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  1. Looking for a female age 18-30 to give a good spanking. Will travel to you or get a room. Must live in NJ
  2. Anyone in New Jersey area looking to get spanked? Looking for a female between the age of 18-26
  3. Stern but good-natured spanker/disciplinarian in Bangor, ME looking for female spankees or subs. You don't have to be local. I would be happy to provide travel expenses to the right person to come visit. I also own a cabin on a lake in Northern Vermont where I like to host parties for like minded adults.
  4. Let me introduce myself by saying I'm excited to be here. I'm struggling with a dilemma. I've lived a spanker's fantasy life. The gratitude I feel towards the strong and independent women that have placed themselves over my knee is boundless. My years of being a caring, domestic disciplinarian have been nothing short of blissful. Sadly, though, I've never been able to explore my desire to be spanked by a caring and firm woman. A majority of the women I meet are either decidedly submissive or dominant. Very few are in-between. I'm not necessarily looking for anything romanti
  5. My name is Spencer. 20 years old. I am in need of a self spanking held over the phone for being naughty and disrespectful. I have a high pain tolerance. Looking for a long hard spanking from a man or woman who will scold me and ensure that I am very thoroughly spanked. I have a bath brush, wooden spoon, and plastic rod. I can also go cut a switch. Looking for marks/bruses. If interested, text me at (813) 524-9764 and include your username.
  6. My new free blog for my writings https://otkromance4.wixsite.com/shewrites
  7. Hello spankers. I have recently moved back to Aurora, CO and have had a little experience being spanked as an adult. It has been quite a long time since my last real spanking, about 5 or 6 years unfortunately. I would really like to find someone to spank me on a regular basis. Someone who understands I am nervous and that I need to be very discrete about this. Ultimately I want my spanker to be my friend, mentor, disciplinarian and even therapist (in the sense that I see being spanked as being very therapeutic).
  8. Hello, as the title states i'm a F sub in Los Ángeles possibly looking for an online mentor. Vibes are important, i'm super down to earth, and would love to get to know you. However I am not looking for a face-to-face as I am currently in a committed relationship. Let's chat, id like to show you my true submission. Ask for a pic if you'd like : )
  9. So I meet with this girl and today was our second time meeting each other and we came to my house. After some awkward banter we started making out. Till today I had never kissed anyone so I didn't know what I was doing, just copied what she did. But when we got more into I really didn't know what to do with my hands. This mostly because I have always seen myself as a submissive so I never thought about it. She's also a submissive but stated she also would like to be a Dom. So her first task as my mistress was for me to be dominant. So that didn't go so well for me kinda stayed stuck in a loop
  10. Hey everybody I'm a young athletic male 21 years old looking for a spanking in Atlanta Georgia. I can host and I'm also a switch and have more experienced spanking than being spanked if that interests you. Message me if you're interested.
  11. 20 year old male seeking a dominant spanker. Here's hoping I find someone. 5'7 Bit chubby Hispanic Will do my best for you.
  12. Ok so after a quite eye opening interaction with another member, I came to realize I'm too complacent with my position in life and need change. My problem is the complacentness towards my issues. Those issues mostly being ok with being as overweight as I am; I'd love someone to help guide me through this, being 19 I still feel like I am 14 no direction just really doing what others say. Idk if spankings will do this but a strong figure I think would help. Would like a female but male will work, guess it won't matter in the end if it's kept professional. Hope the long text didn't bore you. XOXO
  13. Something that I've been thinking about recently... I'm not naïve enough to think that the adult to adult need to give or receive spankings are only brand new needs that originated in our generation. As I explore my family genealogy I wonder, does the interest follow genetic lines? Did I have ancestors that dealt similarly with the subject as I do? Despite life being much more automated, when they were laboring to meet daily needs for survival, were spanking thoughts in the recesses of their minds? Was domestic discipline more prevalent? I wonder how in past generations how the subje
  14. Sorry for the lengthy post; I know it's long but there are some very helpful parts I think. These ideas are not mine, I did not write them. They're from "Dom's Guide to Submissive Training vol. 1." I found it very informative and wanted to share it here because I figured other people would as well. Keep in mind, this is just one way of doing things. This won't work for everyone and I am not even saying it would work for me, I just though some people might benefit from it. It is also from a book for D/s not just spanking, so some things don't apply, and while the author uses a female as the su
  15. As the title says, I am a naughty incorrigible submissive. I just as readily give my total submission as I do being a naughty and well nigh untamable brat. I am obstinate, opinionated, willful, stubborn, cheeky and insolent shrew. I have a rather unique situation which does not permit me to engage in real life spankings right now but, that has a possibility of changing. I am always interested in online play and interaction. I am married and although my husband is into kink, he hasn't practiced it. It's a long story. So, if you're interested in at least chatting about spanking and discipline or
  16. Okay this site always shows up when I am researching and I guess I can't fully understand everything on my own so I'm going to jump into this. Oh and if this isn't the right site for this, umm it will be great if you can direct me somewere I can go...I mean if you can. Please and thank you. Umm. Hi. I'm Leakana, Lea for short because it's much easier. I know I am naturally a submissive. I was in the dating world and to put it simply I was quite annoyed with it. Tried of dating people that were looking more for a meet and...umm fuck (I know I shouldn't use this kind of language, sorry!) rather
  17. Hi, I'm from Toronto. Looking for a Daddy. Serious only please.
  18. Hi. My name is Meghan. I'm here seeking a Daddy/Dom. I crave all aspects of this kind of relationship, not just the spanking. I would enjoy talking to anyone, either with experience seeking or interested in being a Daddy. If I am looking in the wrong place, I would also enjoy some direction as to where I should be looking. Thank you all.
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