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I know spankings are a good punishment, but I was wondering if anyone had any knowledge on some other good ones to use with or instead of. I know a lot of people use corner time 

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Depending on physical limitations.:

push-ups...  sit-ups...   walk in place...  

these don't work for me since my stroke...

 

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Losing privileges (electronics etc).  Writing an essay.   Going to bed early.  It’s best to come up with a suitable punishment that fits the offense, so hopefully it works. 

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Cornertime is excellent if done properly.  That is, with the disciplinee naked, nose in the corner, hands on head, and absolutely silent for the assigned time.  I slightly disagree with Jaded --probably for the first time since I've been on here-- in that writing lines is more productive than writing an essay:  "The spanking I received was for my own good," or something like it, written perhaps 100 times is better than a woman's expressing her literary talents in an essay, even one about her offense.

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1 hour ago, Chastener said:

Cornertime is excellent if done properly.  That is, with the disciplinee naked, nose in the corner, hands on head, and absolutely silent for the assigned time.  I slightly disagree with Jaded --probably for the first time since I've been on here-- in that writing lines is more productive than writing an essay:  "The spanking I received was for my own good," or something like it, written perhaps 100 times is better than a woman's expressing her literary talents in an essay, even one about her offense.

I am not 100 percent against writing lines. Lines do have the repetition, so the person rethinks the behavior.  Over time, I saw essays were more beneficial.  For example, writing a 500 word essay about the dangers of texting and driving (providing statistics and actual facts of accident/death info) may teach someone more than writing “I will not text and drive “1000 times.   Everyone learns differently, so that has to be kept in mind also.  On a side note, I have used corner time a lot, but see no need that the person must be completely naked in the corner, unless it’s erotic spanking.  Just my opinion.  

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13 hours ago, Jaded said:

   Everyone learns differently, so that has to be kept in mind also. 

I try to structure a punishment to fit the individual or the issue, or both. I have imposed written essays or book reports or verbal/written exams which I evaluate (grade) Or some "memorize & recite" material (in lieu of written lines) as positive learning reinforcement in addition to any imposed corporal discipline (negative reinforcement), which usually has a certain affect, as I am nearby tapping a paddle, strap or cane. 😁

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My former Dominant would use mouth soaping for foul language and lieing.  This, along with a good spanking was effective.  My current Dominant does not mouth soap, so now it is just spankings here. 

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What I try to avoid is to impose a repeat punishment which might apparently not make a noticeable impression. Results are the primary focus. 

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14 hours ago, Jaded said:

I am not 100 percent against writing lines. Lines do have the repetition, so the person rethinks the behavior.  Over time, I saw essays were more beneficial.  For example, writing a 500 word essay about the dangers of texting and driving (providing statistics and actual facts of accident/death info) may teach someone more than writing “I will not text and drive “1000 times.   Everyone learns differently, so that has to be kept in mind also.  On a side note, I have used corner time a lot, but see no need that the person must be completely naked in the corner, unless it’s erotic spanking.  Just my opinion.  

totally agree...  because being a spankee does not always equal submissive... 

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18 hours ago, Jaded said:

I am not 100 percent against writing lines. Lines do have the repetition, so the person rethinks the behavior.  Over time, I saw essays were more beneficial.  For example, writing a 500 word essay about the dangers of texting and driving (providing statistics and actual facts of accident/death info) may teach someone more than writing “I will not text and drive “1000 times.   Everyone learns differently, so that has to be kept in mind also.  On a side note, I have used corner time a lot, but see no need that the person must be completely naked in the corner, unless it’s erotic spanking.  Just my opinion.  

I agree with you.  No need for being naked unless its sexual in some way.   I also have had better response to having someone hand write a 2 page essay as punishment.

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I  feel alternative punishments besides or in addition to spanking greatly enhances the meaningfulness of the spanking and helps clarify the lesson and embeds it in a person heart to greater degree than jsut spanking  ie early bedtimes, grounding, essays, line writing, corner time, note of apology etc-imho-Mike

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In the few relationships and a spanking friendship I had in the past there were definitely alternative punishments, that greatly enhanced the effect of the punishment. So it was not instead of a spanking but as an "extra". Usually it was writing lines (very long lines...), early bedtime, I've been grounded, lost privileges, and things like that. Or a mix of those even if it was for something really serious. Corner time was used as well, which I don't really consider a punishment and/or embarrassing at all. Getting corner time before the spanking though is something I don't like, especially if I've got to wait a long time knowing what is going to happen next... so in that situation it can be sort of an extra punishment... feeling like a nervous wreck waiting for the "execution" 😎

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I've used soap in the mouth, writing lines, and corner time as both a bottom and top.  They all have their own advantages and disadvantages.  I love the head space that soap gets me in - it really brings me back as a childish punishment.  And although the actual experience it is not necessarily a lot of fun, the emotions it evokes for me are incredible.  

As for lines, there is nothing exciting about them whatsoever.  Which I guess is the point, because they make an excellent punishment.  

Corner time, especially when combined with a spanking, adds to the overall experience.  It's a childish punishment that evokes some of the same emotions that soap does for me, and really makes you focus on the spanking.

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I get slap on the balls. When we are in bed my wife just said pull down your underwear and open your legs, she gives me 5 to 7 hard slaps.

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I checked out this thread as it seemed to be what I was looking for.  And it has to a point.  I started for the first time on line mentoring.  I'm looking for both rewards and punishments for use on line.  corner time can still be ordered along with essay writing.  
with cut and paste lines wouldn't work.  she doesn't have a lot of money so I can't tell her buy a spank-o-matic.

And I'm still stuck on rewards.  She wants to be treated as a child due to poor RL parenting.  So I need to both punish and reward.  I'd really appreciate help.

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      Sitting on a pillow in public

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On 6/3/2020 at 12:56 PM, Lita said:

      Sitting on a pillow in public

That’s what I do after I spank

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On 6/3/2020 at 1:56 PM, Lita said:

      Sitting on a pillow in public

I went to a D-s group meeting and one of the girls running it sat on the floor on a pillow at her D's feet.  At the time I thought it was a comfort thing, something about her hips or her back... It never occurred to me it could be a punishment!

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