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just curious did the above ever happen to anybody it did with me sometimes gave mum letter to say i had been caned at school  she had a rule

caned at school spanked at home! also seemed unfair to me?  being punished twice for same offence? otk with hairbrush on top of the cane welts? kicking wriggling squirming howling! YES!

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I think the difference is that when you are caned at school.you are beibg punished for the actual.offence.  Throwing food for instance.  When you get home, you aren't being punished for throwing food... You are being punished for being bad at school which is a poor reflection on your parents.  2 seperate things here.  Still not fair maybe.

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Being from the US, caning was not usually practiced either at school or in a family setting.  But it was very common when someone got a spanking at school either from a teacher or the principal, for a note to be sent home to be signed by a parent acknowledging that the student had been punished. Many times, a phone call to a parent was made instead of sending the note. 

You could be 100% certain that if parents were notified either by a note or phone call, that you would be spanked a second time at home, and that one was usually as hard as or even harder than the one you got at school.  There was no avoiding how the system worked.  I can verify that from first hand experience, including all the way through high school. 

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Certainly happened to me a few times

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At my school, there would have been no need. I grew up in the 70's before they started holding educators accountable for abusive behavior.  The paddlings they administered were brutal.

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I was caned at boarding school. That didn't spill over to home: although I was also caned at home for offences at home.

Fortunately no crossover.

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I grew up in the 70’s and my Dad was a teacher and you bet your bottom I got it. The rule always was if I got the paddle at school I got the belt when Dad got home. I fondly remember coming home with a note from the teacher and my Mom would send me right to my room. I would have to wait an hour or two for my Dad to come home from work. He wore a belt to work and it would come off in my room. Bent over the bed and scolded for being a bad reflection on him. I was then taught a good lesson on my already sore bottom. The school paddle hurt but Dad’s belt drove the message into my bottom. My parents would have to sign the note to send back to the teacher. I remember more than one he added that he had reinforced the lesson at home.  Ouch!

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14 minutes ago, Blisteredbottomboy said:

 My parents would have to sign the note to send back to the teacher. I remember more than one he added that he had reinforced the lesson at home.  Ouch!

That certainly brings back memories of the same situation.  I remember having the punishment I got at home described in the reply to the note, and I vividly recall already being home from school several times when the dreaded phone call from the principal or teacher came.  Once I actually answered the phone, and it was made very clear to me that I would be in big trouble if I didn't put a parent on the phone immediately. Apparently there had been problems with others lying and saying their parents weren't home. But whenever I was there and such a call came in,  it was somewhat discouraging to hear the conversation, with a parent thanking the person from school for calling, and describing to that person exactly what was going to happen in a few minutes. 

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