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I started this topic because I personally use paddles wooden spoons and hairbrushes because they are small enough to reach and spank the naked butt hard enough to get a red cherry on fire but.  Paddles need to be small enough to reach both sides and not to heavy but not too bulky. Ping pong paddles work great because you can get a good swing and deliver many seats to both checks and still get your butt on fire and cherry red.  WHAT DO YOU ALL THINK?large.il_340x270.1128833354_g873.jpglarge.SpydersetOak.jpglarge.IMG_20200813_140055.jpg

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I've been enjoying this 14-inch bamboo spoon for the last few weeks. I found it for $3 on the summer seasonal goods close-out rack at Safeway. It's longer and heavier (a little over 3 ounces) than the common home-kitchen 12" wooden spoon. Most of my tools are too long or too short for optimum self-use. This spoon is just right. I'm thinking of finishing it with either tung oil or polyurothane.

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Looks like a good implement. I use small paddles that are not so heavy. Ping ping paddles work great and stings the naked butt really fast. If you want something lightweight a wooden spoon work very well they are light weight and really sting the butt really fast and makes it red very quickly. Where did you get this implement. I would like to try it.

Here are some pictures of the implements that I use on myself. I also use a wooden hairbrush. It stings and makes the naked bottom really sore burning and cherry red really quickly!!large.328357.jpglarge.40283.jpglarge.927611957_large.il_340x270.1380706923_8w90.jpg.86169639762084b4c6696c48032ca225(1).jpglarge.41h7QqUN4bL._AC_SY400_.jpglarge.il_340x270.1128833354_g873.jpglarge.isla_180x180.19860023_20jlmf1a.jpglarge.s-l300.jpglarge.BambooSpoon5Set01.jpg 

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I don't use all of them at once I use one of them for each session recently I just use the ping pong paddle then I finish with the wooden spoon which gives my butt that nice cherry red texture and makes it burn like fire. Like in these pictures!!large.IMG_20200902_195003.jpglarge.IMG_20200902_185825.jpglarge.IMG_20200902_194500.jpglarge.IMG_20200902_194327.jpglarge.IMG_20200902_195413.jpglarge.IMG_20200902_195427.jpglarge.IMG_20200829_211816.jpglarge.IMG_20200829_211853.jpg

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While self spanking with various implements can help with issues the ee is facing, I personally lean towards encouraging self spankee's to find someone who can direct their self spankings. Its very hard to be fair to oneself and a neutral party can I believe feel in that gap and make the spanking more effective. 

Let me know what you think

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23 hours ago, Davyd said:

While self spanking with various implements can help with issues the ee is facing, I personally lean towards encouraging self spankee's to find someone who can direct their self spankings. Its very hard to be fair to oneself and a neutral party can I believe feel in that gap and make the spanking more effective. 

Let me know what you think

So true.  While I can make my butt all fire red and make the spanking hurt, nothing comes close to what happens when someone else is in charge of the spanking.   

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My favorite to use is my long-handled wooden bath brush. The long handle makes it much easier to reach and access all areas of the bottom for a more thorough spanking. It can be used more lightly while still being rather effective, but can also be used more severely if needed. I have a pretty good collection of implements, but I almost never have a session without the bath brush being used.

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I also prefer bath brushes for all the reasons Amethyst said. I spank for stress relief, so have found it to be very effective without having direction. Your mileage may very, depends on the reason and the individual.

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Does anybody use non-impact tools? Like a spiked circulation mat or capcaisin cream?

Do you find anything like that effective, or does it have to be impact? I kind of like the cream, because I can't undo it. If I'm hairbrushing myself, I can stop when it hurts too much, unlike with a real spanker. Sigh.

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On 7/9/2021 at 1:30 PM, Cheeks4Weeks said:

Does anybody use non-impact tools? Like a spiked circulation mat or capcaisin cream?

Do you find anything like that effective, or does it have to be impact? I kind of like the cream, because I can't undo it. If I'm hairbrushing myself, I can stop when it hurts too much, unlike with a real spanker. Sigh.

 

I recenly acquired an EMS footmassager. Positioned down the back of my underwear on the full setting ....it gets pretty uncomfortable after a couple of minutes.

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On 7/9/2021 at 7:30 AM, Cheeks4Weeks said:

Does anybody use non-impact tools? Like a spiked circulation mat or capcaisin cream?

Do you find anything like that effective, or does it have to be impact? I kind of like the cream, because I can't undo it. If I'm hairbrushing myself, I can stop when it hurts too much, unlike with a real spanker. Sigh.

Povihome-Stimulates-Blood-Circulation-Acupressure-Mat-Body-Acupuncture-Massage-Mat-Points-Light-Green-Drop-Shipping-C1187.jpg

The cream is super helpful. Even if you can only spank so much, you can do it and then put the cream on, leaving for a super uncomfortable bottom. And I've done this in the morning before I go to work so I have to drive on it and then sit on it all day. I usually take the cream and reapply it at lunch. Also, sitting on a hard chair helps. I have a hard chair at work and home. If people ask at work, I've just said my back can't handle the soft chair. 🤷‍♀️  Went over fine.

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In college ,I had a roommate who had the same fetish as me - spanking.  We had a wonderful four years together enjoying our fetish.  But since that time, now more 10 years ago, I have had difficulties in finding another woman who has the same fetish as I have.  That has resulted in me to self-spank, but it is definitely not the same.  But until I find another woman to fulfill my desires and hers, I will continue warming my own bottom.

 

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