What is your spanking relationship like?

[Spankz98 84]

Feel free to comment with your answer if it didn't fall into a specific category. 

[jimis 28]

I’m getting spanked Wednesday and it can’t get here fast enough.

 

[Rand E 675]

My wife and I have somewhat of a cooperative DD arrangement.  It's not that structured, or frequent.  We spank each other a lot for erotic fun.  I spank her on occasion for discipline, and she will sometimes, even less frequently, reciprocate.  We've been married over 25 years.  No spanking outside the marriage so far, and probably never.    

[Bha 217]

14 hours ago, jimis said:

I’m getting spanked Wednesday and it can’t get here fast enough.

 

Careful not to drive too fast and get a ticket ;)

[Jaded 426]

I voted , other.   My sub moved on a yr and a half ago.  I haven’t spanked anyone since.  I have not moved on.  I do feel if I met the right person, and trusted them, and they trusted me, It would help me to move on.  When I’m in these relationships, I feel that I am in my element.  It helps me in many levels as well.  hope that makes sense.  Though the ultimate goal is helping the other person with the goals they want to reach.  

[NewlyPinked 44]

Jaded, do you see your spanko partner as a sub, as in D/s, or is it more of a ER/ee or Top/bottom? I'm curious because there are a lot of different verbiage.  I think of the word "sub" as more than a spanko.

Please note, I'm asking and not judging!

[Jaded 426]

6 hours ago, NewlyPinked said:

Jaded, do you see your spanko partner as a sub, as in D/s, or is it more of a ER/ee or Top/bottom? I'm curious because there are a lot of different verbiage.  I think of the word "sub" as more than a spanko.

Please note, I'm asking and not judging!

I kind of dislike the labels, because each relationship is so unique in this lifestyle.  My last relationship in this lifestyle lasted 5 yrs.  The first year I mentored online.  She ended up moving near me, and it was still mentor/mentee.   It evolved.   It was not sexual in any way.   I think the respect and connection just became deeper. She called me her dom.   She gave her submission to me.   It was unique, and a great relationship.   

[NewlyPinked 44]

Yes, different names for different things, and I understand more that it's the names used in an individual relationship that matters.

Thanks!

[NewlyPinked 44]

Results of poll: other

Aka...nonexistent!

Haven't found anyone yet 😶

[Jaded 426]

16 minutes ago, NewlyPinked said:

Results of poll: other

Aka...nonexistent!

Haven't found anyone yet 😶

Don’t give up hope.   I figure it could take years to find the right person.  It’s not easy to find someone you’re compatible with   Good luck in your search. 

[Spankz98 84]

On 7/9/2019 at 6:27 PM, NewlyPinked said:

Results of poll: other

Aka...nonexistent!

Haven't found anyone yet 😶

I know the feeling. It has taken years for me to find my Mr. Right! Your spanker is out there, I'm sure. Never lower your standards or settle. 

[star1976 78]

To me... DOM/SUB ... because I listen to him and, do what he asks for.

[StevenSampson 135]

My wife spanks me. I wouldn’t want or accept it from anyone else. It hurts like hell but I am so glad she does it, it’s so special and meaningful to me.

[Chawsee 1951]

On 7/8/2019 at 4:20 AM, Rand E said:

My wife and I have somewhat of a cooperative DD arrangement.  It's not that structured, or frequent.  We spank each other a lot for erotic fun.  I spank her on occasion for discipline, and she will sometimes, even less frequently, reciprocate.  We've been married over 25 years.  No spanking outside the marriage so far, and probably never.    

That's a lucky break for those two gals in your family / friendship circle who could really use it! 

[Rand E 675]

8 minutes ago, Chawsee said:

That's a lucky break for those two gals in your family / friendship circle who could really use it! 

But that doesn't stop me from thinking about.   

[Geoffreaux 63]

I have yet to find someone to play with. A few offers from men, but not even remotely interested. Not a judgement, but a preference. I have met those that can’t make that distinction. That was a judgment. LOL

[ukspanko 715]

It's non-existent. I have real issues with trusting anyone in any relationship now so to be honest I don't particularly bother anymore. I repel people. Even when I'm kind I repel people. I think I must be ugly or something. 

[jelena53 93]

I was spanked in a marriage,  it worked well for us.  It was both discipline and erotic spanking at different times.   It helped the marriage last as long as it did.  

[Herstingingpalm 77]

My spanking relationship is with my wife. She does all the spanking and I am on the receiving end . My wife gives me a maintenance spanking once a week. Punishment spankings are given when I have disappointed my wife or broke a rule which was agreed upon by us consensually. I am currently getting a Punishment spanking also once a week for inconsiderate behavior from my wife. In the past when I am pleasing my wife she will role play or give me a playful spanking. Our marriage has been successful thanks to my wife discipline and her sharing my interest in spanking and love for each other.

[Oldspankee 33]

Other:  My best friend and former coworker was my only spanker for over 30 years until he moved south in 2019.  Have yet to find a new special friend.

[maelstr0m 45]

Other:    My female significant other isn't really "into it", but provides what I like often enough.  We have been together 'forever' compared to most couples.

We get along quite well 99% of the time.