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On 12/3/2018 at 11:37 AM, dmirk said:

I'm different on that.  I'm not into progressive spankings.  No objection, it's just not my style.

My thought is if the bottom is going to be bare anyway, I bare it from the get-go.  I lower them.  I think in general, it's more embarrassing for the ee to have it that way...

Since my wife only gives me punishment spankings, she always uses the most effective paddle available on my bare bottom from beginning to end. It often seems like she can't wait to get me really sore and struggling, and when asked to use the hairbrush instead of the big paddle she says “Why should I have to work harder?”

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I'm sorry to hear that happened to you. Verbal humiliation is not the same as physical humiliation.  Plus, how can a butt look stupid sticking up in the air, begging to be spanked? To Me, that's

When I'm spanked, I love it when my panties are s-l-o-w-l-y pulled down and dragged down my legs. The teasing, with me protesting, is a big turn on. 

Depends on the EE. I would certainly say that some "undressing" should probably be part of the ritual. Clearing out pockets, removing shoes, bracelets, necklaces--makes the EE feel more vulnerable, ev

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Mine are always pulled down by my 'er after being spanked a while.  It hurts butt I know that bare bottom will be 'light years' more intense.  The apprehension readies my psyche as my shorts paddling readies my bottom for a good spanking.  

When I am the 'er I try to judge what will benefit my 'ee's acceptance and submission the best:  they take them down or off or I do.  After applying some lotion I pull 'em up with a 'thank you from them / you're welcome from me] and a hug after my 'ee gets dressed.

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I don''t have a definite answer.   My panties are usually taken off by me.  But often the spanker pulls them way down or completely off.  The mild embarrassment/humiliation of being bare or naked, whether done by me or by spanker, adds to the punishment.   Depends somewhat on the mood as well as the magnitude of the of the offense being  punished for. 

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Underwear is always removed by me as an EE.  I am required to strip from the waist down. As an ER, they are always required to strip from the waist down. 

In both cases. It helps the person being disciplined to "own" and participate .

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1 hour ago, geeky_child said:

I bare my own butt before a spanking.  It helps me feel submissive, and it seems only fair that I participate in my punishment.

If I was forced to take them down... I don't think I would and would wear an iron pair of underpants. :P

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As a spanker it is up to you to provide the spanking the best suits the needs of your spankee. So between dialog and action you should have a good idea what your spankee needs. Now while I believe spanking bare bottom is under most circumstances to be expected. A spanker should always have clear communication before hand that this what is intended. Because some people don't want it and are very uncomfortable with it. Either way your bottom is getting spanked soundly whether you have panties on or not. 

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I’d say both. I hate when he takes my panties down cause I know it’s coming soon but also preparation for him to have nothing in his way of scorching my backside 

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Last time I received corporal punishment I was 14, I had just gotten done golfing with my mom and we got into an argument about something senseless and as it escalated I told her to stop screaming and bitching and being such a fucking cry baby and she replied "you're the one whose gonna be screaming and crying like a baby after we get home and soap that mouth out, then March you into my room, take your pants down, and getting the belt, but if your crying sounds exaggerated to me you're mouth is going to get scrubbed every morning and evening! 

She did violently scrub every inch of my mouth to with that ivory then bent me over and took the belt out of the closet and strapped me for what seemend like forever. It was the only time I ever cried that hard from a spanking..... 

I wish I had asked for more punishments like that..... 

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When I was spanked I didn’t always get it bare, sometimes just over underware so I usually pulled my pants down because I knew I had to do that. Once I bent over then she could decide if it was bare or not and she would just pull them down. Occasionally if I was wearing shorts with an elastic waistband I would just let her pull them down too. 

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Hi. When I was a child and got spanked by my father, I had to pull down my bottom pajamas before I got spanked.

Now that I am an adult, an older one, for me, myself, and I, I prefer to be bare, as I enjoy the sensuousness of the spanking, as well as the punishment.

As for when I am the top, I prefer what I call the 1-2-3 approach: on the jeans, on the briefs, and then on the bare, of the boy I am spanking. Naturally, I get upset when I pull down a boy's [i.e., a person way over 18 years old; thought I would add this] jeans, and see that he is wearing a jock strap. I feel cheated as I do not have a second layer to feel and be aware of.  Thanks for this topic.

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I find having my underwear lowered to be highly erotic.  Especially when I am over his knee.  The dom knows what he is doing.  When the underwear comes down, and my genitals push against his pants...I know I am completely under his control.

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Much like holding position. I think the ee should be required to do it and that it is part of the punishment. I like the spanking over jeans first, then the order either to face the dom and drop my jeans and briefs or an order simply to bear my behind from the rear. Either way, they should stay around my ankles, and I say "yes sir" at the end as I scamper with them to the corner when he gives the order with a final harsh swat on my butt.

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It can work equally well both ways, and I think everyone is going to have their own preference. There is definitely embarrassment, some degree of humiliation, and a huge amount of vulnerability involved whether the spankee is instructed to pull their underpants down, or if the spanker chooses to take that responsibility and do it for them. 

To me, if the spankee is on board with moderate embarrassment and humiliation as a result of their own actions, then requiring them to pull their own underpants down is a valid part of preparation.  However, if both people agree with it or the spankee is reluctant, then it's also totally appropriate for the spanker to pull them down at the start of the spanking, or partway through it if they prefer to start out by spanking over underpants.

For a spankee who chooses to be completely submissive to the dominance of their spanker, then the spanker gets to make the decision who is going to be pulling the underpants down and when that is going to take place.

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Having my underpants pulled down is part of the trill for me. they are the last item to be removed ,since  I am always naked for my spanking. When I spank, I always insist on removing the spankee,s underwear myself, just to let them know who,s in charge.

They should also be facing me hiding nothing, this helps them to know their place, male or female.

Then ,it,s just over the block, and get on with it.

This may be a hang-over from my first spanking, which was carried out like that.

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For me it is definitely part of the punishment, whether I take pants down or have them taken down. It's best with eye contact in my experience. The feeling of exposure (especially if there a a slight draught in the room) is thrilling. I agree that having them taken down signals submission.

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I am corrected by another heterosexual male. I think we would both see the lowering of shorts and underwear as preparation. 

When the time comes for the cane to be administered, I do it myself in such a way that 'nothing is on view' and immediately bend over the back of a chair while my mentor  (rather ominously) puts some 'whippiness' into the cane to increase the efficacy of each stroke. 

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I'm almost always made to keep them on-I tend to get excited and naked/bare doesn't bother me. The ritual of being dressed is embarrassing as hell and of course it's meant to make you look like an irl anime girl or-well you know. An adult woman in a schoolgirl uniform IS hot unless it's you-and even then...

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On 11/21/2017 at 11:28 AM, MsLydiaLamour said:

Lowering undies is a bit of both. Preparation and punishment. 

Some may see it as humiliating. I see it as making the EE vulnerable, preparing them for the proper mindset before the spanking begins. It can also be punishing, taking the spanking to the next level. Bare bottom is different than over the bottoms. This informs the EE that the spanking is not over and will be preceding. 

Everyone is different in how they view things. Communication is always key prior to when the spanking begins. 

Miss Lydia LaMour 

Totally Agree

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