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Before my wife and I were married, we where at her house watching porn on the family computer, back then it was like one computer in the house, she was 19 and I was 25, her mom came in and immediately said turn that off  right now!! Don’t make me get the belt Anna!!!  Her face turn red and immediately did a she was told.

 

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A few months ago I was genuinely visiting my aunt and we were looking at her local library ( I work as a part time library information officer and deputy manager ) - I walked past one of the shelves and jokingly said out loud "well that's not very tidy is it ?" - My aunt just glared at me and said "Don't worry - he's my nephew - I'll sort him out later !" which got a big smirk from the lady behind the counter.

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On 8/20/2019 at 10:12 PM, Whipmyass15 said:

I’ve asked many members of family and even moms of friends I know from age 18-26  all to be told I was to old or find a girl friend to do that. Only wanting the real thing. 

If they were women, I think they did the right thing. There is a fine line with family and friends that is hard to see until you are over it, and this is something that cannot be undone.

It is possible though, for you to make friends with older women (if it a mom-figure you are after), that might fulfill this as oppose to having to get a girlfriend to do it. When you make friends with adults as an adult, even when they are from your parents' generation, the freedom to engage in this kind of activity is far less blurred.

I wonder if there is a male family member that might be more willing? The trick is to find someone who is happy to be the giver. I understand the need but could not likely fulfill it for someone else because I am not a spanker.

Keep looking.

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I wasn't technically an adult, but I was very close (within a few days of turning 18). This was the last punishment spanking I received from my mother. My parents were very strict, but they were extremely fair with their punishments. They had specific protocols for me to follow and defined rules. I would never receive a spanking for something that was arguably unethical but not on a list of punishments and their penalties. Some may worry about sexualization, but they were mindful of that. They had a punishment attire of thin leggings and a T-shirt to maximize pain but guarantee my privacy (which I really respected growing up). 

Nevertheless, the punishment I received was a caning for doing poorly on a calc test worth 20% of my grade. My parents gave me 2 options for punishments associated with grades, either I lost allowance/did more chores, or I received a spanking, where for any grade below 90%, I would receive (100-[the grade])*[value of assignment] strokes with a cane. I received a 60 on this test so my punishment ended up being 80 strokes split across two sessions. 

When an infraction was made, the punishment would take place on a specific day each week (Tuesdays), and I would be required to be changed into the attire, standing in the corner, with the implement ready in the punishment room before my mother got home. She would come in, explain the reasoning my punishment, and ask that I assume the position (usually bend over a bed because I was generally caned). I would take my punishment and stand in the corner for a minute for every stroke I received (including penalty swats). Since I required 2 punishments for this test, I received a punishment on Tuesday and on Thursday. I ended up taking like 85 cane strokes (they administered penalty swats). The second session was a lot worse than the first one because I anticipated the pain for 2 whole days. 

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When I was 18 and a senior in high school, my girlfriend for a short time was 16 and a half.  One time on our way out her mother and her were arguing about something before I got in the room and stopped when I was noticed.. but her month said in a low whisper to her daughter, “and if you decide not to listen and do whatever you please, just remember you are never too old for a spanking”.  Of course being a young spanko, I knew exactly what she said haha.

 

later that evening I asked my girlfriend if she was ever spanked, and unfortunately she said not since ten years old even though her mother threatens...  but fortunately the conversation allowed me to get in some nice spanking and make out session...

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Asking was never necessary.  The last spanking from my mom was at the age of 19.  It was no different than the ones as a child. Deceased now. but if alive and a spanking deemed necessary, even at age 22 I'm certain it would still be administered pants down and draped over her knee. 

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On 7/31/2019 at 11:23 PM, MottLee said:

Has anyone who was spanked by a parent as child ever asked that same parent for a spanking as an adult?  If yes, how did it go?

You do realize that spanking is classified as a sexual fetish, right?  So why would an adult ask a parent to engage in this with them?

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23 hours ago, SpudStateSpanky said:

You do realize that spanking is classified as a sexual fetish, right?  So why would an adult ask a parent to engage in this with them?

Yes yes and YES!! This is one topic that pops up around here from time to time and it just vexes me, to be honest. Why on earth would anyone ask a BLOOD RELATIVE to do something of a sexual nature with them? I don't get it. The very thought of if makes me cringe. I mean...are there not other, non relative adults that one could ask for a spanking? Shoot, have the non relative spanking partner play the part of mom/dad. But for crying out loud, to ask an actual parent for a spanking? Ummm.....NO 

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I wholeheartedly echo the viewpoint of @SpudStateSpanky and @F/m_Spanking_only. I cannot fathom why any adult would want to be spanked by a blood relative. The notion feels incestuous, as a spanking causes stimulation to the buttocks, which are most definitely an erogenous zone (ie. a part of the body that is responsive to sexual stimuli). 

I am completely cool with spanking partners playing out a mother or father role. Some folks aren't even comfortable with that, and I respect their feelings. I personally have no issue with it, since it can be quite therapeutic-- as long as you're literally playing the part because the spanker is NOT your mother or father, or other relative.

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3 minutes ago, Chawsee said:

I wholeheartedly echo the viewpoint of @SpudStateSpanky and @F/m_Spanking_only. I cannot fathom why any adult would want to be spanked by a blood relative. The notion feels incestuous, as a spanking causes stimulation to the buttocks, which are most definitely an erogenous zone (ie. a part of the body that is responsive to sexual stimuli). 

I am completely cool with spanking partners playing out a mother or father role. Some folks aren't even comfortable with that, and I respect their feelings. I personally have no issue with it, since it can be quite therapeutic-- as long as you're literally playing the part because the spanker is NOT your mother or father, or other relative.

I agree whole heartily with you ms chawsee on wanting to be spanked by a blood relative. When my wife is giving me a spanking  I call her mommy and she likes that. But it is different than being a adult and wanting to be spanked by a relative.

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I expect the people who claim they do are fantasists. Sorry, but if people are really doing this, it's pretty sick. Fantasy doesn't hurt anyone but actually doing this is pretty fucked-up. I try to be open-minded but there are limits! I would never want a blood relative to spank me.

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On 11/14/2019 at 4:06 PM, Momeezboy said:

Asking was never necessary.  The last spanking from my mom was at the age of 19.  It was no different than the ones as a child. Deceased now. but if alive and a spanking deemed necessary, even at age 22 I'm certain it would still be administered pants down and draped over her knee. 

Same here. It only stopped when i moved out. 

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Certainly my last caning at school was as an adult: 18y3m!

My father died when I was 16 but had he lived I would probably have been subject to his correction until I left school, so again into early adulthood.

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My last parental spanking was about age 13 or so. It was not uncommon for me to receive the belt on a bare backside for certain behavior. Once I entered into the high school years, I was usually given a choice of being grounded or given a bare bottom strapping on the front porch after dinner for bad behavior. If it wasn’t for the fact that it was going to be on the porch, I would have taken those spankings over being grounded for a couple of weeks at a time. 

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