Spanking and anal play

[blushytushy]

Spanking and anal play generally go hand in hand for me.

[IndySpanko]

I have given and received ginger root and consider it a great enhancement to a spanking. If you want her to wiggle her butt on your lap, ginger is the thing! 

[Pansonian]

Yes, I like to gently trace my finger between a ladies cheeks when she is over my knees with her panties down.  The light touch on her tight little rose bud helps heighten her attention and emphasize her submissive position.  As the spanking proceedes I like to slip a finger tip inside her anus to enhance her experience. 

[Megthe]

On 5/1/2021 at 8:47 PM, IndySpanko said:

I have given and received ginger root and consider it a great enhancement to a spanking. If you want her to wiggle her butt on your lap, ginger is the thing! 

We just did ginger the first time a few weeks ago.  Wowzers it was fantastic and I highly recommend it!

[Jeffd]

On 11/11/2014 at 10:50 AM, Mary123456 said:

When I have a surrogate Mother friend spanking me she will inspect the anal area during the spanking across her knee. I am vulnerable yet submissive and present my bottom in the best way for my Surrogate Mum to inspect and spank me. I want to cry like a child. I am then complete.

I enjoy spreading too and having my anus inspected, I've also experienced a figging, memorable.

[TidyWhitey]

I don't mind somebody inspecting my butthole, and temp checks but I don't want anything in my tight lil hole.

[Spankenstein]

Once again, I wish to thank all participants for their comment on the "post that refuses to die..." It is very cool to have contributed something that so many relate to. Keep it up. I am sure many others are enjoying the continued comments as well. Obviously as a group we really like buttholes!

[nicoleS39]

If by anal play, you mean anal sex...that is my husband taking me in my anus...yes...my husband does choose to take me in that way at his pleasure...like with my other two holes...lol. But, for us, anal sex or any sex is pretty much kept separate in timing from my disciplinary spankings. Very recently, Husband has introduced a metal anus plug into our sexual intimacy, but not really as a punishment or discipline. For us, sex is not punishment, but pure passionate sexual intimacy to be mutually enjoyed together, whereas my discipline is enjoyed in a strange way separately in terms of need fulfillment...mine being the need for submission to discipline and appropriate pain with that, and Husband the need to discipline and punish me.  So...classic spanker and spankee with us.  But in sex intimacy, we still have a dominant (him) submissive (me) relationship, but enjoy that together more...as sexual intimacy is about deep connection between us.  The only time sexual intimacy and pure discipline kind of crosses over forvus is when inexperience the occasional out of nowhere orgasm while being spanked...and thus far that has only happened with what I feel are the more intimate but very intense and hard OTK hand spankings on my bare butt.

[nicoleS39]

I do agree... though...I think anal play (sex) or butt plugs to foster the dominance of one partner over the submission of the other...but as I say...I am very new to these butt plug things...lol...Husband just surprised me with that a couple of mornings ago....wow.

[hungsmall]

10 minutes ago, nicoleS39 said:

I think anal play (sex) or butt plugs to foster the dominance of one partner over the submission of the other

i’m plugged 24/7 except for necessity, definitely as an assertion of dominance by my Husband to be a constant reminder of my submissive role.

[hungsmall]

10 minutes ago, nicoleS39 said:

I think anal play (sex) or butt plugs to foster the dominance of one partner over the submission of the other

i’m plugged 24/7 except for necessity, definitely as an assertion of dominance by my Husband to be a constant reminder of my submissive role.

[nicoleS39]

8 hours ago, hungsmall said:

i’m plugged 24/7 except for necessity, definitely as an assertion of dominance by my Husband to be a constant reminder of my submissive role.

Oh my...wearing one of those 24/7 is just something I can even imagine right now. Please do not give my husband any such miscievous ideas for me!....lol

[Longtimespanking]

10 hours ago, nicoleS39 said:

Oh my...wearing one of those 24/7 is just something I can even imagine right now. Please do not give my husband any such miscievous ideas for me!....lol

If he did, since you have clearly stated that you want to be totally submissive to him in all things, you would therefore need to comply with his instructions and not question the reason behind them. 

There is quite a bit of overlap between the BDSM realm and the spanking realm when it comes to training the submissive partner in a relationship or making them aware of their submissive status as part of punishment.  Requiring someone to wear an intrusive and sometimes very uncomfortable device in their rectum is one of the things found in both realms.  The actual device and size of it can vary, two of the more common such intruders are butt plugs of many sizes ranging from the thickness of one's thumb all the way up to a couple of inches thick and 6" or more long, and stainless steel anal hooks which are tied off to a strap around the person's waist, or to a training collar around their neck to keep tension on the hook and assure it stays deeply buried in the position of discomfort. 

These devices are nearly always inserted into their rectum by the dominant partner, and may be required to be left in place only during the spanking or punishment session, or for a stated number of hours such as 4, 6, or 8 hours afterwards.  Some submissives are required to wear an intrusive rectal device 24-7 and it may only be allowed to be removed during showering or when making a bowel movement. 

[nicoleS39]

On 10/9/2021 at 3:36 PM, hungsmall said:

i’m plugged 24/7 except for necessity, definitely as an assertion of dominance by my Husband to be a constant reminder of my submissive role.

24/7....wow.  I cannot imagine. Is that actually healthy? Not judging....just wondering.

 

[nicoleS39]

On 10/10/2021 at 10:26 AM, Longtimespanking said:

If he did, since you have clearly stated that you want to be totally submissive to him in all things, you would therefore need to comply with his instructions and not question the reason behind them. 

There is quite a bit of overlap between the BDSM realm and the spanking realm when it comes to training the submissive partner in a relationship or making them aware of their submissive status as part of punishment.  Requiring someone to wear an intrusive and sometimes very uncomfortable device in their rectum is one of the things found in both realms.  The actual device and size of it can vary, two of the more common such intruders are butt plugs of many sizes ranging from the thickness of one's thumb all the way up to a couple of inches thick and 6" or more long, and stainless steel anal hooks which are tied off to a strap around the person's waist, or to a training collar around their neck to keep tension on the hook and assure it stays deeply buried in the position of discomfort. 

These devices are nearly always inserted into their rectum by the dominant partner, and may be required to be left in place only during the spanking or punishment session, or for a stated number of hours such as 4, 6, or 8 hours afterwards.  Some submissives are required to wear an intrusive rectal device 24-7 and it may only be allowed to be removed during showering or when making a bowel movement. 

Yes...I would "try" my best if told by Husband to be plugged like this. But...I sincerely hope he does not demand that of me for very prolonged periods....and I trust him to be aware of any health issues which might be there...if such is the case.

[hungsmall]

13 hours ago, nicoleS39 said:

24/7....wow.  I cannot imagine. Is that actually healthy? Not judging....just wondering.

 

Hello, thanks for the question, @nicoleS39. i do not experience any health problems attributable to extended wear. But each person is unique. And i didn’t start at 24/7, but rather shorter periods and worked my way up to full time.

[hungsmall]

13 hours ago, nicoleS39 said:

24/7....wow.  I cannot imagine. Is that actually healthy? Not judging....just wondering.

 

Hello, thanks for the question, @nicoleS39. i do not experience any health problems attributable to extended wear. But each person is unique. And i didn’t start at 24/7, but rather shorter periods and worked my way up to full time.

[CanadianGal]

Yes I love it when my husband after my spanking over his knee lightly plays with my ass and slips a finger in as I bring on his lap - gets me sooo wet!!

[DiscreetSpanko8]

I read a discussion fairly recently about the ginger issue (inconsistency in terms of "heat", potency based on time picked, etc.) And someone suggested buying powdered ginger and mixing to a paste, stating that it was highly effective and across the board more consistent than fresh ginger. Several others agreed with this. I can't for the life of me remember which site, I'm on pretty much all of them. If it was this one then just chalk it up to me being scatterbrained. Anyway, wondered if anyone here had tried powdered before?

[Jimhhh]

On 10/28/2019 at 12:42 PM, Spankee51 said:

Have any guys been spanked while wearing a prostate massager (basically a vibrating butt plug)?  There are some devices that vibrate in cycles.  One cycle begins slow and soft.  The vibrations gradually increase in speed and force before stopping and repeating the cycle, which lasts about 15 seconds.  The feeling is amazing and on the right day can result in an incredible, hands-free p-spot orgasm.  
 
It would be interesting to experience the plug while restrained and spanked.  Perhaps a stroke delivered at the end of each cycle... pleasure followed by pain. Thoughts?

Sounds great!!

[bbnotkspnkng]

Yes, I think anal play makes the spanking a lot more fun.  After getting a good long hard over the knee spanking, I like to stand next to my disciplinarian and have him spread my cheeks and spank my anus.  

[Jeffd]

On 7/23/2021 at 7:02 PM, Pansonian said:

Yes, I like to gently trace my finger between a ladies cheeks when she is over my knees with her panties down.  The light touch on her tight little rose bud helps heighten her attention and emphasize her submissive position.  As the spanking proceedes I like to slip a finger tip inside her anus to enhance her experience. 

I like to enjoy the same off my spanker

[Dominator994]

On 12/11/2017 at 12:26 AM, alissaK said:

Spanking and anal play seem to go together naturally. Plugs, ginger root, enemas, fingers... all fun additions to a sore bottom.

I agree 

[MarinaX]

I already mentioned that for me spanking is a part of sexual experience... and I do love anal play in combination with spanking. Sometimes it ends with anal sex, but for most of the time it is about inserting anal toys (not too big though) and I absolutely love ginger. The combination of the sensation of something being inserted in my anus with the embarassement and submission is a one of the greatest turn on, and the feel of the belt - or his hand on my bottom + stinging of the ginger inside me is... ❤️ 

[plugnplay]

never knew ginger could be used like that, i think ill have to try it. i love having a plug in my ass while being spanked, the way it jiggles with my cheeks and fills me up. ugh i need s spanking