Newby_Girl Posted August 1, 2017 Share Posted August 1, 2017 My days of waiting for a session are getting to me. Every day brings new "what can I do" thoughts that I quickly brush off as to not get into unnecessary trouble. I feel silly and juvenile with these thoughts but it's consuming! It's been....over a month since my last I think or so it feels and I still have to wait a whole week or two more to see my spanker! I'm twitchy and fiesty and irritable lol 2 Link to comment
spankedgirl Posted August 1, 2017 Share Posted August 1, 2017 39 minutes ago, Newby_Girl said: My days of waiting for a session are getting to me. Every day brings new "what can I do" thoughts that I quickly brush off as to not get into unnecessary trouble. I feel silly and juvenile with these thoughts but it's consuming! It's been....over a month since my last I think or so it feels and I still have to wait a whole week or two more to see my spanker! I'm twitchy and fiesty and irritable lol Have you tried any self spanking?, that may help for a while until you see him. Link to comment
Newby_Girl Posted August 1, 2017 Author Share Posted August 1, 2017 5 minutes ago, spankedgirl said: Have you tried any self spanking?, that may help for a while until you see him. Nah, that's not really my thing...plus I'm on vacation with kids around and a very open beach house that echoes like crazy lol 1 Link to comment
spankedgirl Posted August 1, 2017 Share Posted August 1, 2017 Hehe.. That might be a little tough then, but plastic hangers tend to work pretty good, when you need a quiet spanking. Lol Link to comment
AssuredlyAbsent Posted August 1, 2017 Share Posted August 1, 2017 Walk down to the beach with a paddle and a sign that says "spank me please". I'm positive someone will help you out. On a more serious note, being antsy for a spanking is terrible, I've been there. I hope your time passes quickly. 2 Link to comment
Guest Posted August 1, 2017 Share Posted August 1, 2017 Patience is important for sure. I know it is easier said than done, but still, patience is the only hope. Link to comment
sweetpea Posted August 1, 2017 Share Posted August 1, 2017 I very much understand and appreciate having to wait between sessions my Top and I are often on different schedules. Patience is a must! I know it can be hard but it is well worth the wait. 1 Link to comment
Spanknutt Posted August 2, 2017 Share Posted August 2, 2017 Perhaps you could talk to your spanker about finding a surrogate for times when he/she is unavailable? Link to comment
Newby_Girl Posted August 3, 2017 Author Share Posted August 3, 2017 Thanks everyone, I'm going home tomorrow and then he's out of town so I'm pulling my hair out! I'll have to pass on the surrogate thing since it took me over a year to find someone I trusted and was a good fit. I'll just have to wait it out. I think Wednesday of next week will be the day. Fingers crossed! Link to comment
Poison's Posted August 3, 2017 Share Posted August 3, 2017 Waiting has got to be the worst! We have four kids, so things have to be put off quite often. Hope you get your release soon! 3 Link to comment
INeedDiscipline Posted August 5, 2017 Share Posted August 5, 2017 On 8/3/2017 at 0:45 PM, Poison's said: Waiting has got to be the worst! We have four kids, so things have to be put off quite often. Hope you get your release soon! I'm so glad you wrote this! I have three kids (but no man at present), so this post gives me hope that the DD lifestyle can actually be successfully lived even when there are kids in the house. With extreme caution and discretion, of course. 1 Link to comment
Poison's Posted August 5, 2017 Share Posted August 5, 2017 31 minutes ago, INeedDiscipline said: I'm so glad you wrote this! I have three kids (but no man at present), so this post gives me hope that the DD lifestyle can actually be successfully lived even when there are kids in the house. With extreme caution and discretion, of course. Oh most definitely! It took us a bit to get it all figured out. Sometimes it still has to be put off for a day or two but we make it work. Link to comment
Newby_Girl Posted August 5, 2017 Author Share Posted August 5, 2017 2 hours ago, INeedDiscipline said: I'm so glad you wrote this! I have three kids (but no man at present), so this post gives me hope that the DD lifestyle can actually be successfully lived even when there are kids in the house. With extreme caution and discretion, of course. I also have 4 kids. The sound bit is tricky, especially with our older kids who are super nosy but we would go to a far opposite corner which is our bedroom, in the closet and have music playing in the bedroom or wait until they're definitely asleep or at sleepovers. Having this in a relationship is amazing! It brought my husband and me closer in our marriage. Unfortunately, he couldn't follow through and I had to go get an outside disciplinarian but it was great while it lasted. If I ever divorce (crossing fingers cuz I'm miserable) I hope to find a man I can have this with...makes for a great relationship! Link to comment
shygurl Posted August 6, 2017 Share Posted August 6, 2017 On 8/4/2017 at 5:57 PM, INeedDiscipline said: I'm so glad you wrote this! I have three kids (but no man at present), so this post gives me hope that the DD lifestyle can actually be successfully lived even when there are kids in the house. With extreme caution and discretion, of course. It's very doable. I did it until my kids were in their late teens and then I explained my lifestyle to them. They had heard a couple of things by then and were curious. They are very aware of the lifestyle I live. As P said, it takes a bit to figure out, but you can get into a routine or make special times for it. To Newby Girl...Waiting is very tough. I've been there before. Just make sure you handle it correctly. Don't go out and do something stupid, etc to get into more trouble. That tends to annoy spankers and lend a juvenile side to all of this. Think of your upcoming session. What is the reason for it? What can you talk about? Do you need his help or advice for anything? What can you do in the future to make things better? Try for something positive while you're waiting. Link to comment
luvin71 Posted August 11, 2017 Share Posted August 11, 2017 Indiana sucks as a vacation spot, but there's a spanking waiting for you here Newby 1 Link to comment
Newby_Girl Posted August 19, 2017 Author Share Posted August 19, 2017 On 8/10/2017 at 5:51 PM, luvin71 said: Indiana sucks as a vacation spot, but there's a spanking waiting for you here Newby Just saw this haha if I ever head that way Link to comment
luvin71 Posted August 19, 2017 Share Posted August 19, 2017 LOL, you have a standing invitation and I won't make you draw any circles Link to comment
HeartnBottomWarmer Posted September 28, 2017 Share Posted September 28, 2017 On 8/1/2017 at 10:24 AM, Newby_Girl said: My days of waiting for a session are getting to me. Every day brings new "what can I do" thoughts that I quickly brush off as to not get into unnecessary trouble. I feel silly and juvenile with these thoughts but it's consuming! It's been....over a month since my last I think or so it feels and I still have to wait a whole week or two more to see my spanker! I'm twitchy and fiesty and irritable lol I understand newby. Few people know how 'ees can crave getting a hard spanking. It's a conundrum! Who would think? This is too long newby. You need to find another disciplinarian. Or you will go crazy. Girls need regular structure. Not just the occasional or random spanking. Link to comment
Dominator994 Posted July 29, 2022 Share Posted July 29, 2022 I can help you please contact me as soon as. Link to comment
Dominator994 Posted August 5, 2022 Share Posted August 5, 2022 If you need a good spanking please contact me as soon as possible i am available and have experience in this matter. Link to comment
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