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Head of household, and a switch?
EvolvingSpanko posted a topic in RolesOk I have not seen this addressed before but it's me and I'm curious about others interpretations and experiences. So my girlfriend and I practice the HOH. She is very submissive to me in all things outside the bedroom. She sets her goals and is punished if she doesn't reach those goals and she thrives in that situation. Knowing I expect her to accomplish things gives her the boost she needs, much more than just doing things such as cleaning and exercising because they need done. So that's the normal part. But I also need spanking for stress relief and motivation. She notices when I do and does take control and deliver, but only in the privacy of the bedroom. My question is how to transition from being in total control to submitting for my own good. I have toyed with the idea of a specific set night being her time to be in charge. All thoughts welcome.