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just curious did the above ever happen to anybody it did with me sometimes gave mum letter to say i had been caned at school  she had a rule

caned at school spanked at home! also seemed unfair to me?  being punished twice for same offence? otk with hairbrush on top of the cane welts? kicking wriggling squirming howling! YES!

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I think the difference is that when you are caned at school.you are beibg punished for the actual.offence.  Throwing food for instance.  When you get home, you aren't being punished for throwing food... You are being punished for being bad at school which is a poor reflection on your parents.  2 seperate things here.  Still not fair maybe.

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Being from the US, caning was not usually practiced either at school or in a family setting.  But it was very common when someone got a spanking at school either from a teacher or the principal, for a note to be sent home to be signed by a parent acknowledging that the student had been punished. Many times, a phone call to a parent was made instead of sending the note. 

You could be 100% certain that if parents were notified either by a note or phone call, that you would be spanked a second time at home, and that one was usually as hard as or even harder than the one you got at school.  There was no avoiding how the system worked.  I can verify that from first hand experience, including all the way through high school. 

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Certainly happened to me a few times

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At my school, there would have been no need. I grew up in the 70's before they started holding educators accountable for abusive behavior.  The paddlings they administered were brutal.

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I was caned at boarding school. That didn't spill over to home: although I was also caned at home for offences at home.

Fortunately no crossover.

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I grew up in the 70’s and my Dad was a teacher and you bet your bottom I got it. The rule always was if I got the paddle at school I got the belt when Dad got home. I fondly remember coming home with a note from the teacher and my Mom would send me right to my room. I would have to wait an hour or two for my Dad to come home from work. He wore a belt to work and it would come off in my room. Bent over the bed and scolded for being a bad reflection on him. I was then taught a good lesson on my already sore bottom. The school paddle hurt but Dad’s belt drove the message into my bottom. My parents would have to sign the note to send back to the teacher. I remember more than one he added that he had reinforced the lesson at home.  Ouch!

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14 minutes ago, Blisteredbottomboy said:

 My parents would have to sign the note to send back to the teacher. I remember more than one he added that he had reinforced the lesson at home.  Ouch!

That certainly brings back memories of the same situation.  I remember having the punishment I got at home described in the reply to the note, and I vividly recall already being home from school several times when the dreaded phone call from the principal or teacher came.  Once I actually answered the phone, and it was made very clear to me that I would be in big trouble if I didn't put a parent on the phone immediately. Apparently there had been problems with others lying and saying their parents weren't home. But whenever I was there and such a call came in,  it was somewhat discouraging to hear the conversation, with a parent thanking the person from school for calling, and describing to that person exactly what was going to happen in a few minutes. 

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For me my worst spanking came my junior year in high school coming back from Xmas break. I remember I had just gotten a new leather jacket for Xmas and i wore it first day back. A kid made fun of the way I looked so I hit him and knocked him to the ground course the teacher saw it and escorted me to the principal where I had to bend over and receive 15 with the paddle. They contacted my parents and the moment I got home I walked in to see a note and a pair of scissors on the counter. Note said I was to go out and pick and clean 5 switches and to prepare myself in my room. Tell you what that was the longest spanking of my life that night. 

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All it took was a note to be sent home by a teacher and I was in for it. The practice of corporal punishment was ending when I was in school so the spanking was done at home. If mom spanked first, dad came home and spanked even harder. I guess I was fortunate that she often chose to just let dad take care of the discipline. 

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I went to school grades k-8 from 1970-78 in a small town in Ontario. The strap was administered by the Principal (female nun) or Vp (male) in their office a black rubber strap about a foot long. You were made to put your hands out and would get 2-3 hard smacks on palm. On many occasions you would get it with others but only one in the office at the time. Both male and females got it as I know my wife who at the time was a grade behind me got it twice. Yes for sure the teachers knew that when you got the strap that you were likely going to have a hard time sitting down the next day! I started dating my wife in high school and was over at her house one day when her younger sister got the strap at school. I did not see it but heard her getting a hard bare bottom spanking in their fathers den!

For me the times I got the strap  a note was sent home and then I would get spanked on my bare bottom from my father. As he said sore hand will equal a sore butt

 

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i went to school in the late 80s and early 90s was completely abolished by that point 

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I went to school from the very late 90s' into the early 2010's. While that was fairly recent, paddlings were a disciplinary measure in every school I attended. I spent my early school years in Pennsylvania, before it was abolished there. By the time they abolished it, my family had moved to Georgia, where it is still legal. Parents were able to choose to not allow their kids to be paddled if they chose. Paddlings when I was in school specifically took place in the office, and required a faculty witness as well. It was very private, we only ever heard about it on the days it was explained as we went over the code of conduct, and only heard about it actually happening on occasion. We never saw or heard the actual paddlings ourselves, just rumors or accounts of it happening.

My mom very clearly told us that she did not exempt us from being able to receive paddlings at school. She said if we did something to earn it, then we deserved it. She also made it clear that if we were paddled at school, she would spank us at home as well. Whether she would have followed through on that, I don't know. My mom didn't even spank us growing up, she always chose grounding. My sister and I also both finished school without ever being disciplined there in any form. So whether she would have followed through on that, we don't know. But "paddled at school, spanked at home" was definitely a clearly verbalized threat that I was fortunate enough to never find out if it was true.

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They didn't do any of this at any of the schools attended. I was in grade school from 1979 to 1992. It's like...they had the option....I think...but it wasn't carried out. It was, for all intents and purposes, a paper tiger. I believe lawsuits were starting to happen and that spooked them. One teacher told me once "let's put it this way. No teacher ever got fired for sending a student to detention". 

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No--If coach paddled me (bare!) there were no consequences at home---of course my brothers saw my paddled butt when we went to bed

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I can certainly see why it got abolished. The liability alone would be a stress inducing nightmare

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I got swats with the paddle twice in jr high (early 1990s). Both times I got bare bottom hairbrush spankings at home. 

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I remember coming home from primary school with my Mum when I was six on the day I had my first spanking over the teachers knee. I presumed my Mum knew already so didn't say anything as I didn't know how to explain myself ( especially the fact that I'd partly enjoyed it ). I'm not sure if my Mum ( or Dad ) would have spanked me as well. When I did mention it to my Mum years later as an adult she said she would have gone up to the school to complain which would have been even worse to be honest !

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Back when this happened in schools, I never could figure out what the deal was with parents. It's like....if the school didn't go through with it, parents blamed them for being too lenient. But, the times that they did go through with it, the parents would get really upset and either threaten lawsuits, or actually file one. 

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