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I am married and get an occasional spanking from my wife.  Those spankings are never hard enough.  I have had a few men spank me naked across their lap.  I don’t cheat on my wife; so I’m not looking for a woman to spank me.  A good spanking doesn’t start until I wish it was over.  The best spankings I have gotten are from guys.

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 I sincerely believe that a strong dominant man no doubt gives the best and most memorable discipline spankings. It's intimidating and frightening when I'm facing one... and they know it! Do these Dom types exist out there anymore? It's exactly what I need. Guys that exude that power that can make you cringe. And overcome any puny obstacles or resistance you try and put in the way. And most importantly, they must truly enjoy the incredible power they have over you. Even crave it. it's humiliating to be punished by someone like that. They are totally superior and always want to show it. (I had one once that always demanded a nice thank you by kissing their toes. Very embarrassing.) Those that truly enjoy that power is what I seek. They give the best discipline for handling bratty behavior. But I don't think they really exist out there. 

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On 2/19/2022 at 2:06 PM, shane78 said:

Hello Ammon- (I tried to send this to you but it said you couldn't receive messages)

I feel like we have spoken before but I could not find any writings to or from you in my inbox. I was just reading your "about me" and it resonated with me because I have often felt drawn to this dynamic of punishing/spanking an older male. From what you wrote, it seems that this dynamic would touch a special place in your heart. To willingly place yourself in the hands of a younger man and trust him to do exactly what needs to be done to you. The exchange of roles, where you would be humbled by the belt or paddle of this young man as he bravely administers your painful, burning spanking and teaches you a very valuable lesson. It goes to an even more vulnerable level when we know that your pants would be lowered and he would see the most private part of you, as you were anticipating his masterful punishment. 

I wish that I lived closer to you because I could see myself doing this to you. Even having the chance to meet out somewhere to have a meaningful conversation about your longing for the most humbling, embarrassing and painful spankings you could imagine. I feel like our conversation about it would electrify you and we would find a private area where your pants could be pulled down and I could spank you severely. When it was over, I believe you would thank me sincerely for doing this to you, as you've needed it so badly. 

I'm braveshane78@gmail.com if you would like to share more about this. 

-Shane

Hi, Mr. Shane,

i very much enjoyed your comments, understanding, and suggested scenarios. Your interest in this dynamic, from a Spanker's point of view, is very rare but quite welcome. Some time ago, i responded to the email address you provided, but maybe you rarely check that email. i appreciated your thoughts and reaching out that way. Thanks!

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Being spanked by another man is a fantasy I’ve only recently started to explore. I’m a straight male with no sexual interest in it, but I want a strong man to put me over his lap and give me a long, hard punishment on the bare bottom. He would make me lie over his lap while lecturing me, and then send me to the corner while he does something else. At the end, before saying goodbye, he would put me over his lap again and pat my bottom to remind me to behave and that I need to obey him

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On 5/29/2019 at 12:23 AM, jmalbone said:

yes, Ive only been spanked 2 times by guys, I think they understand the need better from male perspective and honestly adds a different element by being naked over another guys lap is very intimidating

I have never  been over the lap but have been spanked by a man.

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On 5/6/2021 at 11:26 AM, IndyBadBoy said:

I have been spanked by several men, and would like to find a straight male spanker near me in Indianapolis. While I prefer being spanked by a woman, I am married and since a spanking from a woman always has sexual overtones for me, it is better for me to get my spankings from a male.

Maybe your wife would like to observe you being spanked by a man; especially if for punishment.

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I have both spanked and been spanked by males and females.  In my experience males do spank harder which is what I like.  I am straight but there are more opportunities with other guys.  If you are like me and do this for discipline purposes it doesn’t matter what gender.  Bottoms are bottoms and are fun to spank.  When getting it guys do tend to give a more realistic punishment spanking.

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On 3/27/2019 at 5:54 AM, wanttospank said:

I am a straight male, and only spanked females for many years, but was always interested to see what it would be like to spank a male. Finally tried it and found that it worked well and have done it several times since then, I am very surprised how many men there are that want or are willing to get a spanking from another male, some seem to enjoy the father/son, uncle/nephew type spanking, some get a male/male spanking because they cannot find a female to spank them.... all of mine have been just spanking nothing sexual, so yes it does work for some. 

Well, I'm a couple years older than you but, I'm a EE (closet TV) that's looking for someone (male or female) to spank me strictly for disciplinary reasons (not involving any sex).  I can not host and hoping you can host.  With advanced planning, I could plan a trip to Indy city (I'm located about an hour northeast of Lexington, KY).  Let me know (via message) if you could deliver.

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On 11/13/2022 at 3:02 AM, Petespanked said:

Certainly easier in the UK to find a male to spank or be spanked. On most of the spanking contact websites the women are professional and charge about £150 per hour.

Needs are a strong driving force and all are wise to reflect on their nature.

Several. years ago a dear woman, who on occasion found herself across my lap for both sensual and corrective spankings ask me for a favor. The favor was to administer a sound corrective spanking to her friends husband. He was in his early forties, a accountant by profession, a father of two, and had an obsession with shoplifting. After a few requests, a date, time, and place were set.

The gentleman after a brief scolding found himself balanced across my lap looking to the floor where a few of his stolen items have been pre positioned. After verbally acknowledging why at his age he was across a lap in his under shots, the correction started. Being a disciplinary spanking, a warm up was not offered. He trembled as his shorts were lowered and he heard my voice asking his wife for the brush.

The application of an old hickory hairbrush to his bottom and thighs, triggered an emotional release of tears and eventually verbal promises to be good.

Eye contact with his bride encouraged me to direct another volley to his tender behind and to allow steady sobbing to take over.

The correction complete he was helped to his feet by his wife, who then walked him to their bedroom.

My friend, who had facilitated the event, and I left their home, locking the door upon our departure.

As a follow-up, it was shared that he had avoided further shoplifting adventures for just short of a year.

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On 6/12/2022 at 7:52 AM, CTguy4both said:

I have both spanked and been spanked by males and females.  In my experience males do spank harder which is what I like.  I am straight but there are more opportunities with other guys.  If you are like me and do this for discipline purposes it doesn’t matter what gender.  Bottoms are bottoms and are fun to spank.  When getting it guys do tend to give a more realistic punishment spanking.

I AMJUST ACCROSS THE BORDER IN WESTERN MASS...   HAPPY TO MEET AND SPANK YOU AND IF YOU WANT TURN OVER YOUR KNEE FOR SAME...I AM SANE , SERIOUS,DISCREET, EXEC TYPE...JUST NEED SPANKINGS AND FIND THEM HARD TO GET

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On 6/25/2019 at 6:17 AM, lostcountryboy said:

I am straight, married. I would never have sex with a man, but want to be spanked by one. In particular, being spanked by a gay man or friend would be a huge turn on. The humiliation of knowing he was enjoying it everytime his hand made contact with my butt. Then the command to face him and drop my jeans and underwear before he turned my backside properly red, sent me to the corner with a final smack to my rear while he enjoyed his work for a few minutes.

This honestly sounds amazing

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