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Can you get aroused WITHOUT thinking about spanking?

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Just wondering how many people here are wired like me. I can't really get aroused without thinking about spanking. I am a spanko sexual. If my boyfriend wasn't a spanko then it wouldn't work out. Wondering how many other people here are like this?

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Same same here for me and my baby

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At one time in my life, I probably didn't need to think about spanking but these days I mostly do. The side effect of that is that even the smallest thing can make me think of it.

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It always has something to do with spanking.  :(.  I really wish it didn’t, it would make life so much easier.  

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13 minutes ago, Ineedspankedbadly said:

It always has something to do with spanking.  :(.  I really wish it didn’t, it would make life so much easier.  

But would life be as exciting? For me it wouldn't. At one time I did feel the same as you but now I would never change who I am. If you find someone who shares your interests it can make sex amazing. But I totally understand where you're coming from. I had years of frustration before I met my boyfriend.

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Is spanking the only way I can become aroused? No... but I would say that 95% of my fantasies involve spanking in one form or another.

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My situation is the same as that of CaringJoe.

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Well, it is not the only way I get aroused; but it is certainly on the top 5

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The short answer is no, it's hard to not think about spanking, but I really wish I had a switch where I could turn it on and off. I've accepted it as part of who I am, but there are times where I feel like the need consumes me and I hate that. I wish I had more control of my thought process.

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Spanking is definitely not the only trigger for me. Thinking about women I'm interested in, sometimes my diaper kink, and sometimes I just get boner why I'm not aware of the reason.

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Ok I take it back. I *can* get aroused just by thinking about men i am interested in. But I can't really climax without thinking about spanking or some sort of Dom\sub play. And I prefer to think about spanking every time because it just makes it so Much better lol. I really don't have any fantasies that don't involve spanking lol.

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Yeah. Even when it doesn't fit into the scheme of that night's (or day's) "activities" it's on my mind. 

That is, in fact, why I'm here. If you (pl) can dig it. 

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Well yes but it is the easiest way these days...

However I can't think about spanking WITHOUT getting aroused! 

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I can have sex without spanking, but why would I want to?  It's one reason my ex-wife and I are no longer together.

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I'm not a natural born spanko...it's something I've come to appreciate as I've gotten older.  So yeah, there are a whole host of things I find arousing, but adding spanking to the mix has definitely brought a new dimension to it all.  

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Aroused? Absolutely. Orgasm is a different story. Very rarely can I orgasm without thinking of spanking.

 

 

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Pretty much the same for me. And vice versa. Thinking about spanking a woman is nearly always an arousal trigger, but it also creates a head space unique unto itself. 

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I am the same Rose. Feel a bit abnormal but oh Well!

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I can get turned on by other things than spanking but spanking is my most recurrent fantasy.

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I fantasize about being spanked to get aroused.  When I watch spanking porn, I get so wet it is ridiculous. I wish to be spanked a few times a week. 

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Ummmm...in a word...”no”! LOL! 

It always seems to come to mind...

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Before 30, I would get wood for no reason. 

From 30 to 60, spanking might be involved, but it was not required.

Post 60, Spanking is the great enabler.

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This is interesting. I never was thinking of spanking until my boyfriend introduced it a few months ago. He likes discipline spanking so he doesn't spank me in a directly sexual way, but yet it seems these spankings always lead to something very strong not necessarily immediately aftrwards but by the time the evening is over. I don't fantasize about it the act itself, but I do enjoy more than a little bit how I have 110% of his attention once spanking is on his mind

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I'm squarely in the camp of those whose sexuality is so closely aligned to spanking that arousal is rarely possible without either spanking play, or something spanking-related going on inside my head.

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