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SubDomCouple, April 3 in Relationships
I'm keeping it private.
Just my spanker and a few online friends also into spanking.
Yes. It ended up being pretty open when I was younger. Then I didn't do anything to keep it a secret. If anything my partner outed themselves just by getting involved with me. Being spanked in front of others is a punishment I'll get. In the past it's been in real public but now only close friends. Though I may not like them. They aren't dangerous which can be a concern and my past isn't great.p
The only one that knows is my wifes best friend. Maybe some of our friends suspect because they notice when me wife gives me that look... And how fast I stop what ever. Some times I realy think about telling some one but I think is better to keep it like it is, I know my wife will not like it at all and since we have a great thing going on betewen us I dont want to spoilet.
No I keep it private for the most part
My vanilla friends in real life and online would not understand it and have a lot of judgements as well. It's not worth it to waste my energy in explaining myself, and probably even then it would not be understood. So no, I don't share it with vanilla friends. Although sometimes you meet someone that you feel you can trust and that is not judgemental, then I will very carefully throw a small bone to see how this person responds.
I was terrified of anyone finding out, but it turns out that sharing with a few close friends was one of the best things I did. Not saying I advertise it or want my extended family to know, but it is nice to not have to hide certain things from your closest friends.
I've told several people but they don't know who she is. I think I'm very safe that people would be shocked if they had any idea who she was. I've keep that secret.
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