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My Take on Spankings
RedButtMaker posted a topic in General Spanking DiscussionA few people in the past had asked me "why do you enjoy spankings". I probably said this before but spankings have a lot meaning for different people. For me, it's numerous things... Firstly, I just really love having a grown woman over my knee. Imagine being like 30 or something and you're getting put over a knee like a 6 year old. Nextly, watching a bottom turn 50 shades of red is very nice too. Just a beautiful sight to behold plus, seeing a blushing ass is like seeing her face blush. It's just so cute. Then there's the "Spank(ee) Dance" as I call it. It's hilarious watching them writhe and wriggle on your lap, trying to lessen the pain of getting their bottoms tanned. And that leads to us pinning their arms and legs down. Some could say doing that is mean but it's for their own good. It keeps them safe from falling off and we have to keep them from trying to stop our progress. Look, we get it. It hurts but it's a spanking so it's supposed to. And the more you try to stop us from spanking you, the longer this takes and you're just making it hard for yourself. The quicker you let us do our job, the faster will end for you. Sometimes, I like to hold their hand to try it make it seem better for them but I digress. Anyways, another reason I like to spank is because I like hearing their screams and begging for it to stop (call it cruel or twisted but I'm a sadist so... sorry not sorry). Spankings don't end until the spanker says so, not the spankee. When you've been bad and you submitted to being spanked, sorry to say, you lost most of your rights. So any demands/requests you have become void. Which leads to my next reason why I like to spank. Having the spankee exposed and vulnerable. Adds to the humilation of being spanked. Maybe even giving them a wedgie for humiliation. It's to foam in the fact that they have no says in the matter but more importantly, foams in the fact that they should not misbehave ever again. Something else I like about spankings is the aftermath, the post-spanking. Cuddling them to ensure that they're safe and stll cared for and loved. Spankings are never to be done in anger. It should be for correction and discpline (unless stated otherwise). Also, cornertime. Putting them in timeout is good. Having them facing a corner with their buns steamed with their hands on their head or bent over to have their tanned bottoms put out in case for more spankings... It's all fun. And it's so they can reflect on their behavior which is most important. So, overall, there's many different reasons to like giving spankings... But the big one is how real it is. There's a sense of genuine when it comes to discipling. You scold them on whatever misdeed they've done, foam in the fact the fact what they did was wrong and sound like a disappointed parental figure. Then placing them over your knee to spank. Spank firmly not hard, again, to foam in the disappointment of their poor decision. Then spank them over their underwear where there's less protection (not that pants, skirts/dress or shorts do provide any sort of protection) and add in some more scolding in the mix, you can spank harder now if you wish but it's not required... Then you spank them on their bare bottom, add a implement if you desire and finish up the job. Again, spankings do hurt so pin them to keep them from moving... More importantly, maybe the pain they feeling isn't just from having their buns baked but from the settling realization of how bad they were and how disappointed their "parental figure". Then end things off with cuddling, applying ointment and praising how well they took the spanking. Tell them still loved and they're not mad at them (never should be mad ofc) and tell them all is forgiven then ship them off to cornertime (or have them write lines/an apology letter, not required but is something you could do). So yeah... That's my take and love on spankings and why I do them as a spanker. It's the three Cs... Connection, Correction and Care. Or maybe three Cs and a H... Connection, Correction, Care and Humiliation (cuz I'm a sadist but you didn't hear that from me, he lied)
Otkmedicine posted a topic in Senior Spankos's Share with the group.Does anyone else feel nobody wants to spank their behinds because of their age? I mean i look at the vids and pics of the gorgeous young behinds. just wondering.
Best way to get to know me is message me, don't be shy I love to chat with anybody I am an experienced traveling Disciplinarian/Spanker based out of Manhattan NYC. I am a mature and responsible 29 year old male with around 7 years experience, and over the years I've spanked both young ladies and older women. I've enjoyed everything about spanking since I can remember, but really got involved and started acting as a disciplinarian about 7 years ago. I enjoy taking on the role and fulfilling this void for any naughty girl whose been searching for somebody to do that for them. From helping you break those bad habits, to needing motivation, roleplaying and also for any of you curious to experience that first real discipline spanking you've often thought about. And although I'm from NYC and Long Island, I travel quite often so don't let location stop you from introducing yourself. Sorry Spanking ONLY and I only spank females. And a real good spanking at that, pants and panties down around your ankles with a bright red sore bottom before daddy's done spanking your bottom ? Can also email directly at firstname.lastname@example.org