a keep fit instructor and when I had chance I would go to her classes. Generally all females and to be taken across her knees in front of them and be well spanked for any mistakes would have been amazing. In my mind anyway!

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On 11/27/2020 at 5:16 AM, jimj835 said:

I have an Hispanic friend who is very macho  so what i observed was a shock---We went to a casino and he lost way to much money He and his wife lived in a mobile home and i was staying over night. When he got home his wife was furious and  and to my shock she ordered him to get 'the paddle'  and he did so at once bare his butt and she paddled him hard as i looked on amazed.  So much for his machismo!    Later he suggested we all have a drink  so we did and they were laughing and talking like nothing bad had happened------It was yrs ago but i have never forgotten it------

Wow...I wouldn't forget something like that either. Lucky you weren't in the firing line either.

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My futuristic fantasy is like a global spanking spanked over the knee bare bottom with heavy bath brush  in front of big crowd shown on big screens so the crowd can see then caned over the knee a bit like public whippings in the Middle Ages!

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As a kid I was spanked in front of other kids occasionally, and I have no wish to repeat that experience as an adult! Generally my spankings are quite private, and I am paranoid about anyone seeing or hearing me get a spanking. I often think a few of the neighbors must have heard and suspect my wife spanks me, but I hope they are not sure, and none have ever acknowledged it, which I would find really embarrassing. A very few times strangers have definitely heard me getting spanked in hotels, which was extremely embarrassing! My wife has assured me she would never deliberately spank me in front of someone else, which my paranoia made me ask, and I still can't help thinking if she would ever do it anyway. She has a friend she went all the way through school with, I'll call her Jodie, who I knew from before we got married, and for many years we got together with Jodie and her husband whenever we were in town. Jodie got divorced some years ago, but we still visit her at times, and I can easily imagine that if I thoughtlessly did or said something that got Jodie really upset, my wife would spank me for it, but at the hotel or when we got home. We are all close enough that I can even imagine her telling Jodie that she would/did spank me for what I did, but in reality she'd more likely just say she would/did punish me. But still I have a paranoid fantasy where Jodie is crying on her living room couch, my wife is comforting her, and I'm standing there apologizing, when my wife tells me to get her purse from the car. I get the purse knowing that the hairbrush is in it and I'm about to be spanked in Jodie's living room. My wife pulls down my pants and puts me over her knee on the couch, then paddles my bare bottom with the hairbrush while I wail how sorry I am and beg her to stop, just like at home. Sometimes Jodie is cleaning and clattering in the kitchen, where I know she can hear my spanking and maybe peek at it, other times I imagine she's right in the living room, biting her lower lip as she intently watches my pants go down and the spanking start, and chuckling when I start to wail and beg. It's not a fantasy of something I want, but like picking at a scab, it's a dark fear that comes when I think about whether my wife ever would go ahead and spank me in front of someone else. Because for Jodie she just might, and I would reluctantly comply.

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