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  1. This is a very simple self spanking game. you post something you need spanked for. The person below you comments it's. what your punishment will be and you must do it before you post again. I've been procrastinating really bad I own a wooden paddle a small wood hair brush and a heavy wood bath brush
  2. OK. maybe sane and crazy are a bit strong, but I came to a realization that has me wondering once again 'Am I the only one?'. Not spanking, I know am not and you folks have helped me, through my posts and reading others, accept this side of me. Rather it is the reason why I self spank, and as often as I can. I am fortunate enough to have found a therapist, who I'm not sure is totally 'kink friendly', but is also not judgmental and asks good inciteful questions about this. Earlier this past week we spoke about the role spanking plays in my life; stress relief, feeling at peace, calmer, more fo
  3. I'm looking for female spankers to direct me in spanking myself. Feel free to contact me if interested :)
  4. I have questions to does of you who used cane for spanking and/or self spanking. How do you use cane the correct way during self spanking? Do you know any videos that are a good tutorial about self spanking and usage cane? Or maybe a blog with good tutorial with pictures?
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  7. As a spanker, I do not understand this concept. Understand the need to be spanked might be so strong spankees feel the need. The art of positioning must awkward, impacting in the right place and with the right force must be difficult. Would imagine it would leave the spankee dissatisfied. Am I wrong?
  8. Hi naughty spankees, You've committed all kinds of naughty misdeeds this week & now it's time to pay. Confess 1 or 2 misdeeds on this thread and I'll assign you a directed self-spanking punishment that fits the crime. From trivial offenses like flirting with a married person to serious offenses like missing a deadline, I'll make sure that the bare-bottom punishment fits the crime! Any confession posted by midnight EST will be answered ASAP. In the meantime, Happy Spanking!
  9. I'm asking for a friend who wants help self spanking and she suggested a homemade self spanking machine. Neither of us know how to make one of these and would be open to suggestions/designs or help. It would be nice if it had a trigger she could hold down which caused the spanking to continue until she let go. Nothing fancy, and the implement attached isn't terribly important as long as it hurts. This should hopefully help her overcome the "This feels stupid" feeling that self spanking often produces. Any advice in that area would be nice as well. Thank you!
  10. On this site, and other things I've seen and read; there seem to be some myths around self spanking. I'd like to try to put some facts around those myths, fully realizing that this is one person's perspective, and your mileage may vary. Let me address this from two types of spankings. I self spank for stress relief and relaxation the vast majority of the time, very infrequently for discipline. So I'll address stress relief spanking first. Myth #1: Self spanking doesn't work. I can attest that it does. It has taken time and effort to get to where I am now, but like anything els
  11. Has anyone ever been able to make your self cry during a self spanking? I have not been able to, but there was 1 time years ago I came Very Very Close. I wanted to keep going until I started to cry but it hurt so bad I could't continue. I forgot what I did wrong but I was very mad at my self and I gave my self a Very hard spanking... If you ever made your self cry with a self spanking please explain.
  12. Hello all! I'm 31, female, currently living in the USA (MST) but not looking for any face-to-face discipline. I am looking for guided self-spanking as I am trying to stay on top of daily and weekly tasks. Also looking for other spanko friends. Nice to meet y'all.
  13. What do you find is best position to get a good punishment? Do you have a mentor or just discipline yourself? Do you find it effective? I'm getting better but I know its mild in comparison to what I'll get when I get a real life spanking
  14. Hello guys! I am an 18 year old spankee just here to introduce myself. I used to be spanked by my girlfriend but after a rough breakup, with all other issues aside, I crave the need for spankings again - mostly for stress relief. This seems like a decent forums, and I hope to have a good time here!
  15. Hello, I used to self-spank, but it has not had the same satisfaction as a real one from my ex. At the same time though, I don't feel comfortable with physically meeting up with someone on here and would prefer to be guided in self spanking for now. I like being spanked sort of erotically, but also as stress relief and discipline. I also don't like the "overt sexualization" of other sites and lack of intimacy, which is why I came to this site. Private message me if you're a female spanker willing to assist me in "online spanking," thanks.
  16. So I'm wondering as someone who has only self spanked so far what are the bigdifferences in the two? My last self spanking was VERY effective and its over 24 hours later and I still feel it. For anyone that's had both what are the big differences? Especially in pain and how long you feel it after? Curious before I get my first administered spanking!!
  17. Hi I'm new here. I'm married and not looking for anything sexual . For now I want to start self disciplining but need a mentor. I do not want to send pictures just talk online. Most of my discipline will be for weight loss but maybe some other things I need help with improving too.. I am very self conscious and a shy person.
  18. i'm a 18 yo girl and i've done some really bad stuff and i think i must write this can anybody be my mentor and give me self spanking tasks? please, help me, i need it a lot
  19. Mature, serious Disciplinarian, expert in assigning self-spanking directives to women for the purposes of discipline, behaviour modification or erotic stimulation.
  20. I was feeling naughty so played hooky the other day instead of getting some work done. I posted about it in a self spanking group and got the following punishment order: "Procrastinating on work isn't good, so I recommend a total of 100 on each cheek with a wood spoon and then standing in the corner for 30 minutes before you repeat the 100 per cheek with the wooden spoon. That should help with your procrastinating on work." So 400 (!) spanks with the wooden spoon, plus a half hour of corner time?! That seems way out of proportion to me, does this seem fair to you?!
  21. I've been very naughty.. Someone please assign me a position and a number of spankings. I have a cane, and a kik (laaaaake) < that's five a's.
  22. So, totally regretting my actions now... Have some things I'm trying to work on and I fell into them again and now I'm being punished for it. If anyone is looking for a good long punishment, use Capzasin-HP. This is also known as a "silent spanking." from what I've read on the interwebs. I hurt my foot yesterday really badly, enough to be out of work for at least the next week, maybe longer if it's not just a strain, and when my mom got home we got into it cause I can't handle when she starts asking how I could do this again. I've broken both of my feet back in high school, two different chu
  23. Help!!!! I do directed self spankings with my Master watching and telling me how many swats with what implement and where to apply said swats via Skype. Yesterday, I had my first spanking in almost three months and towards the end my left arm was KILLING me!!!! (I alternate between the two hands right hand right cheek/sit spot/thigh left hand left cheek/sit spot/thigh) Anyways, I was wondering/hoping all of you fantabulous people here could give me some advice or pointers that might help me be able to not be in agony by the end of my spanking. I'm referring to my arm(s) being sooo sore I can
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