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  1. Okay folks. I know we have had some vigorous discussion about consent in the past. But I don't see any recent threads in here that really get to the heart of the matter. This can be the proverbial 3rd rail when it comes to this things we do. There are lots of critics out there that just plain don't like adult spanking, and concoct every form of criticism to deter or suppress it. The one critical area that I would like to touch on, and get input from everybody, is the issue of consent. What are your specific criteria that must be met to establish that your spanking activities, whethe
  2. Has anyone been spanked while wearing an anal plug? Thoughts?? Was it for punishment or pleasure/any precaution measures taken? I want to be safe going forward! Thanks for the input.
  3. (I was going to put this in writing punishment, but to me it seems more appropriate here even if it's fiction. Please move if you need to.) So, I was looking for stories online and randomly came across this one. It is well written but shows how badly things can go when you ignore safety protocols and/or your gut feelings. It ends kind of abruptly, I'd love to read the next chapter, but it's true to life in this way. This is a good story to show the pitfalls, but since it's a story, people can perhaps heed the warning instead of arguing with the "author" about what they should have d
  4. I want to say, first, that there are two very helpful threads going on at the moment, started by @shygurl. One is a list verifying those who are willing to/have met someone in person. Another is a list of people others have spoken to by way of a voice medium. Someone messaged me today and asked if I would mentor them at the recommendation of someone else. The person who recommended me to this person has absolutely no idea the kind of person I am at all. We have barely spoken. Recommendations are great and it is a wonderful compliment when someone recommends you as an EE or ER...If the pe
  5. Wow, its been a long while since I posted here! Welp, here we go again~! So I was wondering, what safety words do we all use? I know some go for the "Green, Yellow, Red" technique. But that can only cover (or uncover hehe) so much. What words do you seem attached to using for safety in the various fetishes out there? For me it depends on the partner(s). I use the word "Banana" for one spanking partner, but then use "Pineapple" for another. There's actually a funny story behind using Pineapple! It came from a friend of mine threatening to give me one after I had been over her ho
  6. Welcome to our Spanking Safety and Advice forum. Please share any advice or safety tips that may be helpful to those new to the lifestyle. Post your tips here or start a new topic. Have a question about safety, looking for advice, here's where to ask.
  7. Hi all! This is my first post, I'll start with a little background then straight to my question. Recently my girlfriend and I have decided to kick our spankings into high gear. I now have a set of rules for her and she receives very strict spankings for breaking them. No warmup and full force spanking. These leave her sore for multiple days and bruised for at least a week. We both get a ton from this and it has amped up our relationship in a major way. On to my question. It seems that she tends to break rules ~ every 7-10 days on average. My basic question is how safe is spanking at t
  8. I have recently been exploring a personal ads site for spankos. I have had some nice chats with a few ladies, some of whom live in my area. I want to explore the possibility of meeting one or more of these women in person for a spanking session. But I am a worry wart with a touch of OCD. Here's an example: I'm 64 and there is a VERY young lady who is 19 near me who wants me to spank her. All we have ever done online is do a little role play and exchanged photos. Assuming we would meet at my apartment, isn't she taking a horrible risk? She is entering the apartment of essentially a stranger be
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