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  1. OK. maybe sane and crazy are a bit strong, but I came to a realization that has me wondering once again 'Am I the only one?'. Not spanking, I know am not and you folks have helped me, through my posts and reading others, accept this side of me. Rather it is the reason why I self spank, and as often as I can. I am fortunate enough to have found a therapist, who I'm not sure is totally 'kink friendly', but is also not judgmental and asks good inciteful questions about this. Earlier this past week we spoke about the role spanking plays in my life; stress relief, feeling at peace, calmer, more focused, etc. That got me thinking and I realized that those are just attributes of what I'm feeling, especially after a good hard spanking, they are not the full picture. The full answer is that a spanking enables me fully let go of my emotions. Sometimes more so then others, and sometimes it takes a hard spanking to do that and other times an easier session gets me to the same result. The problem, is that made me realize that for the past year especially, and more then that, my main coping mechanism in this crazy world has been paddling my own bottom, and probably too often, and too hard. I can't decide if that being what has helped me cope is normal or just plain just sad or pathetic. Please tell me I'm not the only one for whom being spanked is a (or the) major psychological coping mechanism. Maybe it is the times we live in. The frequency and severity have definitely increased in the last year. The pain helps me let go, and that makes me feel better at least for awhile. And the period of time in which I feel better and normal, is wonderful almost beyond words. Is that crazy? Is what is keeping me sane, driving me crazy?
  2. One question to all of you that got experience. This maybe is a strange question but i will ask it. If a stress relief spanking take place and the person that is EE starts to cry is it better to stop spanking and allow the EE to let go by just crying or is it better to continue spanking despite crying of EE? Thank you for all your answers.
  3. A lot of what I have read on these forums says that a big part of a stress relief spanking, when done with a partner, is giving up control at least for that time. I know there are others on here who self spank for stress relief. How do you feel about not having the opportunity to give up control, does that impact the effectiveness of the stress relief from the spanking? Do you compensate in any other way? Do you find to achieve that sense of relief you need a long or hard spanking, does a shorter spanking help you at least in some way? I find my needs to get the sense of relief vary, so I'm wondering what others think. Thanks.
  4. It’s an early evening round of random thoughts in this Er’s head. My mind wants to relay thoughts that make sense about the want and need to warm a girls bottom, the process of chatting, talking, the nervousness she has about the whole process. Then the act, the positioning, the gentle reassurance as the spanking starts, from beginning to end, then somehow we bond, her and I, briefly for a time when both needs are being met. The magical effect of two humans joining together in understanding- maybe the power exchange?, maybe the euphoria of stress relief?, possibly the guilt, one or all of these reasons allow the endorphins to rush through our blood in an almost opiate induced feeling. She may leave with a warm reminder, the Er will offer a hug, knowing that He/She, somehow helped, the same hands still stinging a bit from her spanking can offer the girl comfort in knowing things are fundamentally ok. The twisted emotions and complex unsolvable problems that once were seemingly in control become a manageable accomplishment. I seem to have both read, studied, spoken with professionals and written seemingly volumes about this subject. Yes, a strange fixation this is ..... Be a good girl. Rick.
  5. I'm a married woman in New England, but my husband is not authoritative or powerful. I am very much in control of all aspects of life, and want to relinquish that. I have anxiety, guilt , feelings of inadequacy.... and I want a slightly older (45-55) man to take control and discipline me. I'm seeking someone powerful, intelligent, authoritative, and experienced. Must be fit, well groomed, discreet and trustworthy.
  6. I truly care about you and helping you to be your best! I do this through life coaching which includes mentoring, true caring about you, helping you to achieve your goals and holding you accountable. I help you by listening and creating an environment that is non judgemental of your self of past and I work improving your commitment to your future. Expect praise for things well done and bare bottom spankings for correction, accountability and stress relief.
  7. i don't know if miscellaneous is where this goes or should go. not really caring i need to vent. most men i've spoken with in the past 24 hours (save for two) are stupid and infuriating and i want to throw a tantrum and throw - well maybe not rocks at them but smelly old socks or something. seriously YOU ARE THE REASON WOMEN LIKE ME "TURN" LESBIAN. i'm not, but after today i'm seriously considering it. i have no patience for games and stupidity. just leave me alone if you want to screw with a girl or her emotions. yes, i have a quick temper so i put up with a lot less stupid than most people before basically telling you to take a flying leap. if you don't like a strong willed woman and her opinions then maybe YOU'RE ON THE WRONG EFFING SITE because all the strong beautiful women i've met on here sofar have awesomeness, opinions and personalities and are more emotionally mature than most of you - ee's or er's! top, bottom, sub, dom, man, woman - WHAT THE HECK EVER - nobody needs to be spoken to like a piece of poop, have a little respect, don't effing pressure people and for the love of gosh can someone notify me if this is a pickup / smut / slimey site because i'll leave already, but i was told it wasn't and that's what all the guidelines made me think. but holy crap with the creepy factor lately and the idiocy i've been encountering here and abroad. i'm going to poll for the hell of it.... *POLL TIME* rage rage rage rage. uno out//
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