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Hello, Michael here. I am an athletic Switch looking for a friend. I am a 70/30 Top/bottom. I enjoy both roles. I am happy to spank a naughty girls bottom and I have plenty of experience. I am a professional with a good job. I am clean, discreet, and respectful. Also, I will gladly submit to a stern woman. I am willing to travel and I always like a public meet first. Let's chat!!

In order to fully appreciate the level of pain being inflicted, should ERs try switching role, at least once? I would imagine that the most important responsibility of a spanker is to understand how hard is too hard, and respect limits. How many of you ERs have done this? And what do REs think of this idea?

Introductions are the worst. The only way I know how to introduce myself is the same way I do everything. Let my ADHD take over and....well you know it usually works out. So where to start. I've been a life long spanko (man we need a better name for that) but I have never actively engaged with the community side of it because I was always worried about how it would look or that it wouldn't work out, you know those typical things. • I'm a big D&D player so you know my role play is top notch. 🪄 • My usual routine is gym, hyper fixate on a book or drawing 🖌️ • I went to school for physics! On the more intimate side of things, I've actually spent most of my life as purely a top. Putting sassy ladies across my knee and spanking them red was everything I loved romantically and sexually.... ...Till I sassed the wrong lady once and found myself kicking and pleading across her knee while my bare butt was thoroughly spanked 😅 I guess that was sort of an awakening and well it turned me from Top to switch in a long denial process that I didn't know I was going through at the time. They say the devil is in the details though so I hope I can make a good impression! (Unironically if you play D&D let's talk 👀)

I posted a similar post on ipunishment, but i figured I would cover more ground here as well. It is very hard to find spankos by region. And i have noticed a lack of spankos in Wisconsin. So in the spirit of us finding one another please respond to this post so if anyone searches for wisconsin they can find other members. Thank you kindly