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How do others deal with the idea of desiring a spanking, but also legitimately wanting to follow your rules as to not get one? It seems like such a weird issue, but when you have a desire to feel the calm and controlled feeling that being put in your place brings, it seems like a hard thing to then have to brat or purposely break a rule to get it. I suppose there are “good boy” or Maintenance spankings, but I’m not sure it would be the same?
For many people, this desire we all have isn't just a want- it's a need. I've heard a lot of stories about why some people need it or where it all started but they are so different, every single story. What about you? How did this all start for you?