Spanking from a family member as a adult??

[Cavsalltheway23]

I have seen videos online of people getting spanked as a adult by a real family member. I have seen a few of daughters getting spanked by their Real mom. I have also seen real sisters spank, a few of aunts and even one with a real father. 

It all makes me curious how many people have considered seeing if someone they knew in their family would spank them. And if they did and they said yes would they be willing to film it?

[disciplineguy12]

I would love to know where you have seen these videos, can you post a link?  

[Chawsee]

The idea of being spanked by an adult family member, other than a spouse, feels completely creepy to me. Yeeks! 

[KentuckyGuy]

Same here, extra creepy.

[Cavsalltheway23]

5 hours ago, disciplineguy12 said:

I would love to know where you have seen these videos, can you post a link?  

Amateur spankings has some videos and I have seen some done with stevie rose (Not sure the company) but there is some with her mom,sisters, and aunt. Now obviously I cannot tell if these people are related for sure but they are doing roleplay videos (as far as I know)

[StrictGent]

Cavs, it's all pretend role play. As it should be. I wish people would stop asking if this is OK, and others would stop encouraging. Trying to pull family members into your kink when it's not theirs isn't OK. There are a lot of consenting adults, including professionals, who will role play your mommy or aunt very convincingly and, it seems to me, if you want to experience a parental spanking badly enough to risk destroying a real relationship, then you can shell out a couple hundred bucks for a pro.

[BenjaminBoy]

To some, including me, it is not and never will be role play. It is a necessary part of my life. 

 

[Oldfashiondaddy]

On 7/23/2020 at 12:31 PM, disciplineguy12 said:

I would love to know where you have seen these videos, can you post a link?  

Me too!!!

[Cavsalltheway23]

4 hours ago, Oldfashiondaddy said:

Me too!!!

Clips4sale has some and amateur spankings they might not be real but they claim to be.. You can pay on those or do some digging and can find some free on some sites.

[Oldfashiondaddy]

9 minutes ago, Cavsalltheway23 said:

Clips4sale has some and amateur spankings they might not be real but they claim to be.. You can pay on those or do some digging and can find some free on some sites.

Thank you. I appreciate that

[overherknee]

On 7/24/2020 at 8:04 AM, StrictGent said:

Cavs, it's all pretend role play. As it should be. I wish people would stop asking if this is OK, and others would stop encouraging. Trying to pull family members into your kink when it's not theirs isn't OK. There are a lot of consenting adults, including professionals, who will role play your mommy or aunt very convincingly and, it seems to me, if you want to experience a parental spanking badly enough to risk destroying a real relationship, then you can shell out a couple hundred bucks for a pro.

You are so correct. I have a horror story of an acquaintance from some years ago who did this very thing a big mistake and I think to this day permanently scarred and ruined his relationship with his family you taking a big gamble and I'm not sure it's worth it. And honestly I think if someone close to you and your family was already bent towards spanking and spanking you you would already be aware of it for instance I have an aunt who for whatever reason like to spank my bare bottom in play and in real and look for reasons to discipline me when I was young and to this day when we do see each other during holidays and so forth she has the inclination to give me a paddle or two so we already know that about her and she knows that about me from when I was a child but you're not going to find any hidden spankos in your family that you don't know about already.. At least it's very very unlikely and if you have a gut suspicions about somebody very carefully poke around in a conversation with some very carefully planted seeds to see how they react. But the fact is if they wanted you to know you would probably already know.

it's just best to avoid all together.

[F/m_Spanking_only]

Lord!! Tell me that these videos are role play and not really family members spanking one another! Why on Earth would anyone actually WANT to engage in this activity with actual family members?? I mean, we don't date our family members, so why would we engage in spanking with them? It's a consensual adult activity that is between two adults who are NOT related! Why do people have to make this lifestyle so creepy? 

[Chawsee]

7 hours ago, F/m_Spanking_only said:

Lord!! Tell me that these videos are role play and not really family members spanking one another! Why on Earth would anyone actually WANT to engage in this activity with actual family members?? I mean, we don't date our family members, so why would we engage in spanking with them? It's a consensual adult activity that is between two adults who are NOT related! Why do people have to make this lifestyle so creepy? 

THANK YOU!!!  Perfectly stated!

[ukspanko]

In all seriousness even at plus 40 my Mum and Aunt are perfectly capable of putting the fear of god in me without having to raise a hand. Just a look does it.

[NewTimmims]

On 7/22/2020 at 9:55 PM, Cavsalltheway23 said:

I have seen videos online of people getting spanked as a adult by a real family member. I have seen a few of daughters getting spanked by their Real mom. I have also seen real sisters spank, a few of aunts and even one with a real father. 

It all makes me curious how many people have considered seeing if someone they knew in their family would spank them. And if they did and they said yes would they be willing to film it?

fuck no never film it but yes I have spanked a family member and it has worked well for us I think

[Zhal]

While it doesn't appeal to me, there was a time in this site's history, on how its "how to ask to be spanked" link about being spanked by a parent. I have mixed feelings about there. Having been spanked, seemingly a lot, as a child, I would never want my dad to spank me ever again. If mom were still alive, maybe, but still probably not.

[Longtimespanking]

While it's possible for that to work in a few very specific situations, which would be very uncommon, the dynamic of family interaction in most families would not be conducive toward spanking an adult. 

In the past in certain ethnic families an adult daughter might have been spanked by a parent, particularly if she still lived at home.  I knew of a few such situations when I was growing up back in the day. 

But for the most part, for a parent to spank an adult child today, it would require that both of them had to be kinky and wanted it to happen. 

[nicoleS39]

OK...guess I will get blasted here, but decided to share another side to this coin. Certainly, my husband is the primary spanker of my behind...as an adult...ever since we were dating...although the dating spankings were much less intense than my marital ones...lol. But..here is the thing with us....his father has spanked my husband's mother the entire time they have been married...40 years now I think coming up. His mother was pregnant at 16 and my father in law was 17...and both sets of parents insisted they get married...and they lived with my husband's grandparents. His grandparents were huge believers in spanking not only their children, but his grandfather was known to take a razor strap to his wife as well. My husband's grandfather had a strap made and presented it to my father in law to use on his wife....which he did quite often in their early days. So...yes...would not in any way "fly" today...but then...it did. They actually grew as a couple and family....like I say...40 years and 4 children...grandchildren...all doing great actually. I know from family conversations....my husband's two sisters submit to spankings from their husbands, and his brother is single with a disability...lives with my in laws....NO spanking involving him now as an adult, btw. But...the "tradition" or practice of spanking the wife and a more submissive wife was carried on by my husband in his first marriage. She birthed him two wonderful children and was spanked on occasion by my husband...before her quick death caused by cancer and an aneurism.  

All that to say. my mother in law and I and husband's sisters and husbands are very close. We sometimes discuss our discipline among ourselves. And..there have been a few times over 15 years in which I have seen my mother in law spanked by her husband, and twice I saw one sister in law spanked by her husband.  There have been a few times my husband has spanked me in front of my father and mother in law....and twice we both got spanked together for doing something worthy of discipline. In those instances, I was spanked first by my husband, then my father in law...and same with my mother in law...first her husband and then my husband. Now..,these were not sexual in any way...purely disciplinary. Not routine, but can happen in our dynamic if warranted and appropriate. No bare butts, but well warmed panties for us both...with a belt and paddle.

So...condemn me if you like...but in our history and within how "spanking" and submission in our marriages...as an accepted and still sustained tradition...I do not feel it is really creepy or...wrong. Neither does anyone in our immediate family circle.And...btw...none of this is ever witnessed by our children or the grandkids...which are my nieces.

[Zhal]

I recently remembered I had thought about another family member spanking me when I was staying with my cousins before going to college. The family member in question was my uncle. I didn't act on it, and was never threatened with it, but I recently remembered that memory, so I thought I'd post about it.

[spankee1944]

I think a very large group of people would be shocked to know there really is alot of people out here that do have a spanking family.  Some members do spank other members . NicoleS39, I applaud you for your honestly. Many families have their own way of how it will be done and by who. I know of a couple families who believe and mostly within their religious beliefs do this. The men in the family are the spankers . The elder male will spank daughter in laws , daughters, if their husbands send them to their father/uncle elder male of family for discipline or if they did something disrespectful to them. None of it is sexual or creepy, it is just an accepted form within these families.

[nicoleS39]

Thank you for sharing that, katylee....

 

[OhRedhead]

This squicks me out quite a bit, but to each his/her own.

[spike]

What goes on between consenting adults is nobody's business, but this is just creepy to me.

[dmirk]

When I was in my 20s I knew at least three girls who got spanked at 19. 

[Longtimespanking]

14 minutes ago, dmirk said:

When I was in my 20s I knew at least three girls who got spanked at 19. 

When I was in my 20's, which happens to have been back in the 1970's,  I knew a few girls (or knew of them through reliable friends who related the information) who were still living at home and were significantly older than that (30's and 40's, never married) and still being spanked. But apparently at that time, and because their parents were of a different cultural background, that was not unheard of.  Of course since then, people have culturally assimilated far more, and such situations are less likely to occur for cultural reasons. However, as nicoleS39 has mentioned on several occasions, there are still situations where it does happen today and probably won't disappear entirely within certain specific groups.