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Not wrong at all.  You should try it.  While I'm 95% dominant and never switch (I think it messes up the dynamic) I've been spanked by dominant females on more than one occasion.  A woman who knows what she is doing and believes spankings are supposed to hurt can do magic.  Good, hard spankings are good for the soul.  You should get yourself one today.

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1 hour ago, MsLydiaLamour said:



There is nothing wrong with you to wonder, as MANY MANY wish and seek to be spanked by a Dominant, strict, but caring Woman. 

And most of those that want/like it, eventually get it done. ;)


Miss Lydia LaMour

Thanks! Hope to make it happen. May I message you?

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On 2017-10-26 at 1:02 PM, redHot said:

I have always wondered how it would be to get spanked by a dominant female. Am I wrong to wonder?

Wondering isn't unheard of, it's a normal desire in men who know they are out of control, and need a new way to correct their behavior. I can tell you first hand, it hurts very badly. If done by a woman who knows how to administer a thorough spanking with say  a hairbrush, will leave your ass throbbing and in pain. My wife delivered my first real adult spanking last Sunday night, and believe me it was not sexual or exciting, it was just very painful. I had suggested a disciplinary wife arrangement, due to our relationship crumbling in the last six months. Mostly my fault, and in texting in anger, called her the "C " word several  times. I was very disrespectful and to top things off it was our fortieth wedding anniversary this past July. We were very close to divorcing, and I didn't want that to happen at our ages. We have used spanking for erotic adventures in the bedroom, both sharing the spanker role, and both feeling the sting of having their bottoms warmed up, although, no where close to the severity I experienced on Sunday. I got sixty with her wood hairbrush, it's a rectangular shape about three inches wide, and five inches long, then the handle. It's a hardwood and although she'd used it on me in play, and I thought I knew how much it would sting, I was sorofully wrong. She raised her arm high and followed thru crushing the solid wood into my checks as hard as she could. This had an immediate effect of burning my flesh and getting me vocalizing right from the first swat. I was twisting my hips trying to avoid that wicked piece of wood to no avail, she simply grabbed my right hip firmly, and broth the brush down even harder. I was trembling from the pain and although I didn't actually cry my eyes were filled with tears. After the sixty with her brush, she grabbed a ladys tawse I had bought her recently. It's about A foot long an inch and a quarter wide and 3/8" thick. The business end offs hardened leather and although it doesn't look like a vicious instrument, I can attest, it hurts like hell, especially on a bruised punished bottom. I got twenty with this little mean strap, making my jump and beg for mercy. We agreed if I tried getting leniency, I would get six cane strokes well laid on. My Lady missed my begging or ignored it due to the condition of my ass I suspect. But she did apply a week earned six strokes after I was kneeling on the chair she'd been stirring on. When it was all over, I really questioned myself for suggesting this treatment to help mend our marriage, and improve my behavior, my disrespect and bad habits. Three days later I was figged, then caned twenty very firm strokes. My ass was still bruised from the spanking a few days prior, so it renewed the pain from that spanking as well. It was my first figging, and  that's a an entire punishment in itself. She only have me six cane strokes to start, abd had no intention of delivering more. As the ginger started getting to it maximum heat in my anus, I asked her to cane me more to distract the feeling of the ginger. Ask she said was really? Then laid on fourteen of the hardest cane lashes she's ever administered on my buttocks, switching sides half way thru. I was trembling from the assault on my person, the incessant ginger still causing my ass to twitch and cause mmy rectum to convulse, and burn. She'd wanted it inside me twenty minutes, and that's exactly how long it stayed in. It takes the first three to five minutes before you start to feel anything. Then it's a steady climb on the heat meter until about twenty minutes, then it's supposed to fall off after that. It was still burning when she pulled the root out. Again it wasn't pleasurable at all. I did leak milk out of my penis and she thought I was enjoying the ginger! I told her no, I didn't know what else it would do to me. It can cause leakage due to being in anal canal, just like a butt plug. The heat starts off reasonably easy to endure, but at about six or seven minutes, the heat becomes the only thing in your world, and your mind is drawn to focus on the building fire in your ass. 

Anyway hopefully this description helps you decide if you really want to trek down the submissive, punished husband road. My wife wasn't sure if this would readily work to help fix our situation, but in the last six days, she sees the changes in my attitude and behavior already. She's become a true believer in the benefits of disciplining me. She has stated she should have started this thirty years ago, but now it's going to be a new life we live. Weekly discipline night is now Wednesdays, no matter if I've been good or not, it will be at least a maintainance spanking. I don't know what that will entail as yet, but she had said it will be painful, as this is punishment! The first spanking when it was over, she proclaimed, it hadn't purged her hurt feelings from my vicious texts to her in the past. She stated ten sessions should be about right to completely ensure I am properly punished for those misdeeds. So I have nine more sessions of that severe level of punishment to look forward to.


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It has been a little better than 14 months ago I went to a Female Professional Disciplinarian. I spoke to her for nearly three years. Finally, I decided to make the appointment. She had everything ready for my arrival. Unfortunately, my directions made me an hour late. When I arrived and she opened the door and asked me to come in. I was scolded and given two choices. She mentioned the soap was ready and more. Then she said It's to late now - She suggest we go downstairs and let me give you a good spanking. We did and she did exactly what she said she was going to do. It was an experience, besides being late, the only other mistake I made was waiting so long. If it gives you pleasure go for it.

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Nothing is wrong with wondering.

Nothing is wrong with exploring.

Nothing is wrong with giving yourself the freedom to choose.

Nothing is wrong with adapting as you learn more about what makes sense for you.

Nothing is wrong with enjoying your journey, because it is as unique as you are.


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On 10/28/2017 at 8:13 AM, redHot said:

Thanks everyone. There's a woman at my gym that wants to. Thinking about letting her.


HOw did you ever find out without asking her.  Are you sure?  Does she have references?  Ee's who can for her safe, and sane spankings?

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I’ve had the fantastic of being paddled hard by a woman since childhood and got the real thing starting in my 20’s.

She paddled me hard over her knee with a hair brush... came close to bleeding... no warmup.... I was like damn, this is what I like....but for days I had such a euphoric feeling... I guess the endorphins releached.

I’am a switch... know how to give a good spanking... this is a plus... always thought receiving paddling helps you understand what they are feeling.

But it is hard to find female spankers that are really into it... I think.

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There are not enough women spankers to go around.  A few of us are lucky.  : )  Are there any websites that promote female spankers?  I am sure there are many which promote female dominance.  I, for one, prefer relationships with equality between women and men.  With regard to spanking, both spouses should be willing to satisfy the needs of the other in one way or another.

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Yes its hard to find female spankers. I'm married to a vanilla so I have visited a few professional spankers.

Lady's Wicked Playground Lehigh County Pa



and MissLisa ( She is now on her own in Philadelphia Pa  She gave the harder bare bottom spankings.)

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