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  1. Personally, I have people that I discipline keep a journal of there goals and behaviors, and at a determined interval we meet and discuss their performance, and if they do poorly I spank them. How do you all enforce accountability and make sure that your discipline charges are benefitting from your involvement?
  2. Greetings boys & girls Have you been lacking discipline? Do you have bad habits (smoking, cursing, rudenes) you need to break? Harboring guilt or shame for past offenses? Lacking motivation (work, school, weight loss)? I am an experienced FEMALE Disciplinarian located in the north east. I offer my disciplinary services to naughty young men and women in Vermont, New Hampshire, Massachusettes, New York, Maine & Rhode Island. I have been involved in discipline most of my adult life and several years ago, about 6yrs to be exact, I opted to begin offering disciplinary services after several friends of mine in the lifestyle commented that true female disciplinarians are difficult to find. I am in my mid 30s and a college-educated professional with a family, so discretion is as important for me as I am sure it is for you. I am safe, sane and very strict. I have several references of naughty men & women I have disciplined over the years. This is not only a secondary career for me but a passion. I have been on both ends of discipline spanking and know very well the benefits of having tangible consequences and being held accountable to someone else who truly cares. I do NOT offer anything sexual in my sessions, so please do not bother asking me for it. What I DO offer is discipline.....plain and simple.....strictly discipline. Very REAL bare bottom spankings, paddlings, strappings. I maintain regular email contact with my mentees and insist on regular reports of their behaviors. I scold thoroughly both in session and via phone when it is warranted before a session is possible. I insist my mentees truly look to better themselves with my help, guidance & loving support. We will discuss your goals and set firm boundaries and initiate steps you will take to acheive those goals. I am ever-watchful of your progress and always there to encourage your sucesses and punish for your failures or slip-ups. In session you can expect to stand before me on shaky legs as you tell me what you are about to be punished for. We will discuss what you did wrong and how you will move past it to suceed after you've been taken to task for your error in judgement. I do NOT tolerate game playing or dishonesty.....either of those things tells me you do not take me seriously and I have dismissed boys/girls from my mentorship for repeated offenses in those areas. You must be honest with me if I am to help you. You can not change what you do not acknowledge. After a thorough scolding and lecture, you will be very soundly spanked over my knee with both my hand and solid hairbrush before being bent over a chair, bed, couch for a good whipping with my belt or one of my several straps. I also use corner time, writing lines, essays, mouth soaping, etc for additional punishments when it is called for. After you have been punished you will be cared for as well......given a hug, forgiveness expressed, a good long talk to assure the discipline was effective and reaffirm goals for future behavior. I take great pride in what I do and have mastered the fine art of true discipline over the years. I maintain relationships with those I mentor and enjoy helping other people progress in their life. I offer my disciplinary services to BOTH men and women. Again, NOTHING SEXUAL is allowed. HONESTY is paramount. You will be safe, you will feel genuinely cared for and you will receive the discipline and accountability you need. When contacting me make sure to tell me what it is you seek this discipline for.....working to make a change, break a bad habit, pay for a past transgression for which you feel guilt, assistance in accountability so you can improve your behavior and relationships, etc. Also tell me about your experiences in this area of your life. Have you been spanked before? Is discipline a motivating factor for you in life? Let me know where you are located. I do travel some throughout New England and can also arrange sessions if you travel to me. My fees are extremely reasonable and far from the outrageous rates required from professional Dommes in the city. The fee I require simply helps to cover the cost of my travel, time, implements, etc. I have at times and will consider one time experiences with someone who simply needs to feel they have been punished for a past transgression......however, I prefer to enter into on-going mentor/mentee relationships with my boys & girls so I can work with them and see the improvement true discipline makes in their lives. I am not a leather-wearing dominatrix, so please do not contact me if that is what you seek. I am probably best described as a domestic disciplinarian. Similar to a mother, an aunt, etc. A very real, down to earth woman who is easy to talk to and truly cares about helping those under my watchful supervision. In session, I am just as caring but very very strict and firm in the way I correct you. I have a collectiion of several implements that I will utilize to teach you the lesson you need. I will respect any limits mentioned beforehand but rest assured, you WILL be a VERY sorry young man/woman when I am finished spanking your naughty bottom. You will be sore and your properly punished bottom will serve as a tender reminder of the spanking you received for several days. If this type of relationship with a mature, responsible, caring female disciplinarian appeals to you and you are interested in setting up a session, please contact me at: missdiscipline7@yahoo.com I look forward to hearing from you soon.
  3. Hello! I’m from Massachusetts. I’m 32, f, in real years, plus size, pretty. Really in need of a relationship where discipline is a focus. Would love to chat with some Daddies! (Though I’m not exclusively straight, so whomever). Can’t wait to talk.
  4. Hi there, I am a spanker and disciplinarian in the District offering my services as a spanker. Currently I am requiring masks and using implements such as a yard stick, paddle, cane, switch,, and belt to avoid putting naughty spankees over my knee. I would like to establish a spanking pod partner as a way to play safely. Please contact me if this interests you or you have any questions.
  5. Hello! I am a 18 year old male. I am looking for a disciplinarian / mentor or a mutual friend who can guide me or micromange me. This is because my family does not believe in punishing me via physical disciplines, this caused me to be lazy, and be quite bratful. After getting disappointing grades and gaining weight, I wanted to change this. Futher detail will be provided to people interested I don't mind any genders or age, just as long as you are willing to become a discipline and mange me! Thank you!
  6. Are you ready for a spanking party? Can't attend one in person? You are invited to our virtual event. [Smack's Basement](http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Libra/84/243/27) is hosting, a virtual spanking party in [Second Life](https://join.secondlife.com/?lang=en&utm_source=Google&network=g&campaignid=1493539903&adgroupid=57071407629&placement=&keyword=second%20life&matchtype=e&creative=354241927410&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI5Py4wrSZ7AIV0cDACh1kEQgGEAAYASAAEgJriPD_BwE). Spin our "Wheel of Fortune", and receive or give the spanking it decides! Hang out with other adult spankos from around the world. Play, connect, and discuss, this hobby of ours. When: Thursday, October 8th, at 6 pm PST in-world. IM if you have any questions, or need virtual directions. See you there! -Smack
  7. I'm seeking an (ER) who can really spank my butt real red until I cry. I have so much guilt inside that I can't even say what they are because there are so many of them. An (ER) who is very strict, firm and, strong from beginning till the end. Having my butt red and stinging is all I need. It doesn't matter how long it takes.
  8. I have been involved in this type of therapy for quite some time, I will not be redundant about My qualifications. There are times when a girl requires a sound bare bottomed spanking, whatever the reasons. The spankings are strictly confidential, in the safety and security of her or My environment. There are also other means of discipline that are available. You feel as a female know what you need and have the desire to seek relief of the guilt, shame, curiosity or behaviors that you know are not good, W/we need to talk. Contact Me here or My yahoo account, I do have a kik profile also, the id is overrmykneemiss I work in real time scenarios only Be Well, Rick.
  9. I have been into spankings as long as I can remember. I guess I thought that my own spanking needs might subside as I grew older, but that has certainly not been the case. So here I am, in a totally vanilla marriage, with not a hope in hell that she will see to any of my needs or desires. Sure, I can beat myself silly from time to time and even pay for a professional disciplinarian a few times a year, but what I am really after is a spank buddy. If you are in the Atlanta area (north of the Perimeter preferred, as it creates more opportunities) and would like to start down the road of building an enduring spanking relationship, please get with me and let's see where it goes. My ideal person would: Live relatively close to Roswell / Alpharetta Be able to host (though I can from time to time) Require no sex acts Be a true lifelong spanko, like me Be female, but also open to males that meet all my other expectations Look to form a long-term relationship, as I can see us getting together no less than once a month, likely bi-weekly. Anyway, there's more on me in my profile, so if you are at all interested please check me out. If nothing else, it would be great to continue to make friends and perhaps somewhere down the road our paths cross.
  10. Date: Saturday, March 3rd, 1-4pm Location: 1763: http://www.1763.net/Home.html Dress Code: On the nicer side of casual. The Spanking Club of Atlanta, or SCOA is a club we formed to focus on the distinct needs of spankos in Atlanta, Georgia. Anyone interested in OTK, bare-bottom spanking is encouraged and welcomed to attend. SCOA is an inclusive spanking group, open to all genders and orientations. Different people are attracted to spanking for different reasons. For most spankos, spanking isn’t just physical, but also psychological. This may include how someone feels emotionally, or center on particular implements (like a hairbrush, a belt, a wooden spoon, etc.) or connect to certain physical and mental sensations (like having their pants pulled down beforehand, getting scolded, or being placed in a corner). SCOA’s focus is to give spankos space to feel more comfortable with their interest, to discuss spanking with others, and potentially to find play partners. There is no singular method to enjoy spanking play. Whether you like spanking just for the sensation of giving or receiving spanks, or use it as a way to release stress or prefer to play out pretend disciplinary scenes--all are valid modes of expression. We do not hand out stickers or badges for “tops” or “bottoms”, and we certainly do not assume that a person "is a spanker" or "is a spankee" without checking with them first. Use your words, get to know people, and ask. The answer may surprise you. At SCOA, we spank using our bare hands, as well as the typical domestic spanking tools like belts, paddles, hairbrushes, spoons, etc. There are other clubs and groups where you can use your whips, crops, floggers etc. We understand how difficult it can be to act on your spanking interest. Sadly, many lifelong spankos, never make an attempt to connect and fulfill their lifelong wishes. This doesn't have to be you. it well worth it to push past the nervousness, talk with others who share this interest with you, and feel less alone. If you're a novice or even a veteran, there is no pressure to play if you'd rather just talk with others in a relaxed atmosphere, surrounded by people just like you. We look forward to meeting you.
  11. I am dominant. There are many facets to the D/s relationship. I am particularly interested in one -- Power Exchange. This will be necessary if you sincerely need to feel the emotional, mental, spiritual, and physical of discipline. I am very experienced. I spend time with you to better understand the area you have come to feel as a stirring within, a burning -- it is passion that you feel. There is a time, a period when that feeling was realized and the emptiness can be painful. Discipline is far from taking one in hand. It is taking one's mind to a comfortable zone whereupon the essence of the punishment becomes a sensation juxtaposing the past with the present. In many instances there is a sexual nexus. However, that is a private matter to be held close to you. You will not attempt to physically involve me in those thoughts. adult, The discipline session is one that brings forth a cleansing. You will feel safe, cared for, and that care involves firm corrective action. You will feel small if that is needed. You will feel like the cheating husband/wife/both. You will feel like the neighbor who has been peeking in windows. Whether you are a child, teen, young adult, or mature still in need to respond accordingly to correct behaviors, the failure to act, the guilt and/or shame precipitated by failures you will come to me to find a release. Traditional discipline, scolding, spanking (with various implements, e.g., hand, brush, spoon), lecturing throughout the punishment, repeating what I state, responding to questions put to you, and soaping if necessary. Caning, paddling, props, clothing. I want you to truly fee l and appreciate the discipline that you seek. Safe, sane, consensual. Negotiations. Safe word. Aftercare. Follow-up the following day through five days. However, you may away reach out to me. I will have you tuned into my verbal commands and cues. I will guide you. Serious inquiries only. If you're looking to have me overtly sexually stimulate your carnal desires please do not waste time. Finally, it it is stress relief and/or guilt holding you down reach out to me.
  12. I’m looking to connect with a female to role play online a discipline scenario from my youth. Drop a line and I can go into more detail. Be safe !!
  13. Hi there I am a non sexual disciplinarian from Pittsburgh with a lot of experience will to help anyone with accountability or stress. Hope to help CP
  14. I’m interested in meeting a *female only* disciplinarian and/or spanker. I’m in NC but open to surrounding areas as well. I have some experience and this is something I take seriously.
  15. I hope your day is going well! I'm a 29 year old male disciplinarian, looking for women who need online discipline. I am aware online discipline is different to real life discipline, but I believe it still is effective and helpful. If you are no where near a disciplinarian or simply can't find anyone you feel comfortable with, this has prooved as an excellent option. In my experience I know we can find a way to make the online discipline work for each individual and their needs. Be it punishment, motivation, maintenance or for some purely for their own excitement. If you are interested, have questions or want to know more about me first I would prefer to talk more over PM. I hope to hear from you. Thank you. Michael
  16. I’m a 40F in Boston blonde and green 5’6 130. I’m looking for a man who knows how to be a wonderful boyfriend but isn’t afraid to give me the good spanking I deserve when needed. i tried posting a pic and it was way too large so feel free to check out my albums serious inquiries only xo lexi
  17. I am old-fashioned and still believe a woman should be obedient. I feel that things run smoother when she has structure, accountability, and boundaries to live within. She then knows that if she breaks a rule, procrastinates, or shows bad behavior she will be immediately punished. I have over 50 years of experience in dealing with errant women, I am slender, 5’9”, 145# and work best with women who don’t weigh more than me, I can be severe if you need it or you repeat the same act of disobedience. I will spank you with my hand and implements, as your behavior calls for. I believe that other forms of punishment are also needed such as lecturing, corner time, embarrassment, writing goals or reports, etc. I cannot host, please contact me directly to, Doc, at cp4u2009@yahoo.com
  18. If you are astray and need structure, accountability, and old-fashioned strict discipline back in your life then it is time to stop procrastinating and do something to correct your “bad” behavior. I specialize in women who procrastinate, are constantly late, text while driving, overspend, smoke, and keep a messy house. This is consensual and non-sexual and you will have a safe-word if you think you need it to use but I expect you to take the punishment you have earned even if you have to take a break while it is being administered. I have many years of experience in providing all kinds of discipline and mentoring. My methods may be painful and embarrassing but they will get results. I use the tried and true methods including bare bottom spanking, with or without implements. In some cases, I may also use mouth soaping, enemas, corner time, scolding, and assigning essays. I live in the mountains west of Denver but get into Denver often and travel to the Los Angeles area also. Contact me if you are interested in strict discipline. I cannot host. Thanks, Doc at tisdoug@protonmail.com
  19. Hello, im located in northeast Philadelphia and looking to receive a father/son or mother/son style disciplinary spanking.looking for a spanker who is preferably mature and can give a fast and hard otk spanking with their bare hand, spoon, and brush. Then have me lay on my bed or bent over as they belt or paddle me. I am willing to try any implement besides the cane.
  20. 32 Rogers Arkansas! Disciplinarian Need ASAP! Hi my name is Wylde, and I am looking for a disciplinarian in Arkansas! I’m a masochist when it comes to spankings and have been spanked with almost every implement there is! I’m trying to find someone who would be interested in giving me discipline spankings but also can give fun spankings! I looking for someone who is experienced in giving spankings! Looking for mature older guys! I need someone who is going to be Safe Sane and Consensual! Someone who will listen to safe words! Someone not interested in sex or bondage or anything hardcore. Just looking for someone who can hold me accountable for my actions! If you are interested or know someone who might be interested please read my profile and send me a message! I’m also on Fetlife, I have way more content over there including videos! Thanks for taking time to read this! Wylde!
  21. I have been a member of SN since 2006. I am also a retired university professor with about 25 years in the classroom. About a month ago there was a posting “any teachers here?“. The 0P was looking for a simulated college classroom environment . That posting got me thinking ... There are many folks who, for a lot of different reasons (geography, disabilities, or social limitations etc) are unable to participate in anything more than self spanking. That is unfortunate. I wonder if the concepts of the “ virtual university classroom” on an appropriate site would resonate with many spankos. We could expanded to include virtual sororities, fraternities, or the even the “detention room from hell“. The possibilities, being virtual, are endless. Role players could represent evil nuns, retired reformatory house parents, or whatever else would fit the scenario. Skype, iPhone’s FaceTime, or other platforms seem to make this possible. Is there any interest out there? Let me know, and if there is significant interest, we’ll see what can be done. Y2S
  22. bareotk03

    Any one in Idaho?

    Boise area here. Looking to see if any one else is in Idaho
  23. I am a Florida based Disciplinarian accepting new mentees/spankees for 2017. I am based in Tampa and travel for my career so I am available in several states. As a Disciplinarian of 20+ years I have used spanking therapy to help many adults for a host of things whether it was procrastination, poor study habits, drinking too much, quitting smoking, laziness, poor work ethic, and many other irresponsible behaviors. If you are lacking accountability in life, feel free to inquire. You are welcome to send me a private note with any questions you may have.
  24. Hi all, I'm a seasoned disciplinarian, looking for wayward ladies who seek online punishments for behavior correction (or just for fun).I'm highly experienced with providing structure and accountability, and adjusting bratty and disrespectful attitudes. I am strict but personable, communicative and very discreet.PM me if you'd like to talk.
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