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EmmaR

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Only been looking a couple days, and I’m finding it’s difficult to find female tops in general, even more so ones who want to interact with other females. I’m hoping to find a maternal mentor type figure. I’ve craved a maternal connection my entire life, not having one with my own mother. Any advice on how to find what I’m looking for?

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They are out there, but you will need to do some searching.  There are a few on this site. Hopefully someone will message you with a suggestion for someone to contact. 

Perhaps your need for a maternal connection/mentor can also be served by making a close friendship with an older woman you might know from work, or a neighbor, without that friendship having to include discipline and punishments?  

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Your search has just begun.  I think you can find such a person, but it will take time and patience.  If your serious you will need to use multiple spanking resources, but I think you will find her. 

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It often takes a very long time. You have to find a good match for you, then once you start communicating, you have to be sure you guys click, and are on the same page.  Good luck 

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Hi Emma, 

I just started accepting and searching myself. With my anxiety issues, the wait time can be a struggle. Though I have had several conversations here that have really helped keep me grounded. Just knowing there are more experienced individuals willing to talk and share helps a lot. Patience is a hard thing when you have unsatisfied cravings. Even harder when all you want to do sometimes is simply talk with someone and have them understand you. But it helps. I too am looking for a maternal/sister like relationship to start and maybe something more down the road. I can be a brat, in fact some know me as a professional brat. But I am also very serious and compassionate at times. I want to be held and loved as much as I feel I need to be kept in check. Just keep exploring and joining conversations. Who knows what may come up. Good luck! 

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I think what you said here, EmmaR, is great. Your honesty is appreciated. Stay true to yourself and what you're seeking, and the right female mentor will eventually cross your path.

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On 2/16/2020 at 8:39 AM, EmmaR said:

Only been looking a couple days, and I’m finding it’s difficult to find female tops in general, even more so ones who want to interact with other females. I’m hoping to find a maternal mentor type figure. I’ve craved a maternal connection my entire life, not having one with my own mother. Any advice on how to find what I’m looking for?

A lot of us maternal mentor type figure.  The best suggestions is to be honest with what and who you are. It will still take time. Trust me I know and I am in the same boat. Good luck.

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