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One advantage of being a man who is a switch, might be, appears to be, the capacity to go professional. As I approach being middle aged, I’m still an adult spanking virgin. I think it would be almost fair to call me a frustrated spanking chump. My needs are emotional as an EE, and just community service as an ER. Hetero all the way. As previously posted by myself, I’m open to but do not expect to meet any partners online. I know I have a lot to offer, but it’s not worth peacocking my personal situation online in order to interest women. Why? Because my job would kill me with guilt and shame if they found out. Even though I suspect that half of them are all manner of freakaholics themselves. It’s a hypocritical and political war zone to work where I work. Going pro is something straight men can do so long as their need is to be the EE. It’s not illegal to pay for a spanking in America. Granted, my needs as an EE are emotional, and I don’t expect to get the emotional needs addressed and understood by a stranger-professional for a half hour. Butt, pun intended, might it possibly be better than nothing? At least I’d have experience of some sort. It’s not like I have an addictive personality, where I’d bankrupt myself by paying for pros until I’m beyond broke. The professional would already be prepared with ways of handling stranger-danger with myself. I wouldn’t feel compelled to hit her over the head about the fact that I am safe. One session could hypothetically be worth years of reflection for me. And yet, this far, I have never been motivated enough to make the next move and contact a professional. This despite my prolonged frustrations. What does the SN gang think?