Which is more embarrassing

[IMSOMEAN]

  I've been spanking young ladies for a very long time. When it's time for your undies to come down or off which is more embarrassing for you . to have to pull them down yourself while the spanker watches and waits or having them pulled down for you? It's been half and half for me .

 

 

[Rayanne Bostwick]

Doing it myself would probably kill me with the level of humiliation ^^; But for me, being spanking in general (that's not kinky) is embarrassing, and the more clothes come off, the higher the level goes.

[shygurl]

Some of us don't wear panties. My significant other always pulls my pants down or my nightgown up. It's not embarrassing for me, just adds to my level of submission.

[12HolePaddle]

I always have the girl do it. Something about watching them bare themselves for the paddle. 

And almost, like almost as much as I love the spanking itself there is something so damn.. HOT about saying those four magic words:

"Pull your pants down."

I almost can't take even typing them. That little adrenaline heart flutter. Hoo-aah!

Unfortunately I don't really notice embarrassment at that point. I mean no one ever said no....

And even if some were I am sure it was short-lived. Because very soon after the ritual removal she figures out she's got bigger fish to fry than taking off her assorted (?) bottomwear

[Rachelle Payne]

I think it’s both. If I’m told to pull my pants down it adds to the submitting but I’ll usually get my panties pulled down by the spanker. It’s kinda easier to start with me pulling down the pants and getting warmed up and then when they pull off the rest it’s like “oh shit, it’s going to get real”

[naughtyboy4Herknee]

being asked to bare my bottom does also create a deeper level of submission for me as well. the vulnerability factor for me is verrrry intense to me. 

[ohioplayer]

It is more embarrassing to be stripped or have panties pulled down than to strip or bare my butt myself.

[kaycee77025]

On ‎6‎/‎14‎/‎2018 at 3:12 PM, shygurl said:

Some of us don't wear panties. My significant other always pulls my pants down or my nightgown up. It's not embarrassing for me, just adds to my level of submission.

same and most girls and some guys do ... though the thought of a guy with out boxers  or bvds makes me a  bit squeamish

 

[mjjane930]

When he makes me ask him to pull them down...  That's the worst (or best depending on perspective)! It's sort of the best of both worlds. I have to submit through my own words which is embarrassing enough and he follows through with the act of pulling them down upon my request.

[Nelma]

On 6/15/2018 at 3:18 PM, kim09 said:

For me, definitely whenhe pulls them down. Just the fact that someone is pulling my undies down makes me embarrassing because I don’t have any control over that. 

I agree. The loss of controll is very embarasing for me. When my panties were pulled down it always rubbed in the fact that he decided that they would come down.

[AfterGeometry]

On 6/23/2018 at 2:53 PM, mjjane930 said:

When he makes me ask him to pull them down...  That's the worst (or best depending on perspective)! It's sort of the best of both worlds. I have to submit through my own words which is embarrassing enough and he follows through with the act of pulling them down upon my request.

OMG.  Yup, this right here.  This is how a Spanker should go about it.   Making her ask, having her submit through her own words...taking notes here. Lol. 

 

[mjjane930]

19 minutes ago, AfterGeometry said:

OMG.  Yup, this right here.  This is how a Spanker should go about it.   Making her ask, having her submit through her own words...taking notes here. Lol. 

 

Good on you! Some of the best Doms I've come across started out as subs to previous girlfriends who introduced them to this genre. Guess they really understood that sub-space from first-hand experience. Being a sub isn't for everyone though so it's good you're taking notes from a sub to help fine-tune your Dom skills.

[AfterGeometry]

19 minutes ago, mjjane930 said:

Good on you! Some of the best Doms I've come across started out as subs to previous girlfriends who introduced them to this genre. 

Oh, I've never been a sub...but I really like the way that Dom of yours was going about his business.  That sounds exactly like something I would do...I just need to remember to do it!  Lol.  ?

 

[Poison's]

On 6/14/2018 at 8:22 AM, IMSOMEAN said:

  I've been spanking young ladies for a very long time. When it's time for your undies to come down or off which is more embarrassing for you . to have to pull them down yourself while the spanker watches and waits or having them pulled down for you? It's been half and half for me .

 

 

Well the type of underwear I wear completely exposes my rear so there's really no need to pull them down.  I'm always told to get into position which means everything is taken off by me.  I'm not sure it would really change a thing for me if he were to take my clothes of himself.  Now if it were someone I wasn't in an intimate relationship with, that may be different.

[Kid]

I’ve been flipped over while with my pants up to start and ended up with my pants and panties pulled down all in an instant.  I’m still wondering how my Daddy manages to do all of that in one smooth rapid action.  That’s when I know I did something completely unacceptable because there are no words till later.

[liketobespanked]

Doing it myself embarassing

[SpankmeNokc]

When getting making me pull them down is more embarrassing. When giving I like to have them stand facing me when they take them down. 

[sore_karen]

For me, having to take down my own undies while he or she is seated in the spanking chair is really embarrassing.  This is especially true if I have to stand there for a while, totally exposed.

[Guiltygirl]

I don’t wear panties, but having my pants/shorts/skirt pulled down by the ER is more embarrassing to me

[Spankz98]

On 6/23/2018 at 2:53 PM, mjjane930 said:

When he makes me ask him to pull them down...  That's the worst (or best depending on perspective)! It's sort of the best of both worlds. I have to submit through my own words which is embarrassing enough and he follows through with the act of pulling them down upon my request.

My sir found this thread and I believe we've now adopted this method- me asking him to pull them down. So thanks for that ? lol! In all honesty, I think I will feel very submissive which will be good for the relationship even if I'll feel embarrassed in the moment. 

[Didi]

Having your panties pulled down. You have mo control at all. 

[Johnson]

On 6/15/2018 at 9:24 AM, Rachelle Payne said:

I think it’s both. If I’m told to pull my pants down it adds to the submitting but I’ll usually get my panties pulled down by the spanker. It’s kinda easier to start with me pulling down the pants and getting warmed up and then when they pull off the rest it’s like “oh shit, it’s going to get real”

I hated it when my mom used to pull down my panties, especially in front of my sister and/or brother.  Now I would love to have someone pull my panties down and blister my bottom.

[mayorun53]

In the infrequent event I got a bare paddling coming--it is totally deserved as my wife has put up with alot-----I always shower quick first and then bend over for a deserved paddling------It makes no difference to me to take my clothes off to shower--she is there but she has seen me undress a thousand times. Undressing is nothing but my bare butt sure hurts when i get it  and I deserve every hit!

[sunshine19830]

Me pull them down standing right next to him.  Really gets my head in the right place.

[Janey]

Having them pulled down for me definitely.